BEDROOM BLOG BY VERONICA
Flashback: "I'll Always Have Your Back"
Posted on February 15, 2010 12:00 am by
Veronica
Photo: "The Office" courtesy of NBC

Days became weeks; weeks became months; and months became a year. Our old office in the outskirts of Makati transferred to a more prestigious address parallel to Ayala Avenue. New faces came and went but Sam and I stayed in the company despite the stress and meager pay.
And just like back in college, there were people in the corporate arena who were nice in front of you but talked behind your back as if your boots, clothes, and your straight English were the only interesting things on the face of the planet.
It wasn’t the first time this happened to me. I carried a bull’s eye sign on my back during the last two years in college. Gossip wasn’t new in my vocabulary that I had developed an “I-don’t-care attitude” and highly combative aura. And some people never got my drift. They thought I was just being mean.
Sam stayed neutral. He was, after all, everyone’s favorite officemate. But during the late night chats, as per my request, he told me the names of people who were anything but genuine. He didn’t tell me what they said about me exactly. I didn’t want to hear it anyway because I didn’t care. I just wanted a list—a list of names, so I would know who to be genuinely nice to.
Even back then, I choose my own battles, provided I know who are true to me. If there’s one aspect of my personality that I am ultimately proud of even today, it’s this: I could never be “plastic."
There were times when I got really angry and murderous. The source of which was always the same. And just when my claws and fangs were about to pop out any moment, Sam would invite me downstairs for ice cream. One hot afternoon in this convenience store, we made the ultimate pact.
“Hindi ka ba talaga nabo-bother sa mga tsismis tungkol sa 'tin?” I asked as I settled down on the hard stool.
“Nope,” he said coolly. “Wala naman dapat ika-bother, 'di ba?”
“I know that,” I sighed. “But that never stopped them from talking.”
“Don’t tell me affected ka?”
“I try not to but sometimes those people get on my nerves,” I admitted. “I’m just scared that these gossips would affect us eventually.”
“Bakit, naaapektuhan ka na ba?” he asked.
“Hindi,” I answered truthfully. “Pero naiirita ako.”
“E 'di 'wag tayong ma-bother,” he said. “Let’s make a pact.”
“A pact?”
“Yeah, that we won’t get affected no matter what they say about us.” Sam said. “Here, there, anywhere. Wherever life may take us.”
“Game!”
“Ang maapektuhan pangit.”
And then I laughed.
“And don’t worry about them,” he added. “I’ll always have your back if you have mine.”
In the months that followed, we found ourselves having ice cream downstairs to chat the stress away. Sometimes, a few of my friends at the office would join us. Sometimes, it was just us. Since then, no matter what I heard inside and outside the office, I simply shrugged them off without getting fired up. Sam had my back. As long as I had Sam’s friendship, the rest of the world can run after me with knives and shotguns for all I care.
Tags: bedroom blog,veronica,Sam,friends,friendship,love story,office gossip
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40. dont mind all the "chismosas" inggeterra lang ung mga un...and hindi mu ikakaunlad ang mga pinagsasabi nila...pag pinatulan mu pa...baka ang saya pa nila..."chismosas" loved to ruine peoples lives...kairita..
May 18, 2010 at 03:19 am report abuse -
39. as long as you never hurt anyone,the hell that you care right??
May 12, 2010 at 08:01 pm report abuse -
38. i envy the friendship that you two have..it was something to be cherished forever..
May 12, 2010 at 08:00 pm report abuse -
37. goodluck to you and Sam. May your friendship lasts forever.
March 30, 2010 at 02:47 pm report abuse -
36. im sure you like it too in some way, gosh you and Sam look like an item. Lucky girl!
March 30, 2010 at 02:45 pm report abuse -
35. Don't mind the chismis V, follow your heart !
March 08, 2010 at 08:18 am report abuse -
veronica1134. canyons and spears oo nga pala :P
February 21, 2010 at 02:48 pm report abuse -
Nino33. Shotguns and knives! Epic talaga friendship nyo ni boss. You forgot the canons by the way. ahahahahahaah
February 21, 2010 at 10:05 am report abuse -
32. 32. In fairness, that's true friendship!
February 19, 2010 at 06:25 pm report abuse -
jan31. woow.. i can so relate with your story.. You go girl..
