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Just Best Friends?
February 6, 2010 12:00AM | 57 comments
My guy best friend and I hung out together almost every day during my last few years in college. A week after my breakup with my ex, he picked me up so we could head to a club with our friends. The son of a certain public official, who was notorious for hooking up with chicks, entered the club and hung out at our table. He secretly asked my best friend who I was. To my surprise, my friend said, "Girlfriend ko." He nudged me and whispered, "Just pretend 'cause for sure kukulitin ka." The night wore on, with my friend and I holding hands to keep up the act, but the other guy still kept trying to make a move on me. He said he didn't believe that I was my best friend's girlfriend! So he dared us to kiss to prove it. Lo and behold, my best friend grabbed me by the neck and kissed me for real! I liked how it felt, so I kissed him back. It led to some steamy sex as soon as we left the club! We've been BFWBs (best friends with benefits) ever since, although he's already in a complicated relationship with someone else!
- meeks, 27
- meeks, 27
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57. this is actually very interesting...:)
May 09, 2010 at 03:00 am report abuse -
56. complicated nga...sayang...
March 14, 2010 at 02:47 pm report abuse -
55. Oh no! It's hard to keep a friendship pag ganyan na sis! Either way, may masasaktan in the long run.
March 12, 2010 at 12:20 pm report abuse -
54. it's very complicated.
March 11, 2010 at 02:13 pm report abuse -
ROXY53. WRONG MOVE...
February 18, 2010 at 06:30 am report abuse -
52. at 1st if you have this kind of set-up, you feel good about it. Coz of the steamy sex, the sneaking around thingy, the secret codes, the naughty looks & msgs..make it's more exciting. But before you know it you're falling deeply inlove with your BFWB. And you cant't do anything about it. And you found yourself wanting more of him, not just the steamy sex session you always do whenever he's around but the attention,the love and care you always wanted in a serious relationship. And if that longing for him doesnt materialize and love not reciprocated, you feel empty & miserable. That's the sad part of having these kind of set-up, definitely not for the weak heart.
February 12, 2010 at 11:34 am report abuse -
steph51. this isn't right! meeks, better hang yourself! you're just a rebound. don't be so happy. @milanie: "slut daw...di ba slot? hehehehe" >> kelangan mo ng dictionary mare!
February 12, 2010 at 02:38 am report abuse -
50. complicated! complicated!
February 11, 2010 at 01:03 am report abuse -
49. it really isn't good to cheat...
February 10, 2010 at 11:38 pm report abuse -
48. gee.. i wonder how will this story end..
February 10, 2010 at 04:18 pm report abuse -
47. not nice but if ur happy with the set-up.... GO GIRL!
February 10, 2010 at 01:12 pm report abuse -
46. break na kaya sila nung gf ni bestfriend?saluhin na lang sana ni kabit..
February 10, 2010 at 11:31 am report abuse -
45. he's still in a relationship even tho its complicated. and that's not nice.
February 10, 2010 at 06:51 am report abuse -
44. how i wish your best friend is not into any relationship.. happy ending na sana eh. hehe
February 09, 2010 at 11:05 pm report abuse -
43. BFWBs is not my thing./
February 09, 2010 at 09:46 pm report abuse -
42. ay ang sakit sa bangs. bfwb, tapos in a complicated relationship pa siya.
February 09, 2010 at 02:16 pm report abuse -
41. I have many guy friends but i've never imagined myself having an intimate relationship with any of them..it's creepy...
February 09, 2010 at 01:11 pm report abuse -
40. ang kati
February 09, 2010 at 02:36 am report abuse -
39. possible ba talaga ang best friends with benefits?ang hirap isipin patusin ko ang best friend ko haha!
February 08, 2010 at 09:42 pm report abuse -
38. slut daw...di ba slot? hehehehe
February 08, 2010 at 02:52 pm report abuse -
37. woooest
February 08, 2010 at 02:51 pm report abuse -
36. you made the complications even worst...
February 08, 2010 at 02:41 pm report abuse -
35. cool!!
February 08, 2010 at 01:46 pm report abuse -
34. parang mas ok kung for real nalang instead of being bfwb as what you've said..
February 08, 2010 at 10:00 am report abuse -
33. @the girlfriend: please avoid using offensive words. it is already obvious that she is a s***, so no need to say that...
February 07, 2010 at 10:27 pm report abuse -
32. sana maging sila, pag pray natin mga puri nila hahaha!
February 07, 2010 at 10:23 pm report abuse -
31. aw. haha. baka naman matagal may feelings sayo yung best friend mo, and he took the chance. :)
February 07, 2010 at 05:31 pm report abuse -
30. haha natawa ako sa shinota mo ang bestfriend mo. :))
February 07, 2010 at 03:44 pm report abuse -
the girlfriend29. slut!
February 06, 2010 at 11:46 pm report abuse -
28. hahahah best friends with benefits" ang haba ng hair..hehe kaya lang mahirap yan ive been there before bestfriend ko na naging bf ko in the past ha.. kaya ngayun sadly to say end na ung realation namin being friends parang ng kaka ilangan na.. and he knows im committed now and he has already hes gf too.. believe it or not 4 years without seeing each other no hi and hello at all.. vanished na lahat.. waaaaa
February 06, 2010 at 10:37 pm report abuse -
27. hahah ,,, nice ha!!
