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Cosmo For Your Guy: 4 Ways To Romance Her On A Date
Posted on January 12, 2010 06:00 pm by Jennifer Benjamin, US Writer
Photo: "The Invention of Lying" courtesy of Warner Bros. Pictures
Even if your “anniv” is not for another couple of months or your “monthsary” is three weeks away, it’s never too early to put more romance into the relationship. And what better time to boost the romance than at the start of the year? Here, some sweet, non-mushy ways to channel Cupid.
Tune In To Her Tastes
Most guys think romance equals a dozen roses. But they’re cliche and some women don’t even like them. To really earn pogi points with your girl, you have to do your homework and figure out what she’s into. “Paying attention to her favorite flower, food, and wine shows that you care about and understand her,” says Carolyn Bushong, author of Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With. So rather than bring her the ol’ standby buds, pick up a couple of tulips (if those are her fave) or that siopao asado she always craves for.
Turn It Into An Event
A romantic date should feel superspecial—like prom night, minus the limo and corsage. Meaning: Make it a production. “Anyone can drop money on dinner,” says Douglas Weiss, PhD, author of Intimacy. “But when you put time and effort into planning something extraordinary for your girlfriend, it makes her feel appreciated.”
Start by telling her a couple of weeks in advance that you have a surprise evening planned, so she has something to look forward to. Then have a few fun things set up, like drinks at a hotel bar, dinner at a fancy restaurant, a concert, even a catered meal at your place.
Go Old-School
No, you don’t have to throw your jacket over a puddle or anything, but a little bit of chivalry can’t hurt. “Everyone likes to be nurtured,” says Weiss. “That’s why simple gestures like pulling out her chair, helping her carry her things, or just opening the door for her will make her feel taken care of.”
For bonus points, try this smooth move: When you get to the restaurant, hand the server your credit card on the sly and tell him to charge the dinner. That way, there’s no haggling over who’s going to pay when the bill comes. You’ll just sign your slip and say, “It’s taken care of.” Very smooth.
Make Her Feel Special
Compliments are always nice, but what’s even better is showing your girlfriend that you only have eyes for her. “You want her to feel like she’s number one,” says Bushong. “Put all of your focus on her: Ask lots of questions about any dreams she has, maintain eye contact, and touch her hand while you’re talking.” You can even use a not-so-cheesy line, like “I think you’re the hottest girl here.” That should guarantee you some loving later.
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22. I agree! men should read outloud!
March 09, 2010 at 12:17 am report abuse -
21. men should really read this!
February 10, 2010 at 07:54 pm report abuse -
20. make her feel special,,always!
February 10, 2010 at 10:59 am report abuse -
19. Men should treat women with care. Fragile items kami eh. =)
February 08, 2010 at 09:22 pm report abuse -
18. Go Old-School - this is my fave.
February 08, 2010 at 05:00 pm report abuse -
17. guys are wired to care for women but they find it hard to show affection..sigh..
February 07, 2010 at 06:20 pm report abuse -
16. Guys should have to be sensitive also with our feelings. They should be consistent with their feelings toward us.
February 07, 2010 at 06:03 pm report abuse -
15. Men should always treat women nice.They should always please and respect women all the time.
February 02, 2010 at 02:39 pm report abuse -
14. He makes me special in so many ways... I'm glad I told him I love surprises kaya ayun one day he surprised me with breakfast in bed yum yum!
February 01, 2010 at 04:54 pm report abuse -
13. hahaha u nailed it Go old school. Gusto pa rin natin yung chivalry and gallantry qualities ng men. my husband is like that, still opens the door, pulls the chair and etc for me
January 30, 2010 at 03:36 pm report abuse -
12. Make Her Feel Special
January 29, 2010 at 04:59 am report abuse -
11. Ang sweet naman ng mga boyfriends nyo.. pero mas sweet yung husband ko hehehe =)
January 23, 2010 at 09:58 pm report abuse -
10. this is a really great article. remember i said i'll show this to my bf? gosh it was our annive yesterday so he brought me to a yatch. gosh. it was really romantic. =)
January 22, 2010 at 06:56 pm report abuse -
9. my bf sent me 4 dozens of roses
January 21, 2010 at 01:07 am report abuse -
8. im gonna show this article to my cousin...
January 20, 2010 at 11:18 pm report abuse -
Sheila7. Me too! My guy is totally clueless! Hay!
January 13, 2010 at 10:22 am report abuse -
6. I'm gonna print this one.
January 13, 2010 at 07:52 am report abuse -
5. true! i'll show this to my bf. =) thanks.
January 12, 2010 at 11:50 pm report abuse -
4. i have seen this film hahaha the invention of lying.. hahaha
January 12, 2010 at 11:46 pm report abuse -
3. I would send this link to babe. :)
January 12, 2010 at 09:33 pm report abuse -
2. i just asked my husband to read this article.. hehe
January 12, 2010 at 08:22 pm report abuse -
1. MEN Should Read This!!
January 12, 2010 at 07:24 pm report abuse
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