February 18, 2010 at 12:52 pm report abuse -
30. *sigh* Oohh Sam...You really are Sam kinda Wanderpul. :D
February 17, 2010 at 11:38 pm report abuse -
29. @butterfly kisses: thanks!!! :) im glad you're enjoying this blog! do add me on facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Cosmopolitans-Bedroom-Blog-by-Veronica/244934326728
February 17, 2010 at 11:44 am report abuse -
28. @retz: yup, they're irrelevant. wala lang yun magawa. :)
February 17, 2010 at 11:41 am report abuse -
27. @hazelnutzy: i know, right? :))
February 17, 2010 at 11:35 am report abuse -
26. getting addicted to this!!!I've already added to my favorites
February 16, 2010 at 09:25 pm report abuse -
25. Hey V!just ignore them nalang, ang importante happy kayong dalawa sa friendship nyo.
February 16, 2010 at 08:41 pm report abuse -
24. Hahaha! V, mashado daw tayong important kaya laging laman ng gossip. :P
February 16, 2010 at 03:17 pm report abuse -
mysterious23. it's nice to know that someone like "SAM" do exists.. ohhh,, i miss by bestbuddy! ( i think, guys are better to be bestfriends... )
February 16, 2010 at 01:05 pm report abuse -
mysterious22. im really addicted to your blog! pati mga officemates ko! we're lovin' it!
February 16, 2010 at 01:03 pm report abuse -
sweeTpOut21. Are there "Sam"s out there p?!....haaaaay..... i aLso miss my guy friends...who are reaLLy just friends and aren't taking advantage and respects me..
February 16, 2010 at 04:09 am report abuse -
20. kahit san di nawawala ng gossip..sometimes talaga nakaka wala ng control pero let's face it, they gossip about us because we're more popular than them..haha
February 15, 2010 at 04:47 pm report abuse -
19. oh, ang sarap maging friend ni Sam..
February 15, 2010 at 04:46 pm report abuse -
18. i hate you veronica!im addicted to your blog!hahaha...just kidding...i love your blog...i keep hitting the refresh button every hour to see if you posted something new :)...keep it up!
February 15, 2010 at 04:14 pm report abuse -
veronica1117. @preppyG: thanks! :) I'm glad you're enjoying this. :)
February 15, 2010 at 12:54 pm report abuse -
veronica1116. @handpaintedsky: yeah, super. it beats having a bodyguard :P
February 15, 2010 at 12:53 pm report abuse -
preppyG15. This sure is addicting. I've been checking everyday for updates. :) Sam is a sweetheart. Makes me think of my own two straight guy friends whom I hang out with (na friends lang talaga).
February 15, 2010 at 12:24 pm report abuse -
14. having guy friends really 'protect' you in the office. sweet! :)
February 15, 2010 at 12:21 pm report abuse -
veronica1113. @amie: yep! I never really cared what they think anyway :)
February 15, 2010 at 11:45 am report abuse -
veronica1112. @hazelnutzy: para namang di mo alam yung story ko. hahaha. :)) thanks again for the lunch treat last friday! let's do that again. :)
February 15, 2010 at 11:43 am report abuse -
11. i miss having straight-guy friends i could really trust. kebs na lang sa mga tsimosong frogs sa office.
February 15, 2010 at 11:20 am report abuse -
10. Awww, friends lang ba talaga V? OMG. my inner gossip girl talking. :P
February 15, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
veronica119. @everyone: thanks! he was really such a great guy! :)
February 15, 2010 at 10:55 am report abuse -
mysterious8. love to read this everyday!
February 15, 2010 at 09:52 am report abuse -
7. As long as I had Sam’s friendship, the rest of the world can run after me with knives and shotguns for all I care. -- sweet. hay ang saya kapag may ganitong friendship.
February 15, 2010 at 08:48 am report abuse -
6. That's right! Follow your own joyous impulse without being too concerned about other's reactions.
February 15, 2010 at 07:42 am report abuse -
5. what a nice story :)
February 15, 2010 at 04:40 am report abuse -
4. Sam is really a good friend V... and u as well. Sweet "“I’ll always have your back if you have mine.†:)
February 15, 2010 at 03:27 am report abuse -
3. Gossip wasn’t new in my vocabulary that I had developed an “I-don’t-care attitudeâ€-that's the spirit V!haha. “I’ll always have your back if you have mine.â€-Sam is such a sweetheart,ur so lucky to have him V!
February 15, 2010 at 03:23 am report abuse -
Ting2. I'm starting to fall in love with Sam! Kung ayaw mo sa kanya, V, pede akin na lang sya? ;)
February 15, 2010 at 02:11 am report abuse -
1. “I’ll always have your back if you have mine.â€---> isn't this the sweetest thing?=P
February 15, 2010 at 01:50 am report abuse
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