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8 Struggles When Traveling Abroad Without Your Parents For The First Time

'I should've arrived at the airport 4 hours early like my dad always does!'
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1. Figuring out how to get through the airport

Before: You’d simply tail mom and dad, who are in charge of leading the entire family from the entrance, through all the confusing counters, and to your designated plane seats.

Now: Bakit ang daming counters!? Security ba muna bago immigration?! NO ONE TOLD ME I HAD TO PAY TRAVEL TAX WHERE WILL I GET MONEY?! The lines are so long—what if you don’t make it in time for boarding? You should’ve arrived 4 hours early like what dad always does! 

2. Getting lost...A LOT

Your parents were often in charge of navigating. Even if your family was the type who preferred the safety of organized group tours, your folks still made sure you all made it back to the bus or meeting spot on time. Now you need to figure out everything on your own—how to read maps and signs, how the public transportation system works in that country, and how to make it back to your hotel in one piece. 

3. Budgeting!

Why are there so many miscellaneous expenses in the airport alone? How do you stretch my daily budget so that you can buy more souvenirs? Hmm…street food every day to save money maybe? Wait, did you bring enough money?! 

4. Waking up late

With no mom as your human alarm clock (and worse—if your travel buddies are just as much of a snoozer as you are), you have to set multiple alarms to make sure you make it to breakfast and the scheduled tour.


5. Realizing that mom was the ultimate girl scout

You never used to worry about packing contingency items because mom had everything you needed—baby wipes, insect repellant, medication, extra socks… almost every item for every possible emergency.  Now that you’re on your own, you sift through your bag and realize you forgot to bring a lot of essentials. Yikes.

6. Trying and failing more than once

You’re no longer following your parents’ default travel style. Freedom! The downside is that you go through a lot of travel booboos, like getting lost in translation, overspending, forgetting to exchange your dollars, and missing the train. The upside: You discover your own personal travel style. Do you prefer traveling solo or with friends? Hostel or hotel? Tour guide or DIY? 

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7. Playing it cool when something goes wrong

Whether your parents easily allowed you to travel without them or it took a PowerPoint presentation plus months of begging before they finally gave in, you find yourself wanting to prove your #adulting skills. The last thing you want is for your parents to worry and think that you can’t handle independence. So when something bad happens—like getting pickpocketed, losing your travel docs, or getting stalked in the subway—you downplay it when your parents check on you. You plan to tell them about hitchhiking or getting stranded alone in the train station when you return home—or maybe you’ll just keep it to yourself forever.

8. Being homesick and afraid to admit it

During your parent-free vacation, there are times you suddenly wish your family were with you. When you see a quaint little coffee shop mom would’ve loved or a dish dad would’ve enjoyed, you immediately send them a photo without trying to sound too clingy. But of course, as soon as you meet a hot guy at the beach, you forget about all your anxieties and tell yourself, “I’ll definitely do this again!”

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