Hello, Goodbye

Posted on February 6, 2010 12:00 pm by Cereb Gregorio, Editorial Assistant

If the only thing constant in life is change, then I look to the coming year with both fear and excitement. I’ve never been a big fan of change. Its unexpectedness is always unsettling, and it takes me a while to wrap my head around the idea of adjusting to new ways. Last month's issue on Fabulous Firsts has made me realize even more that change will always happen, and we need to embrace it, if only for the simple reason that it makes life more interesting.

When I started working for Cosmo, I had unruly, frizzy hair. I’ve had it all my life, so I’ve learned to see it as something that sets me apart from other girls. Of course, our beloved Beauty Editor, Nicole Delos Angeles, thought otherwise. For months on end, she practically lobbied to give me a makeover, or at the very least, have my hair straightened. Now, this wisp of a woman is truly a force to be reckoned with. She eventually got her way, and I ended up with straight hair—a fabulous first that I grew to love and thank her for.

The beginning of the year has ushered in a lot of changes as well. Three of the most fun, fearless, fabulous females I’ve ever met have decided to pursue dreams they have yet to pursue, and make way for more welcome changes in their own lives. Our former Fashion Editor Kat is now in New York, Beauty Editor Nic will have more time for family life, and Editorial Assistant for Art Beam will be able to focus on her crafts business. Although I’m sad that I will no longer be seeing them everyday, I am also comforted by the fact that all these changes are for the better. At the end of the day, our loss is their gain, and I can only be genuinely happy for them.

To Katreenuh, your unwavering optimism and perseverance is an inspiration to all those you encounter. Thank you for paving the way for me in this industry, for doling out the best advice, and for forcing me to do things I don’t want to do because they’re good for me. I have nothing but high hopes for you, and I wish you’d never cry again. You are sorely missed.

To Nicolette, you’re quite possibly the nicest mean girl ever. Thank you for showing me genuine concern in the only way you know how—teasing and bullying (or constructive criticism, whichever you prefer). You’re fun and funny, and I am blessed that I got to know you and work with you, no matter how short that time was. In spite of everything, you truly have a good heart. The aisle just isn’t the same without you. I can actually get some work done now. Haha.

To Beamerz, it still feels weird when I look across my desk, and I don’t find you. I’ve always been a big fan of your art (even if I mock your little crafts projects sometimes) and your ability to see the good in people. I hate the fact that nobody will readily offer me help anymore, like you do when you hear me sighing. With your crafty hands and the way you work, I am confident that you will succeed. I wish I had the money to fund you, so I can be a part of that success.

Even if it meant turning their lives upside-down, these girls all had the courage to take a leap and pursue their dreams, and that is truly admirable. I hope we can all arm ourselves with the same courage in the year ahead.

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23 Comments

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  lalabong
  23. Memories are still there! That's life is all about.
  March 11, 2010 at 05:45 pm report abuse
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  butter-diner
  22. cosmo staff are really G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S
  February 10, 2010 at 11:42 pm report abuse
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  donnaportia
  21. nakaka-touch naman toh..
  February 10, 2010 at 09:31 pm report abuse
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  miss_techylicious
  20. dfghdfgdfgdf
  February 10, 2010 at 09:07 pm report abuse
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  alizey
  19. wow.. so sweet
  February 10, 2010 at 06:19 pm report abuse
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  chamillistars
  18. awww cereb this is bucket-of-tears-worthy! don't worry, sam and i have lots of constructive criticism for you :D it'll be as if nicole hadn't left! haha! how's that for kat-and-beamerz optimism?! :p just don't call me "you-know-what"!
  February 10, 2010 at 05:33 pm report abuse
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  veronica
  17. this is so nice. thanks cosmo for giving these articles that keeps inspiring young women like us to be strong, take the risk and be confident about our decisions. more power!
  February 10, 2010 at 12:59 pm report abuse
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  fishbowl84
  16. owwww.. thats sweet.. and sad :(
  February 09, 2010 at 10:47 pm report abuse
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  gagaoversamyg
  15. awwee...beam is leaving too?well we just have to look at the bright side of it..they will grow and conquer the world...cereb i hope u will stay for long ha...;)
  February 09, 2010 at 03:34 pm report abuse
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  toughgurl
  14. ang fab niyo sa pic na yan!=) It's really difficult to face changes especially when it involves the departure of a loved one. on the other hand, just keep in mind that it's for the best and everything will be bearable in the end. after all, the friendship will not be put to an end.
  February 08, 2010 at 09:13 pm report abuse
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  miss_techylicious
  13. oww.... so sweet naman of cereb. i've read the msgs. kakalungkot na nakaka-touch.
  February 08, 2010 at 05:18 pm report abuse
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  milaniecandido
  12. thats reality
  February 08, 2010 at 03:22 pm report abuse
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  shirleylim26
  11. Friends come and go but there will be memories that will stay forever.
  February 08, 2010 at 01:53 pm report abuse
• Nicole
  10. aww, cereb :) first, i wanted you to embrace your natural hair texture...but you declined :) second, are you moisturizing and applying sunscreen? those walks will age you ;p lastly, i miss you too :) xoxo
  February 08, 2010 at 11:29 am report abuse
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  mamaii26
  9. hello they are beautiful
  February 08, 2010 at 08:35 am report abuse
• kat
  8. hi joyful mom! Yeah, I'm here in NY studying! BUt hopefully I'll see you again somewhere, soon! I miss the Cosmo girls waaah!!!!
  February 08, 2010 at 02:55 am report abuse
• Beamm
  7. Love you, cereb! *tear*
  February 08, 2010 at 12:32 am report abuse
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  muffmuff
  6. *wipes tears from her eyes* miss you kat, nic, and beamerz.
  February 08, 2010 at 12:06 am report abuse
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  tinnnnn076
  5. a simple turn of event can make a big change in your life. this what makes life more interesting.
  February 07, 2010 at 10:49 pm report abuse
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  shirleylim26
  4. It seems that all of you are enjoying each other's company. It shows in your eyes. Good job Cosmo. I had been in the same situation and it was really hard for me at first to accept the fact that the other members of our team decided to change paths but what matters is there is good memories that we've shared and it will be treasured forever.
  February 07, 2010 at 08:47 pm report abuse
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  handpaintedsky
  3. this is really sweet.the cosmo team is indeed a fab team. i wish the former cosmo team members luck in their respective endeavors! :)
  February 07, 2010 at 10:03 am report abuse
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  retz
  2. You all girls looks stunning!:)Sad talaga pag may umalis,pero ganun talaga eh. Each of us has our own dreams & desire to fulfill.
  February 06, 2010 at 09:51 pm report abuse
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  joyfulmom
  1. Kat is in US, does it mean we''re not gonna see her in Belle de Jour events?
  February 06, 2010 at 07:12 pm report abuse

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