BEDROOM BLOG BY VERONICA
Finally Letting Go
Posted on January 26, 2010 12:00 am by
Veronica
If I could go back to that time, I would have handled it differently. I don’t know if he ever gave a damn for my feelings, but despite what had been so obvious, I continued to stay hopeful and blinded. I was in love.
After all, I learned a lot from him—lessons both spoken and felt. I hope in time I can finally live up to what I keep telling myself because there’s simply no use being bitter and jaded. Still, I realized my dream because of him; I came across the answer to my questions over stale coffee at McDonalds on that rainy Friday night; I realized my dream because of our conversations, and I have him to credit for that. If not for those rare moments, I would still be lost now.
Thank you Matt—for allowing me to be close to you once; close enough that I could hear your heart beat and feel your soul as it burst into flames; and get hurt when you turned into ice. Thank you...because what I felt when I was with you was both delightful and miserable.
But I really must let go of that pain now—now that the memories are starting to fade. I really have to make a choice now...because I have to live my life in the best way possible.
I have loved you so much.
That love gave me the courage to open my hands and let you go; it gave me the push to try and spread my wings in a much bigger sky.
Maybe we will meet again someday...on a day when the sky will finally light up with fireworks just for me. And yes, I will fall madly in love again...with someone real.
That night I finally deleted the blog and listened to “Out of Reach” as I spent the last night crying myself to sleep over Matt.
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Tags: bedroom blog,veronica,Matt,sadness,heartbreak,heartache,love,relationship,dating,unrequited love,blog,blogging,Out of Reach
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174. this is probably the best news i've heard, or in this case read, today... :) ..cheers for letting go, moving on and deciding to be happy for once and for all.. :)
September 17, 2010 at 05:27 pm report abuse -
173. gud job gurl...finally you let go of that stupid feeling for matt...and im hoping and praying that u would find the right man for you...i know how it feels i've been in the same page like yours..its really hard to let go of the person you really love so much... sigh =(
May 18, 2010 at 12:56 am report abuse -
172. love comes to those who wait..
May 10, 2010 at 04:06 am report abuse -
mia171. shocks.. nakarelate ako grabe.. sana ganyan din ako magisip..
April 05, 2010 at 01:39 am report abuse -
thets170. I love the last line! :) I also did that and it helped! :))
April 02, 2010 at 01:00 pm report abuse -
169. it's ok, just move on.
March 31, 2010 at 06:23 pm report abuse -
168. I hate Matt.
March 31, 2010 at 06:23 pm report abuse -
167. Letting go of Matt is another way of saying you love yourself. I congratulate you!
March 08, 2010 at 07:13 am report abuse -
166. way to go girl! at last natapos na ako sa chapter 1. tapos na rin ako mainis ng bonggang bongga sa walang balls na Matt. lol.
February 24, 2010 at 02:52 pm report abuse -
veronica11165. @richiegirl: hi there! im glad you now have your fairytale after the nightmare. yeah, to hell with assholes! :)
February 17, 2010 at 03:42 pm report abuse -
richie_girl164. I've had also a similar story as yours. I've loved this guy so much for 5 yrs, but never loved me as much as i did...i even gave myself to him to prove my love to him, but left me broken. I let him go after 2 months of misery, until i met a good guy, my husband. Sometimes, God allows heartaches for us to experience so to realize that there's somebody who is worthy of our love. Junk that Matt! To hell with men who know nothing but injure women!!!
February 15, 2010 at 11:21 pm report abuse -
163. Letting go is just another way to say you always love him so. Maybe you had the right love at the wrong person and wrong time. Keep moving forward V. Forget Matt. He's a sad soul.
February 10, 2010 at 07:09 am report abuse -
broken162. :'(
February 09, 2010 at 08:48 pm report abuse -
161. If I could go back to that time
February 08, 2010 at 10:33 pm report abuse -
160. Let me just rewrite my comment coz it's incorrect, it should be: You're confused, your heart bruised, were you ever loved by Matt? NO. He does not love you, he does not care about you. It's a blessing in disguise V, because of him you were able to write again. Thanks for him!
