MAN MANUAL
3 Phrases Guaranteed To Win Over Your New Man
Posted on January 4, 2010 06:00 pm by Laura Gilbert
If you want that new guy you’ve been seeing to be yours in 2010--and stay with you for the entire year and longer--here are three lines you should bust out to win him over completely.
1. “That’s hilarious!”
When a dude is trying to impress you, he’ll crack jokes to ease tension and show off his personality. Telling him that you dig his sense of humor will help him relax. It means even more to him than simply hearing you laugh (though of course, he wants that, too), because it reassures him that your chuckle is genuine.
2. “Let’s eat Italian tonight.”
Men crave a chick who expresses her opinions. So, when he asks what you want to do, don’t respond with “Ikaw? Kahit ano.” Instead, suggest something you’re in the mood for. Worried he won’t be into it? Present a few options, and have him choose his favorite.
3. “You really get me.”
When you feel like a guy is connecting with you, tell him. Men often don’t pick up on the subtle signals you send and wind up stressing about whether you like them. Vocalizing that he understands you boosts his confidence and lets him know that you’re bonding.
Sources: Susan Campbell, PhD, author of Saying What’s Real; Herb Goldberg, PhD, author of What Men Still Don’t Know about Women, Relationships, and Love
Tags: dating,newly dating,man manual,understanding men,decoding men,new year,new man
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34. Just be yourself! Yon ang panunutunan ko talaga.
March 09, 2010 at 12:19 am report abuse -
33. the phrase "you really get me" is a sure way to make him smile, because it shows that you 2 click.
February 10, 2010 at 07:58 pm report abuse -
32. thanks for the tips.
February 10, 2010 at 07:52 pm report abuse -
31. âYou really get me.â - ego booster.
February 10, 2010 at 07:48 pm report abuse -
30. âLetâs eat Italian tonight.â - like italian sausage. :)
February 10, 2010 at 07:42 pm report abuse -
29. âThatâs hilarious!â - harharhar
February 10, 2010 at 07:36 pm report abuse -
28. guys sometimes needs a little bola form girls
February 10, 2010 at 11:19 am report abuse -
27. Just be youself. -The Golden Rule.
February 08, 2010 at 09:23 pm report abuse -
26. yep. dont be afraid to speak your mind pero be tactful or else, magiging cheap ka na. wag laging i-me-myself ang drama. walang may gusto sa ganun.
February 08, 2010 at 05:02 pm report abuse -
25. Men crave a chick who expresses her opinions. Don't just shut up. Give suggestions.
February 08, 2010 at 11:30 am report abuse -
24. guys need hints..hehe
February 07, 2010 at 06:22 pm report abuse -
23. If you want to win over your new man just be yourself girl.
February 02, 2010 at 02:37 pm report abuse -
22. #3 is difficult to say 'coz most men don't really get us women. It's hard to make them understand such things and we always end up arguing.
February 02, 2010 at 11:03 am report abuse -
21. men love it when we laugh at their jokes and they like it more if we lightly touch their arm during the conversation.
February 01, 2010 at 05:00 pm report abuse -
20. na guilty ako with #2 haha! ganyan kasi ako minsan.
January 31, 2010 at 01:08 pm report abuse -
19. but u need to rehearse before saying this kundi magmukha kang ewan hahahah but i agree men by nature are hungry ng acceptance and appreciation ...
January 30, 2010 at 03:38 pm report abuse -
18. âLetâs eat Italian tonight.â
January 29, 2010 at 05:00 am report abuse -
17. A guy loves a woman who has a mind of her own. So ladies learn when to speak your mind.
January 23, 2010 at 05:01 pm report abuse -
16. i catched this flick, the ugly truth and i've learned so much. these tips are great! =)
January 22, 2010 at 06:57 pm report abuse -
15. ugh! i hate the "ikaw, kahit ano" phrase. a lot of women do that, thinking it's the nicest thing to do
January 22, 2010 at 04:18 am report abuse -
14. 100% agree!
January 21, 2010 at 02:53 pm report abuse -
13. agree with miss_techylicious and crysh. that's basically what lines 1 and 3 are, compliments.
January 09, 2010 at 10:00 am report abuse -
12. you really get me Cosmo.. LOL :) btw, i love the ugly truth movie!! one of my faves.. nice photo here!
January 06, 2010 at 11:07 am report abuse -
11. It look effective ha. Sayang wala akong mapaggagamitan nito. I will just read it again if I already have someone in mind!
January 05, 2010 at 11:40 am report abuse -
10. I totally agree with all of the above.
January 05, 2010 at 10:49 am report abuse -
9. GUys really want to be complimented. That's how they are.
January 05, 2010 at 10:42 am report abuse -
8. The first line really works
January 05, 2010 at 09:01 am report abuse -
7. Nice.This advices is so applicable to me since I recently become single,I'm enjoying it though butI'll better use this phrases to the guy I'm eyeing to win him.hehe
January 05, 2010 at 02:58 am report abuse -
6. from what i observed, guys totally digs girls who are aggressive and independent.
January 05, 2010 at 02:54 am report abuse -
5. YOu really get me
January 05, 2010 at 12:59 am report abuse -
4. just be yourself..
January 04, 2010 at 11:51 pm report abuse -
3. simply praising them would get their attention =)
January 04, 2010 at 10:49 pm report abuse -
2. those lines are sure effective, ive seen it on movies hehehehe
January 04, 2010 at 08:18 pm report abuse -
1. weeeeee im the first commenter!!!
January 04, 2010 at 08:18 pm report abuse
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