4 Steps To A Fun, Fabulous Life

Ever wonder why your life isn't spectacularly sizzling? If you're usually the one left behind while your more courageous gal pals explore exotic cultures, have exciting trysts, and own fun, fearless lives, you might be a tad too careful for your own sake. Remove that manang-like cloak, throw caution to the wind, and start packing up. You're about to leave your comfort zone.

"I'm okay naman with my job and my life in general, pero I'm getting bored and restless. Something has to happen na talaga!" complains Tanya, 27, a project manager at a local marketing company. Just like Tanya, don't sit around waiting for things to happen. Instead, be more proactive in pumping up your potential. "We must be intentional about the choices we make in relation to our dreams, and set goals to ensure we are moving towards them daily," says Christine Caine in A Life Unleashed: Giving Birth to Your Dreams.

In case you don't know how or where to start, Cosmo has come up with this step-by-step guide to help you escape that wretched black hole of boredom, give your life the zing it needs, and ultimately, help you teeter cautiously over to the wilder side.

Leap Of Faith 1:
"You Gotta Have Faith."

George Michael was right when he rocked the 80s with this pop tune. Whether you're picking out a new office suit that'll make you stand out or choosing your next VL destination, you must be powered by faith. Rid yourself of the fear of trying. "One of the biggest threats to our potential is our lack of faith...And fear can cause us to walk away from our dreams," says Caine. Alice Neville, author of No Fear: Overcoming Panic Attacks and Phobias, likewise warns, "If you think you will fail, you will fail."

So jump aboard the faith bandwagon and trust that the universe will help you achieve your dreams and conquer your fears. Caine adds: "Although taking the leap may seem risky, even crazy, it's faith that will take us to our dreams. Faith will equip us to do what we've never done before--usually what others are afraid to do--and achieve what we never thought possible." Believe and trust that you can make it. "Banish those negative thoughts that are holding you back and replace them with a positive determination to overcome the obstacles that sometimes appear to be so daunting," advises Neville.

Chargin' Challenge:
Set your sights on a concrete goal, like traveling alone to Cambodia, learn Zipping, or finding out your five-year crush’s name. Keep a reminder of your faith-charged target (write it down on a piece of paper or cut out a photo that represents your dream) where you can easily see it, like your cubicle tackboard or your planner. Work on that dream by imagining yourself living it out. Remember: The initial step toward achieving something is believing you can actually do it.

Leap Of Faith 2:
Make A Choice

"Although I've always wanted to try traveling on my own, I was always too praning to book myself a solo flight. One day, I decided to go right ahead and do it. Buti na lang I did it right then, because I caught this airline promo that cut the fare by almost 70 percent. Sobrang timing! Suwerte ko!" shares Tinee, 25, a quality assurance manager. Tinee got lucky--she was able to fly to Hong Kong on her own at such a great price. To up your chances of getting the same lucky break, you must "seize the day! Make a decision and surprise yourself!" advises Caine.

Don't let your ningas kugon 'tude stop you from working on your dreams right now. "Indecision can cause us to miss our dreams," warns Caine. "Sometimes we choose to sit on the fence and procrastinate for so long the opportunity sails right by us."

Chargin' Challenge:
What are you waiting for? Start on your own dream ASAP! If you're too paranoid to spend your life savings on that European adventure you've been dying to have, at least start by laying the groundwork and get your plans moving. Research on your dreams, build contacts--like scour for the cheapest fares, best deals, and make new email pals--and jot down all your findings. This well-decided and methodical way towards achieving your goals will make them ultimately more reachable.

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