February 08, 2010 at 06:52 am report abuse -
159. You're confused, your heart bruised, was you ever loved by Matt? NO. He does not love you, he does not care about you. It's a blessing in disguise V, because of him you were able to write again. Thanks for him!
February 07, 2010 at 11:09 pm report abuse -
158. hmmm..letting go of someone you love is really painful. but it's the best thing a person like you could do for your 'hurt' self. hugs from me :)
February 07, 2010 at 04:51 pm report abuse -
157. I too have listened to Out of Reach while crying. "So confused, my heart's bruised, was I ever loved by you?"
February 02, 2010 at 02:51 pm report abuse -
156. sa wakas...so meron pang chapter two V?..hehe..I know letting go of a person that you have once loved can be very painful.. But We bleed just to know were alive..and you have proved yourself as a cosmo chick , that no matter what happens your still ready to stand up..Go V!
February 02, 2010 at 01:51 pm report abuse -
155. still, be thankful to matt because he made things easier for you..to finally move forward..and he saved you for hooking up with someone who will only make ur life miserable.he made you see what kind of person he is without much effort coming from him..i know you're very sensible v and a very strong willed person.and i know,like everybody else,you will be okay and wiser next time.
February 01, 2010 at 11:46 pm report abuse -
154. i really like reading your blog V. it's sad but it's an easy read. thanks for sharing your story with us. it's nice to know we are not alone with our love-hate situations. be strong. and i hope you can get over matt na. he doesnt deserve you at all.
January 30, 2010 at 10:13 pm report abuse -
153. hi V. i just became your fan on FB. i love your status: Matt is a sad soul...a miserable, pathetic asshole. Goodbye Matt! --- as in! may dignity and maraming maraming ganito -- !!!!!! -- dapat may karugtong na -- Hellow Sam (malambing na voice). :)
January 29, 2010 at 08:48 pm report abuse -
Ms. Lonely Girl152. tnx! for the advice veron, i really2 appreciate it a lot
January 29, 2010 at 06:24 pm report abuse -
151. OMG 159 comments hahaha that's big! Hi V! you are a symbol of empowered woman. Go girl! make us all inspired.
January 29, 2010 at 12:50 pm report abuse -
150. @jhinggay: me too, i can't believe it! parang chat room lang :P
January 29, 2010 at 11:30 am report abuse -
149. @nightcrawler: according to cosmo, chapter 2 will kick off this february :)
January 29, 2010 at 11:30 am report abuse -
148. wow! can't believe it! umabot na sa 147 comments! hehe.. can't wait for chapter 2!
January 28, 2010 at 11:22 pm report abuse -
nightcrawler147. is there a chapter two already?
January 28, 2010 at 11:13 pm report abuse -
146. btw, please add me on FB: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Cosmopolitans-Bedroom-Blog-by-Veronica/244934326728
January 28, 2010 at 09:58 pm report abuse -
145. @chinkygirl: thank! :) there's gonna be a chapter 2 and i hope you'll keep reading me.
January 28, 2010 at 09:57 pm report abuse -
144. @nightcrawler: thanks! I hope so too :)
January 28, 2010 at 09:57 pm report abuse -
chinkygirl143. i've been reading your blog since august, and i've been your fan since your first post =)
January 28, 2010 at 09:07 pm report abuse -
nightcrawler142. @V: I would definitely read the chapter two, and if they would publish this as a book, I'm more than willing to be of some assistance..just keep me updated!
January 28, 2010 at 08:36 pm report abuse -
141. letting go is hard to do, lalo na kung sharp un memory mo, lahat lahat na aalala mo, sometimes your on denial pa kahit nasasaktan ka na. you keep holding on the good times and hoping na mangyari ulit pero di na pala, so it is so hard since then. :(
January 28, 2010 at 03:34 pm report abuse -
140. @Ms. Lonely Girl: If there's one thing I learned from my Matt Episode, it's this: you can't force people to feel the way you do, or stay with you if they don't want too. You'll both be unhappy lang. Be strong for you and your baby. YOu have a bundle of joy now and just like so many single moms I know, she will give you lots of joy. As for feeling empty without him...well you know the saying na before you love someone, love yourself first. Wag mo iasa ang happiness mo sa isang lalaki, you have to hold your happiness in your hands. Whew.
