BEDROOM BLOG BY VERONICA
Bedroom Blog By Veronica Season 3 Finale
Posted on October 27, 2010 12:00 am by
Veronica
Photo: "My Sassy Girl," courtesy of Vertigo Entertainment

Throughout the first three seasons of Cosmo.ph's Bedroom Blog By Veronica, I tried to write about the different types of guys that women my age (or at least close to my age) meet in a lifetime. There's the Matt type--the worldly *sshole who keeps breaking the hearts of even the toughest women. There's the Sam type--the boy-next-door confidante who, unfortunately, suffers the worst kinds of relationships. There's even the Archer type--the beautiful airhead. And then there's the Logan type—the jackass, crazy, sort of dense type, whose failed romanticism techniques sometimes make you hate him as much as you love him.
I wrote about the types of people we meet on our journey to womanhood—the people who still believe in us despite witnessing how we've fallen from grace, the people who keep talking and spreading rumors behind our back, the people who keep pulling us down and condemning us for being different, the people who love us because we're not like anyone else, and the ones who stay with us through the years.
I wrote about my career, my friendships, my detractors, my relationships, and even my mom's operation, which opened my eyes to the ways I used to live my life. I wrote about how hard it was to let go of something that was never yours. I wrote about how frustrating it was to be betrayed. I wrote about the things I had to go through before finding someone who would love me for all the crazy shit I do. Believe me, it's hard to find someone like that when your standards are as high as the Empire State Building. But I did, and it's worth all the pit stops.
During our first Cosmo Chat, a lot of readers asked me if the characters and stories in Bedroom Blog are true. I answered this: Bedroom Blog by Veronica is part real life and part fiction. The names in the blog—Veronica, Logan, Matt, Sam, Franco, Chi, Lily, and everyone else—may not be real names. But as Vince O. Teves said in his first book, they are REAL people, as most of you have already proven when you chatted with me online or even met me in the flesh--right, Amie Perez?
I'm not perfect and I never will be. I will be forever biased and highly influenced by my closest friends and family. So whatever insights I write in this blog, please treat them as one girl's take on love, life, and relationships.
And speaking of relationships, Logan may not be perfect either, but I'm starting to realize that he's just the right fit for me. Pun intended. He's not always original when it comes to the biggest romantic gestures, which is why most of the time, his gestures fall flat; he also uses music to express his feelings. On the last few pages of our first shared journal, he decided to copy My Sassy Girl's "Ten Rules" but added another one to make it "Eleven Rules" since we celebrate our month-anniversary on the 11th day of the month. I didn't say yes to him on December 11, 2009, but we decided to celebrate it every 11th anyway because it's the number that meant a lot to us. So here are the 11 Rules that Logan wrote:
11 Rules About (real name deleted), My Very Own Sassy Girl
- If you want to be her lover, you have to get along with her family, especially with her dogs.
- If you are dating her, don't try to impress her too much—she will kill you. Just be yourself and don't forget the coffee—it calms her.
- If you're hanging out with her, you must be willing to do piggy-back rides, pulling her up the stairs, and kissing her a lot.
- She is moody at times, so you have to be patient with her. I mean REALLY patient.
- If you're trying to tell her something and can't explain it well, think twice or else it will get you into trouble.
- If she asks you to do something crazy or sweet, just go with it. You won't regret it.
- Don't tell her what to do. She would not listen anyway. But you can offer suggestions.
- She loves to write and she writes well. Read her work. She'll appreciate it.
- If she is not communicating with you in any way, you should come to her.
- If you love her and she forgets, take time to remind her by showing and telling her that you do.
- If she gives you her heart, take care of it and don't break it, because in return, she will take care of yours, too.
Eleven items aren't enough to list down the many rules when it comes to dealing with me, but Logan's list would suffice. After three seasons of Bedroom Blog by Veronica, even I couldn't believe that I'm finally in a meaningful relationship. Now that I'm already Logan's girlfriend, there are some things I would want to keep private. I hope you understand my reasons.
