Men really get off on bringing you ultimate bliss. Then again, sometimes they just want to lie back, enjoy, and have you take care of everything for them. “But they think that if they come right out and ask you to focus just on their pleasure, they’ll seem selfish,” sex therapist Carole Altman, PhD, author of Sex Talk points out.

• “This one girl I dated loved getting me off orally. Not only would she make moaning sounds while she was doing it, but she’d also look up at me to watch my reactions. If I even tried to reciprocate, she’d push me away until I was done. I loved that my satisfaction was so important to her.” - Pete, 35

• “My ex-girlfriend was a morning person and always wanted to get it on in the AM. But I could never summon enough energy that early. So she used to rub against me until I got hard, slip a condom on me, straddle my hips, and get down to business. All I had to do was lie there.” - Carl, 26

• “Don’t get me wrong, I love making a woman come. But if I’m tired, I might not want to start something I know I won’t be able to finish. This one girl would take care of me when she knew I’d had a long day. She’d say, ‘Don’t worry about making me come tonight.’ Then she’d get on top of me and move really quickly, so I’d get off in about five minutes. It was such a stress relief!” - Alex, 32
  

• “It’s so great when a chick gives you an out-of-the-blue hand job. Usually, I only get it as part of foreplay. So when a woman just leans over and gets to work while we’re watching TV and it doesn’t lead to anything else…man, it’s so hot. And I’m always willing to return the favor at another point.” - Sherwin, 28

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