January 28, 2010 at 03:21 pm report abuse -
139. @V: no prob. your love story is part of our lives na. kahit abutin pa yan ng ilang yrs. :)
January 28, 2010 at 03:04 pm report abuse -
Ms. Lonely Girl138. yeah ur right veron, but how will i manage things up? i feel so blank w/out the guy, but smetimes my mind tells me that its better to stop and to end things. but how about my baby? ... i dont wnna force the guy to be with me 4ever because of our child.
January 28, 2010 at 02:23 pm report abuse -
137. @malditcha87: thanks! :) comment on the fb wall post din ha? :)
January 28, 2010 at 11:38 am report abuse -
136. @lady_sairi: thanks! invite your friends to read the blog and add me on fb too :)
January 28, 2010 at 11:38 am report abuse -
135. @sexygame: thanks! yeah, one of these days :)
January 28, 2010 at 11:38 am report abuse -
134. @andy: i know, right? :(
January 28, 2010 at 11:38 am report abuse -
133. @nightcrawler: wow, i have a male follower! :) thanks for reading and i hope you'll read chapters 2 as well. :)
January 28, 2010 at 11:37 am report abuse -
132. @hazel: yeah, im glad it's over. :)
January 28, 2010 at 11:37 am report abuse -
131. Just added you up! I like your primary pic. is that you?
January 28, 2010 at 10:23 am report abuse -
130. i just became your fan sis V! @ FB! :D
January 27, 2010 at 11:13 pm report abuse -
sexygwapame129. love that song so much,been my favorite song for a long time..ul find true love v, time wil come..
January 27, 2010 at 08:55 pm report abuse -
Andy128. Perfect song!!!
January 27, 2010 at 06:50 pm report abuse -
nightcrawler127. NEXT POST PLEASE... I'M A GUY WHO REALLY LOVE THE ART OF WRITING and this blog caught my attention indeed! more power to your writing career! hope to see you soon V..
January 27, 2010 at 06:19 pm report abuse -
126. V, tama na si Matt. As in pang-Chapter 1 lang talaga sha. Yun na yun. hehehe. :) As for me, tapos na rin sa chapter ko si starfish. And I'm so glad its o-v-e-r! :)
January 27, 2010 at 02:15 pm report abuse -
125. sa wakas...so meron pang chapter two V?..hehe..I know letting go of a person that you have once loved can be very painful.. But We bleed just to know were alive..and you have proved yourself as a cosmo chick , that no matter what happens your still ready to stand up..Go V!
January 27, 2010 at 01:58 pm report abuse -
124. @Miss Lonely Girl: You dont need a guy who will leave you in the end. Heck, you dont need a guy. PERIOD. I have friends who are better off without the guys who knocked them up and they are happier now. Make your baby your inspiration. Its more than enough. :)
January 27, 2010 at 12:34 pm report abuse -
123. @malditcha87: wow! thank you so much! :) tell your friends i said thank you and hugs as well. one more post to officially end chapter 1. add me too on facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Cosmopolitans-Bedroom-Blog-by-Veronica/244934326728
January 27, 2010 at 11:17 am report abuse -
122. @toughgurl: Maybe. Ayoko na din talaga.
January 27, 2010 at 11:17 am report abuse -
121. @pau: amen! loving someone is really accepting the person for who he is.
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
120. @butterdinner: hahaha, hate me? well i hated myself too for staying so depressed and lost for so long. but im back to my old bitchy self now :) hahaha, nah, i wouldn't post his name here, the best revenge is a life well lived. besides since we move in the same circles, even aldrich tells me im way way better now. :)
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
119. @misstechylicious: oo nga no, in time for valentine's. but i think it's gonna be long din. :)
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
118. @iyabadelic: really? :P
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
117. @mrsjen: i agree
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
116. @jhinggay19: im excited too! :) sana nga mapublish. let's keep our fingers crossed. :)
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
115. @breakaway: yes please! :)
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
114. @mylesaway: thanks! sana nga talaga! let's keep our fingers crossed.