So, I guess this is goodbye, huh?
Thank you for reading me for three whole seasons. I hope that I have inspired you through my entries since my first post in August 2009. May you find your own love story and think of it as your own ‘bedroom blog.'
This is "Veronica" signing off...
NOT!
Who am I kidding? Of course, I'll be back with more stories to tell. Besides, if you think that landing [on] a man is a woman's ultimate mission...let me ask in the words of Charlie: "What the f*ck is wrong with you?!"
After all, finding a boyfriend is just the start of another crazy chapter in one's life, or in my case, the start of Bedroom Blog by Veronica Season 4.
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23. there's always a great story in every blog you wrote V...more exciting adventures for season 4....
October 31, 2010 at 05:59 am report abuse -
22. haha, salamat naman sa special mention. :P watch out for the next season girls! the first entry is... abangan. :P
October 30, 2010 at 11:17 pm report abuse -
21. i really though your signing off for good.. haha can't wait for season 4:)
October 29, 2010 at 04:16 pm report abuse -
20. so like.....
October 28, 2010 at 03:15 am report abuse -
19. woot woot! :)
October 28, 2010 at 12:52 am report abuse -
18. Logan type—the jackass, crazy, sort of dense type, whose failed romanticism techniques sometimes make you hate him as much as you love him. --- love love this ... :D Can't wait for the next season ... :D
October 28, 2010 at 12:03 am report abuse -
17. You got me there. I thought it was really over. I am excited for the next season. WOOT WOOT
October 27, 2010 at 06:24 pm report abuse -
16. it woudl've been sad to see you signing off
October 27, 2010 at 04:09 pm report abuse -
15. ! i thought it was really over, girl! keep it coming, v!
October 27, 2010 at 03:32 pm report abuse -
14. go season 4!!! i really enjoyed reading your posts
October 27, 2010 at 12:29 pm report abuse -
13. I can't wait!
October 27, 2010 at 11:43 am report abuse -
12. haha! parang naiyak ako dun ah
October 27, 2010 at 11:42 am report abuse -
11. @V: After ng out-of town trip natin. Yung parehong nag-bitch out sa boyfriends nila tapos sabay nag-emo sa foodcourt ng megamall. I cant forget that day. hahaha :P
October 27, 2010 at 11:09 am report abuse -
10. i thought this would be the end! thank God its not!
October 27, 2010 at 09:11 am report abuse -
9. Waaaaa akala ko its ending hindi pA pala yahoooo i still have something to look forward to aside from my love's calls :) thank u v for inspiring a lot of women :)
October 27, 2010 at 05:46 am report abuse -
8. go for season 4, V! miss chatting with you. :)
October 27, 2010 at 04:38 am report abuse -
7. yeey! im looking forward to the fourth season of bedroom blog! and yes! you have inspired fearless women here in cosmo! :D kudos to you V! :D
October 27, 2010 at 04:17 am report abuse -
6. @lily18: which one? ang dami kaya non! hahaha. season 4! season 4! meeeeow18: oh yeah! *high five*
October 27, 2010 at 01:13 am report abuse -
5. oh yeah! on to season 4! :)
October 27, 2010 at 01:09 am report abuse -
4. @mimipots: Awww, thanks so much! That's so nice to hear. My God, three seasons na pala yun? :)
October 27, 2010 at 01:06 am report abuse -
3. Gosh V, kailangan magpakaba? Wala pa dito yung foodcourt meeting natin. Remember that? Hahahah!
October 27, 2010 at 01:06 am report abuse -
2. im gonna miss my routine everyday. checking out the V Blog early in the morning or staying up late just to be one of many people who read it first
October 27, 2010 at 12:31 am report abuse -
1. awwww!!! i hope the season 4 will come along asap. V you are on my list of great writers ever. i really learned a lot through your stories. keep it up and more powers to you and to V blog :)
October 27, 2010 at 12:29 am report abuse
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