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Giving Too Much Of Myself
March 6, 2010 12:00AM | 31 comments
I lost my virginity when I was 20. I gave myself to someone who later left me for another girl. Now I found a single dad and he is fulfilling everything I need emotionally, financially, and sexually. But I am afraid I am giving myself to him too much. I don't want to find myself one day not being able to live without him.
- Thoughtful Sweetie, 24
- Thoughtful Sweetie, 24
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_confused31. i also lost my virginity when i was 20 for my bf. pero hindi pa rin pala nakapag-move on sa ex niya..
March 29, 2010 at 03:54 pm report abuse -
peks30. single dad lng nmn(he's not married,am i ryt?)ok lng yan. but make sure na mgtira k ng pgmmhal s sarili mo,pra f ever d kau mgclick,d k mxado msktan
March 19, 2010 at 10:58 pm report abuse -
29. Try to leave something for yourself girl! Take risks but be fair to yourself by making sure that you can handle it.
March 12, 2010 at 10:43 am report abuse -
28. lam mu yung mga ganung lalake hindi deserving! mawala na sila lahat!!! it's their lost not ours! be strong... and dito naman kay single dad... mahirap yan,, wag ka sana maging home wrecker. lumagay ka sa lugar ng anak nya(kung meron). papayag ka ba ng ganun?
March 11, 2010 at 10:23 pm report abuse -
27. PAst is past girl. Just move on.
March 11, 2010 at 01:35 pm report abuse -
26. dirty!
March 11, 2010 at 04:49 am report abuse -
25. learn to love yourself first
March 10, 2010 at 03:17 pm report abuse -
mamamia24. Don't be afraid to fall in love all over again...if you failed once, it doesn't mean that you will fail again for the second time...and even if you do, love again, for loving is the greatest feeling that we can share!
March 09, 2010 at 02:39 pm report abuse -
temper tantrums23. sad to say,but sometimes LOVE is not enough to make someone stay... if you wanted to fall deeply in love with him then go love him, but if it needs to end- LEAVE. It can be painful in the end but atleast you've been true to yourself and with your feelings
March 09, 2010 at 12:20 am report abuse -
22. that's it, you just said you cant live without him. that only means its worth the risk.
March 08, 2010 at 06:58 am report abuse -
jelle21. me and my ex bf - 10 years LDR, im still a v as well. the rel didnt work out though, time in my case isn't the basis to a lasting rel. pero ganun pa din ung sakit, ala naman xa nakuha pero nabigay ko pagmamahal ko eh kaya nung hiwalayan, muntikan ako naloka sa sakit. :(
March 07, 2010 at 10:41 pm report abuse -
20. huh??!! for 12 years te??? hindi kaya bakla yang jowa mo? o baka naman may iba yan di mu lang alam. hmm!!??
March 07, 2010 at 07:39 pm report abuse -
19. i agree to jelle. me and my bf are 12 yrs together and im still a V.
March 06, 2010 at 10:48 pm report abuse -
jelle18. well-said, Blackrose 'mahalin mo man ng sobra ang isang lalaki, or mahalin mo nang tama lang, basta minahal mo, kahit di mo binigay ang sarili mo, masasaktan ka talga pag iniwan ka nya... kasi nagmahal ka... bakit mo ba iniisip na iiwan ka nyan. '
March 06, 2010 at 09:53 pm report abuse -
17. tama..wag msyadong ibigay lahat lahat baka walang matira sau...
March 06, 2010 at 08:04 pm report abuse -
sheva16. wag kang matakot na mahalin mo sya dahil....alam mo... na mahal ka niya.....
March 06, 2010 at 07:31 pm report abuse -
15. balance is the key love him love urself and pray and evrythn will b alriyt gudluck:)
March 06, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
14. mahalin mo man ng sobra ang isang lalaki, or mahalin mo nang tama lang, basta minahal mo, kahit di mo binigay ang sarili mo, masasaktan ka talga pag iniwan ka nya... kasi nagmahal ka... bakit mo ba iniisip na iiwan ka nyan.
March 06, 2010 at 02:34 pm report abuse -
13. Leave something for yourself. remember that at the en dof the end, all you have is you and your self.pag nagmahal, dapat ginagamit din ang ulo, hindi puro puso lang.minsan kasi we can be illogical when we're in love eh.
March 06, 2010 at 01:24 pm report abuse -
wickedwitch12. it's in your mind lang na di mo kaya...i was in the same situation b4...it's like ur world revolves around him na kea ganun...wen we love dapat 50/50 lang...learn to love urself...mag-effort ka for the relationship but know ur limits...at least in the end ndi mo masasabing ikaw ang nagkulang kc u've done ur part na...dapat cia naman...
March 06, 2010 at 01:04 pm report abuse -
11. siguraduhin mo muna before taking another step.
March 06, 2010 at 12:52 pm report abuse -
10. I have the same situation. :c
March 06, 2010 at 12:35 pm report abuse -
9. then don't give too much,magtira ka for yourself.if the guy loves you,he'll stick to you...
March 06, 2010 at 12:33 pm report abuse -
mommy8. tama ka witchy-witch (6) agree na agree ko sa message mo. go Girl
March 06, 2010 at 11:21 am report abuse -
soOinlove7. if it makes you happy then go for it.what maatters most is your happiness
March 06, 2010 at 09:39 am report abuse -
witchy_witch6. when your feeling get stronger for someone, its always wise to stop and give your heart a time to breathe. A time to think, to use your mind, to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion. Because the saddest thing that can happen is when one falls in love when the other wants nothing but friendship. Love can sometimes be just be magic, but magic can sometimes be just an illusion...
March 06, 2010 at 09:38 am report abuse -
witchy_witch5. don't fall for him too much..dapt sakto lang,magtira ka pra sa sarili mo..kc in the end kaw parin ang masasaktan..
March 06, 2010 at 09:31 am report abuse -
knorth694. sometimes it takes an opening before someone could decide... well enjoy life
March 06, 2010 at 08:24 am report abuse -
3. go lang, today is a gift... no one can say what the future holds.
March 06, 2010 at 08:02 am report abuse -
2. have fun!..
March 06, 2010 at 01:31 am report abuse -
1. then go for it ;) Don´t be afraid what future holds. Life is too short my dear.
March 06, 2010 at 01:08 am report abuse
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