January 27, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
113. Uu. Nagreminisce din ako while reading your blog. Hehe. Anyway, I invited my friends to read your blog. Now, they are also addicted to see your posts. We love reading your blog. :) Next post please.
January 27, 2010 at 10:05 am report abuse -
112. But I really must let go of that pain now—now that the memories are starting to fade. I really have to make a choice now...because I have to live my life in the best way possible. --->awww. you can do it V.!=)we really need to move on. it's for the best. if the two of you are really meant for each other, destiny will bring the two of you back together.=)
January 27, 2010 at 09:50 am report abuse -
pau111. V, as what i've learned from this same experience, acceptance is a key to happiness, You should accept that guy isn't for you, and you will find ur true happiness, Goodluck to all of us! More Blogs V. God bless!
January 27, 2010 at 09:49 am report abuse -
110. cge V, post mo lang real name niya, you have a lot of followers who can hunt him down tapos we'll bind him on to a tree WEARING NOTHING!! let's see kung may maipagmamalaki pa siya!!! cheers to V!!! sana magkaron ng party for you and magmeet lahat ng followers mo hahahah.
January 27, 2010 at 05:25 am report abuse -
109. CHEERS V!!! for realizing what a pain the ass Matt really is. Grabe, you got me sooo hooked with your blogs. sometimes, i would hate you, but most of the time i would really really hate MATT! i am just so so sooo glad you've finally got the courage to let go. cause he's not worth all the pain. this is not what's love's supposed to be. you give and he just take it without giving anything at all. wel, meron cguro, and that is PAIN. Go V! CHEERS to a better future!!!
January 27, 2010 at 05:22 am report abuse -
cheesyrn108. V, bka nman c matt at c honey ko iisa lang? pareho tau ng story eh... hay nku mga guys tlga...
January 27, 2010 at 02:46 am report abuse -
107. yey! it's Sam's turn to make us, cosmo chic and V, ofcourse, kilig. excited to read it on feb V... ahhh.. in time pa sa valentines ha. mas lalong nakaka-excite :)
January 27, 2010 at 01:25 am report abuse -
106. sounds familiar to me. hehe
January 27, 2010 at 12:34 am report abuse -
105. whewww, i salute! letting go is the hardest part but you did it.
January 27, 2010 at 12:07 am report abuse -
104. wow..we're excited for Sam's chapter..sad lang kasi matt's chapter didn't end well..but I believe you've learned lot from it V..sana nga i-publish to ng summit..I remember before super bitin kami sa bawat blog entry mo V..hehehe..now we're so excited..
January 26, 2010 at 11:55 pm report abuse -
103. I've read this somewhere "Sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying." and yes, We have to walk the line to really live life to the fullest. No regrets whatsoever coz what you've been through can make you a better,stronger & wiser person. Thanks to Matt, coz next time you know better. ;)
January 26, 2010 at 10:12 pm report abuse -
102. Yeah pls summit media..publish V's blog :)
January 26, 2010 at 10:07 pm report abuse -
101. i guess ur followers from here would be enough reason... so summit pls.... publish this blog on a book! :) or else.... hahaha
January 26, 2010 at 09:56 pm report abuse -
100. By the way, Sam is Sam's real name. :D
January 26, 2010 at 09:29 pm report abuse -
99. Chapter 2: Dear Sam is officially starting this February on Cosmo.ph. And it's filled with new and interesting characters you'll love and hate. And yes, it's all about that sexy, long-haired chef: Sam :)
January 26, 2010 at 09:29 pm report abuse -
98. Ladies, one more post and Chapter 1: This Thing About Matt is officially over. Thank you for staying with me since I started writing last August. :)
January 26, 2010 at 09:29 pm report abuse -
97. Cosmo's Bedroom Blog by Veronica is based on real story. Matt, Veronica, Charlie, Dee, Claire, Aldrich, Nicia, Gail...they are not real names but just like in Vince's life, they are REAL PEOPLE. And I try to write about the events of a long lost memory as close to reality as possible.