February 06, 2010 at 09:27 pm report abuse -
26. breakaway is right, girls are always on the losing end with this kind of relationship... I've learned my lesson.
February 06, 2010 at 08:46 pm report abuse -
25. i know you enjoyed it just be sure you know where you stand so there's no expectations on both sides.We're always on the losing end girl with this kind of situation, just be careful not to get hurt in the end.
February 06, 2010 at 08:39 pm report abuse -
24. oh oh oh...you've both crossed the line, make it for real na so you'llbe happy and at peace.
February 06, 2010 at 07:08 pm report abuse -
23. Nice! Bait ng best friend mo to protect you like that. Kaso lang, he's in a relationship with someone else na... Although, I hope you wouldn't let yourself be dragged along like that. The more this gets complicated, the more hurt you'll be in the end.
February 06, 2010 at 06:10 pm report abuse -
22. Hahaha! Shinota mo bestfriend mo!-Kim Chiu ikaw ba yan? Sana maging sila ni bestfriend =)
February 06, 2010 at 05:56 pm report abuse -
21. shinota mo beastfriend mo!:))))
February 06, 2010 at 05:02 pm report abuse -
20. bakit di na lang totohanin..hays..di p naman kau both committed as in kasal di ba?
February 06, 2010 at 04:02 pm report abuse -
19. sana wala nalang syang gf.. parang your the third wheel na kasi
February 06, 2010 at 01:33 pm report abuse -
18. sayang sana naging kayo nalang :p
February 06, 2010 at 12:27 pm report abuse -
pia17. wel true... BFWB is a hard thing.. lalo n kng n fall k n dun s guy.. u dont know paano pa ilulugar ang sarili m... u want to show to everybody that u r the gf, pero u know 4 urself n hnd naman talga,, and it kills u 2 see the guy with his gf,but then wala ka naman karapatang magalit kc brkada k lang.... sya gf.... :-(((
February 06, 2010 at 10:06 am report abuse -
16. BFWBs is just like pseudo relationship.. "the parang kayo pero hindi" haai.. I've been to that kind of rel. its fun, so much kilig but it really hurts.. u can't demand from him/her.. hindi mo maiiwasan mag selos at masaktan kahit no string attached. 2 lang kauuwian nyan e! 1. masira friendship nyo.. masaaktan kau parehas. 2. it will turn to a real relationship as a couple. swerte pag yung no. 2.. and luckily my pseudo rel. with my best turns out to be a real love relationship.. =')
February 06, 2010 at 09:55 am report abuse -
15. just like pseudo relationship.. ='( its fun and sweet but its complicated and will hurt you at the end..
February 06, 2010 at 09:47 am report abuse -
14. I don't really approve of best friends with benefits. It becomes complicated in the long run.
February 06, 2010 at 09:04 am report abuse -
13. what im curious about is bakit "pinagdadamot" ka nya sa ibang guy. you should be dating girl (that is, if you're not committed).
February 06, 2010 at 08:25 am report abuse -
12. ah panget ung ganyan, gamitan
February 06, 2010 at 05:59 am report abuse -
Randy11. OMG..That's COMPLICATED.. though, i love the idea of kissing just to keep your bestfriend from that guy..i can sense of a jealousy in him...hope you guys realize the LOVE in your hearts..wiss you both well!!!!!!
February 06, 2010 at 04:46 am report abuse -
10. i nvr had a bfwb.ano kyang feeling?haha
February 06, 2010 at 04:42 am report abuse -
9. haha,nice.it all started as friends.
February 06, 2010 at 04:42 am report abuse -
8. I guess that guy likes you too. He will not act as your boyfriend and take you away from that guy if he didnt like/love you more than a FRIEND. And one more thing, baka naman te payag ka lang ng payag sa chorbahan nyu??!! Better to become pakipot sometimes, malay natin he'll leave that girl then choose you dba? ay kilig!!
February 06, 2010 at 04:40 am report abuse -
7. BFWB pala. hahaha. bhelat kasi dapat hindi ganun ehh, haha!!
February 06, 2010 at 04:36 am report abuse -
6. ahhh. sad naman. mas okay if naging kayo right after that para bonggang kilig naman dba? well, that's life. am just hoping that you guys will end up to something soooo special rather than being BFWD.
February 06, 2010 at 04:35 am report abuse -
5. awwww. sayang. sana hindi lang friends with benefits ang ending niyo.
February 06, 2010 at 02:24 am report abuse -
4. Disappointed naman ako sa last, ok na sana eh. haha! anyway, complicated naman eh so malaki yung chance. Wait kana lang girl =)
February 06, 2010 at 01:25 am report abuse -
3. SO sad because you are not a real couple. Why don't you give it a try? Maybe you and your best friend will be a great couple.
February 06, 2010 at 12:54 am report abuse -
2. i don't know what i'll comment on this one. it's surely sweet, i was deeply kilig until i read the last line. sana sila na lang nung bestfriend niya tutal complicated na relationship niya with his gf, di ba?
February 06, 2010 at 12:06 am report abuse -
1. owww... sweet na sana eh. meron pala syang gf. it would have been nice if available sya.
February 06, 2010 at 12:02 am report abuse
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