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How To Be The Life Of Any Party

You're probably welcoming 2010 with one bash after another. Cosmo arms you with exclusive party tips to make the most of the next one you’re attending.
Posted on January 1, 2010 12:00 am by Molly Triffin
Photo: "The Sweetest Things" Courtesy of Columbia Pictures

At every New Year's bash worth its margarita salt, there are fascinating social dynamics at work that can either impede or present hot opportunities. We mapped out how you can determine if a sexy guest is available, meet people when you're solo, or break into an A-list convo.

Singles Mecca

Food relaxes us, which is why people congregate at the buffet table or in the kitchen. It's also the best place to catch an unattached guest. To break the ice, approach the person from the side rather than head-on (an volutionary tactic to signal you're peaceful). Then, make a move by discussing a neutral object: "That appetizer looks so good. How is it?"

Hot-Guy Hub

Territorial by nature, men will stake claim to a piece of furniture, like a couch, and any electronics (computer, stereo, TV) nearby. Since joining cuties can be intimidating, wait until a couple of women have mingled in first--a posse of guys instantly becomes more gentlemanly in the presence of a chick, according to research.

The Core

Welcome to the party's nerve center--the biggest, liveliest group. Want to break in? Seek out a foursome (larger circles aren't as cohesive; trios are often reluctant to accept a new person). A great intimacy builder: Keep your drink only half full so you can say to someone you just met "I'm going to get a refill. Need anything?"

Monopolizer Corner

Steer clear of empty corners near the back of the room or you'll be a prime target for an annoying guy who wants to jabber your ear off (think Johnny Drama in Entourage). Should you fall into his clutches, angle your body toward the center of the party so he can't hold you captive betwe

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lalabong

25. Just be yourself. Don't pretend!
March 10, 2010 at 11:08 am report abuse
handpaintedsky

24. go go go party people!
February 10, 2010 at 11:58 pm report abuse
miss_techylicious

23. basta i enjoy the party na lang. no pretensions.
February 10, 2010 at 11:54 pm report abuse
miss_techylicious

22. i dont do papansin unless sa cute guy na gusto ko. i'l;l do it discreetly.
February 10, 2010 at 11:54 pm report abuse
summerinparis128

21. @casebats:i agree.the core!
February 10, 2010 at 08:34 pm report abuse
summerinparis128

20. haha.be urself.no pretentions!
February 10, 2010 at 08:32 pm report abuse
donnaportia

19. approach the person from the side rather than head-on (an volutionary tactic to signal you're peaceful). -Now I know why I usually get to be friends with someone beside me.
February 09, 2010 at 04:05 pm report abuse
miss_techylicious

18. just be spontaneous and nice. ppl will like you for that.
February 04, 2010 at 09:28 am report abuse
ecang12

17. 17.. nice..
February 02, 2010 at 12:17 pm report abuse
handpaintedsky

16. these tips make me wanna parteeh! :)
February 02, 2010 at 09:02 am report abuse
casebats

15. The Core-- dito ako!
January 28, 2010 at 06:08 am report abuse
miss_techylicious

14. Territorial by nature, men will stake claim to a piece of furniture, like a couch, and any electronics (computer, stereo, TV) nearby. Since joining cuties can be intimidating, wait until a couple of women have mingled in first--a posse of guys instantly becomes more gentlemanly in the presence of a chick, according to research. = agree. they should be gentleman in every way.
January 22, 2010 at 07:59 pm report abuse
reeya

13. this really help.
January 22, 2010 at 12:06 am report abuse
salmoncat

12. I think if there's someone hosting the party, it would be polite if you'd approach her/him first. Aside from tending to be center of the party, she/he could get you with other people.
January 07, 2010 at 12:19 pm report abuse
prettylass8831

11. Great tips. I can definitely do them in the future.
January 06, 2010 at 02:54 pm report abuse
chinky_baguette

10. all I need right now is a party to attend to!
January 05, 2010 at 02:20 pm report abuse
cymn

9. i will!:) thanks and cheers! AMISTAD :)
January 03, 2010 at 11:49 pm report abuse
fishbowl84

8. i definitely agree! very helpful tips :)
January 03, 2010 at 01:32 pm report abuse
alizey

7. Nice !!
January 01, 2010 at 06:45 pm report abuse
kobe_bear

6. helpful indeed
January 01, 2010 at 03:39 pm report abuse
darriane

5. nice, very helpful indeed
January 01, 2010 at 02:29 pm report abuse
xannebull

4. The best talaga if you're the life of the party, it would be a memorable one
January 01, 2010 at 01:02 pm report abuse
Myrajoy

3. Its good that you post this one..Definitely, a big hand...
January 01, 2010 at 12:46 pm report abuse
miss_techylicious

2. nice. i can attest that these are all effective *wink
January 01, 2010 at 12:28 pm report abuse
summerinparis128

1. Nice. I'll definitely apply this tips to an upcoming party I'm attending on January the 16th and I'll definitely be the "Life of the Party."
January 01, 2010 at 06:39 am report abuse