January 26, 2010 at 09:29 pm report abuse -
96. I am real, ladies. More real than you can ever imagine. And just like you, I'm also going through the same rollercoaster ride of emotional events when it comes to love, dating and relationships. I'm glad I can inspire alot of girls through my posts. :)
January 26, 2010 at 09:29 pm report abuse -
95. Please, please Summit...please publish my manuscript...
January 26, 2010 at 09:28 pm report abuse -
94. If I post Matt's real name here, could you please hunt him down for me and bash his head with my boots collection? :P
January 26, 2010 at 09:28 pm report abuse -
93. this story is both sad and happy.... sad that your're not together anymore, happy cause you're now moving on.
January 26, 2010 at 07:41 pm report abuse -
92. is this the end V? hope to read more of your pantelenovelang life. your an inspiration. :)
January 26, 2010 at 07:23 pm report abuse -
91. at least u're brave enough to face it.. kahit mahirap mag let go.. well, it's not the end.. dami pa mangyayari..
January 26, 2010 at 07:12 pm report abuse -
90. nakakaiyak nmn yan... haai... 1 yr pa nmn na yung paghihiwalay namin nung ex ko..
January 26, 2010 at 07:11 pm report abuse -
89. @Ms Lonely Girl: I hope this story will inspire you: I have a friend whose boyfriend cheated on her, used her credit card to buy gadgets, and eventually left her. The guy has family issues and big responsibilities at home. One day, he got so fed up because of his responsibilities that he left the house. I asked my friend if she really wants to be with someone who runs away from his responsibilites. "Imagine mo kasal na kayo tapos walang gatas baby nyo, lalayasan ka nya?" Gets? Find someone who will stick with you when you're at your lowest. When a person won't even take care of you when you're sick, how can you expect him to provide for you and your baby? Sorry ladies. This is just the way I see things.
January 26, 2010 at 05:50 pm report abuse -
88. @ vixen: based on experience, ask him straight. if he gave you the silent treatment, that means "no."
January 26, 2010 at 05:45 pm report abuse -
87. Hi lili! Oh, i'm so sorry to hear that. Well, i don't know your story and as i have learned, I'm quite good in giving advices to others, except for myself. But whatever the reason, I suggest you do what your heart tells you to do. Because we only get one shot, if hindi man magwork out the way you wanted it, atleast you can say that you gave it your all. So that it won't haunt you in the near future.
January 26, 2010 at 05:44 pm report abuse -
86. @prettyme06: wow, i'm so touched! :) thanks! if things go well and bedroom blog gets published, I'll use my real name there as the author. :) then I'll post links to my other blogs :)
January 26, 2010 at 05:42 pm report abuse -
85. @prettyme06: nope, that's not mine. Most of my blogs are public but I'm using my real name there. :)
January 26, 2010 at 05:41 pm report abuse -
Ms.Lonely Girl84. how can i be strong? i'll be having a little ds JUNE, and still i'm still confuse about what i feel towards his father, is he really the right guy for? because day after day i can feel that he's being cold towards me, he can't even take care of me, when im sick, and to think i'm pregnant. guys... what do u think? im confuse. . . and i'm marrying him nxt month. is it the right thing to do this time? HELP me... i'm also afraid of letting him go because of our baby, and i'm scared that i might regret it at the end.... what will i do???? please help me
January 26, 2010 at 04:57 pm report abuse -
vixen2383. i still love d guy bt i dnt think dat he still loves me...
January 26, 2010 at 04:46 pm report abuse -
prettyme0682. http://www.veronicablog.com/ is this urs? waAaaah, maybe!?
January 26, 2010 at 04:42 pm report abuse -
81. i just broke up with my guy 3 weeks ago.. ang sakit.. these are the moments na sobrang namimiss ko siya.. i want to take him back, to say that i was wrong for leaving him.. pero i have to be strong, hindi pa pwede.. i need time for myself.. tulad mo, i have to fly to a bigger sky on my own..
January 26, 2010 at 04:40 pm report abuse -
prettyme0680. waAaaah, cant w8 t0 read aLL 0f ur bL0gs.. m n0t int0 reading bL0gs but urs give me d interest.. h0pe i c0uLd read them s0on.. pLease?! :)
January 26, 2010 at 04:39 pm report abuse -
79. @jhe_1212: I hope so too :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:57 pm report abuse -
78. @accidental mistress: True strength comes from within. All of us are strong, we just need to push ourselves to the limit :) You might be surprised how strong you are if you only take the risk :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:56 pm report abuse -
77. @prettyme06: Hi there! Wow thanks! :) Ohhh,, I can't post here the URLs of my other blogs, that would reveal my identity :P Maybe in the near future...after the book deal perhaps :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:55 pm report abuse -
76. 75. Yes! At last! Hope the next blog would be a happy one! :D
January 26, 2010 at 03:52 pm report abuse -
accidental mistress75. Hi V! I wish I can borrow some of your strength so I can move on too. Go girl! :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:49 pm report abuse -
prettyme0674. i just finished reading aLL ur bL0ags here i wanted t0 read m0re.. :) can i have an acCesS with ut 0ther acC0unts if that w0uLd be p0sSibLe.. thanks v! but LetTing g0 is a great ch0ice.. ur t0 smart 4 matT..:))
January 26, 2010 at 03:39 pm report abuse -
73. @lanzpacute: there is! :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:29 pm report abuse -
72. @len9: Thanks! My friends tell me that I'm strong, yes, but I'm also a marshmallow. ;)
January 26, 2010 at 03:28 pm report abuse -
71. @amie: May dahilan talaga! Sabi nga ni Charlie sakin kagabi... "I've always known that there's a reason why Matt broke your heart." :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:28 pm report abuse -
70. @zzzz: oh yes, my life has just begun! :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:28 pm report abuse -
69. @ladysairi: thank you so much! yep, onto chapter 2!
January 26, 2010 at 03:28 pm report abuse -
68. @breakaway: oh dear, nainspire naman ako sa sinabi mo...thank you so much. girls dont deserve to be treated this way talaga...yeah...it's about time talaga
January 26, 2010 at 03:28 pm report abuse -
67. @hazelnutzy: Hahaha!! I did bust his world right? Iba ang nagagawa ng legalese ko diba? Thanks too Hazel! For staying with me since college days! :)
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66. @adrenalinejunkie: yeah, i think i did. :)
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65. @yeahtish: thanks dear!
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64. @malditcha: ah reminiscing ka din...
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63. @Giell: yeah. it was painful but I had to end it na
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62. @jayn000: amen! thanks for thinking that.
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61. @elzy: oh dear, tissue.
January 26, 2010 at 03:28 pm report abuse -
60. @prettylass: disconnected with reality, i like that line :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
59. @mylesaway: yes :)
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58. @charm1021: girl power! :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
57. @rose17: yeah, atleast i got to tell him how i feel diba?
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
56. @xelynne: it was really delightful and miserable. it was a beautiful nightmare.
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55. @fishbowl84: i love you, goodbye indeed
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
54. @summerinparis: awww..that's so sweet of you! baka naman mahuli ka ha, careful :) but im so glad you follow my blog :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
53. @shirleylim26: maybe yes, maybe no.
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
52. @sam elisse: if we could turn back time, we would have handled things differently talaga. but we were all young and naive then. immature too. so things happened the way they're suppose to happen.
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
51. @wariane: thanks! good luck naman sayo :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
50. @mocha chick: Yeah...fireworks display.
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
49. @alizey: happens, i so know that. :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
48. @gorgeousrn18: yeah, i believe that too.
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
47. @retz: we all have to live our lives the best way possible! :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
46. @darriane: yeah. let's choose our battles wisely.
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
45. @tinnnnnn076: yeah, i'll get over it soon.
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
44. @christineorias: oh dear. sabi nga sakin ni sam dati: wag mo pilitin. darating yung time na mauuntog ka nalang.
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43. @casebats: sigh, indeed.
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
42. @misstechylicious: yup! the sun will come out anytime now.
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
41. @myles_away: yeah...finally!
January 26, 2010 at 03:26 pm report abuse -
40. we're so proud of you V!
January 26, 2010 at 03:20 pm report abuse -
39. share ko lang: "there is no way we can stop ourselves from fallin' in love but, we can always set limitations up to what extent we could give. loving is not about giving our all but it's merely sharing 'some' of what we have. we should not depend our whole self to someone cuz in the end, when everything's over, we only have 'ourselves' to suffer the loss. it's never a sin to love. the only crazy thing about it is that we seem to forget ourselves when we thought we found someone who can make us complete."
January 26, 2010 at 03:18 pm report abuse -
38. ouch! well, at least you've finally decided to let go and to move on! minsan din kasi kelangan natin masaktan para matuto..part ng love ang masaktan! anyways, V, someday you'll find someone who'll love you with all his heart..
January 26, 2010 at 03:13 pm report abuse -
37. WOW!!! 36 comments! Whew, will reply now. This might take a while. :P
January 26, 2010 at 03:06 pm report abuse -
36. Be strong V...there's someone else that is really meant for you and will love you back as well.
January 26, 2010 at 02:21 pm report abuse -
35. V you're a strong woman and I admire you. Letting go is never easy but it is when we let go of the past that frees us from what keeps on hurting us. I know that you'll get better in time. This is the first step in falling in love again. I hope I hear of Sam soon. Take care always! :)
January 26, 2010 at 02:02 pm report abuse -
34. So the cliche goes, time heals all wounds. "Masakit kasi nagmahal ka. At natapos itong hindi ka handa. Sa natatapos na mag-iibigan, may isang mas nasasaktan. Hindi ba masmasarap na isipin na kaya ikaw ang mas nasasaktan dahil ikaw ang masnagmamahal? Ang galit at sakit sa puso ay madaling mabubura ng panahon. Ang mga natutunan sa bawat pagmamahal ay huwag mong hayaang kumupas. Iyon ang magiging dahilan kung bakit palagi mong lilingunin ang natapos na pagmamahal nang may ngiti sa puso. May dahilan ang lahat." -Ploning
January 26, 2010 at 01:48 pm report abuse -
zzzz33. Just came across this article and I can feel your longing and pain and then the strong resolve to move on. I'm praying that you can take the step to move away from the past and bring back the joy into your life, even if you are alone. The 'game is over' but not your life.
January 26, 2010 at 01:22 pm report abuse -
32. goodluck V! now lets see what's in store for the next chapter of your life! :) nice blog sis! well written.
January 26, 2010 at 01:12 pm report abuse -
31. you deserve someone better V.
January 26, 2010 at 01:10 pm report abuse -
30. "A man never knows how to say goodbye, a woman never knows when to say it." It's about time you give yourself a break from all of this game Matt played on you. Even i is confused if he really had deep feelings for you. I just hope one day he'll come to realize how important for someone close to him to know where she stands in his life. Silence is not an options and i believe in that statement. And i hope he'll give you some respect even as a good friend, that you deserve more than what he did to you.
January 26, 2010 at 01:04 pm report abuse -
29. Thanks V, you have always been my hero. hehehe. I remember the time when you bust my ex's world. hahaha :P And letting me know that moving on is so much better than being miserable. :)
January 26, 2010 at 12:47 pm report abuse -
adrenalinejunkie28. 28. go V. finally. letting go is not an easy task. easy said than done. but you know, if you let go of that someone dear to you. who knows, in God's perfect time. you'll find the One. :)
January 26, 2010 at 12:34 pm report abuse -
27. nakakainspire naman mag move on.. :)
January 26, 2010 at 10:54 am report abuse -
26. It's really sad but I am so happy for you. I just remember my days when I finally decided to let go of someone I hold on too long.
January 26, 2010 at 10:32 am report abuse -
25. It's so sad. But you got to face the reality
January 26, 2010 at 09:57 am report abuse -
24. ang sarap nmn pakinngn yan sobrang nahinayang dpt c matt..ang laki ng nawala skania
January 26, 2010 at 09:33 am report abuse -
23. gosh! naiyak naman ako..
January 26, 2010 at 09:20 am report abuse -
22. When you're so inlove with someone you're always hopeful. You're so disconnected with reality.
January 26, 2010 at 09:02 am report abuse -
21. "And yes, I will fall madly in love again...with someone real" - definitely not with him again! :)
January 26, 2010 at 08:51 am report abuse -
20. even if it really hurts right now, time will SOON come that the pain will fade away... congrats V!... go, go girl power!
January 26, 2010 at 08:05 am report abuse -
19. I have loved you so much. Very real. =) That's what hurts the most right, when you realize there won't be anything more between the few conversations you've spent together. But after all, the lessons you've learned will make you a much more better person..
January 26, 2010 at 07:47 am report abuse -
18. ouch! "Thank you...because what I felt when I was with you was both delightful and miserable." bakit nga kaya ganun? kung sino pa love mo yun din ang nagbibigay ng heartache sayo.
January 26, 2010 at 07:35 am report abuse -
17. i love you goodbye? :) hehe finally V! you did it..
January 26, 2010 at 07:04 am report abuse -
16. Ouch.sobrang touching ng message mo ky Matt.I'm happy ur letting to. It's really sad. I hope Sam will be back in the picture,I hope he's ur knight in shining armor. I believe every girl/woman deserve one true love.Stay happy.Always remember,the past will only define u @ the peak of the situation pro pg lumipas na,ul become a better person. Pti ako naiiyak. Pasimple n nga lng ako sa office na ng-iinternet,mdmi n akong sanctions.haha.dko mapalipas un entry eh,d ako mkpghntay mkauwi ng bahay,khit bwal binabasa ko un blog.patay ako.haha.
January 26, 2010 at 06:39 am report abuse -
15. letting go means loving someone. if you are really meant for each other you will end up together maybe somwhere down the road.
January 26, 2010 at 06:37 am report abuse -
14. "ang mabigat, gumagaan pag binibitawan..Learn to let go when you're hurting too much".. Share lang V. :)
January 26, 2010 at 06:23 am report abuse -
13. it's the hardest thing to do letting go the one you love :( I still feel the pain of my first heartbreak, it's been two years since then but everytime I think of him the memories still coming back, the fact that I'd been married 2 years ago. If I could only turn back the time... I wished that I had not made that decision of letting him go and give him another chance...
January 26, 2010 at 06:07 am report abuse -
12. ouch, i can totally relate. hope i get to this courageous point where i have to really let go. kudos to you v!
January 26, 2010 at 05:39 am report abuse -
11. on a day when the sky will finally light up with fireworks just for me. And yes, I will fall madly in love again...with someone real. you will, V
January 26, 2010 at 03:48 am report abuse -
10. oh, but well ,, sometimes we just need to .. we need to do it .. for the of our pride . FOR THE SAKE OUR OUR LIFE .. SH*T HAPPENS
January 26, 2010 at 02:40 am report abuse -
9. oh my god.. this is the hardest part in life
January 26, 2010 at 02:39 am report abuse -
gorgeousrn188. oh... i feel the same way... Love is letting go...
January 26, 2010 at 02:00 am report abuse -
7. So sad :( but this message really moves me "because I have to live my life in the best way possible".
January 26, 2010 at 01:41 am report abuse -
6. sometimes letting go is the best choice :(
January 26, 2010 at 01:31 am report abuse -
5. Letting go for the better is hardest but wisest thing to do. But no matter how difficult it is, someday, later, you'll get through it.
January 26, 2010 at 01:26 am report abuse -
4. makes me want to cry. we have the same situation. :( I hope I can let go na rin. :(
January 26, 2010 at 12:54 am report abuse -
3. sigh...
January 26, 2010 at 12:48 am report abuse -
2. oh... it may be sad V. i feel for you. but always remember, there's a ray of sunlight waiting for you after the rain. :)
January 26, 2010 at 12:15 am report abuse -
1. awww... finally! "So much hurt, so much pain Takes a while to regain What is lost inside, And I hope that in time You'll be out of my mind...I'll be over you ." Good job V!
January 26, 2010 at 12:07 am report abuse
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