BEDROOM BLOG BY VERONICA
Jumpstarting A Career In Writing
Posted on January 25, 2010 12:00 am by
Veronica

It was my debut article as an entertainment blogger. Franco asked me to write a review for Avenue Q and even invited me to join their group of movie bloggers. It felt good to write again and put my thoughts into words.
And what difference the review made. One day, I got an email from an unfamiliar address. She commented on my post about Carla Guevara’s version of “There’s a Fine, Fine Line.” What started as an exchange of insights led to a freelance gig from the managing editor of one of the top publications in the country. What made it more fateful was the fact that K, my first-ever editor, was Matt’s old friend.
My first assignment led me to Davao, on an all-expense-paid tour sponsored by the Department of Tourism. For four days and three nights, our group—writers and editors from different publications—explored the vibrant city, tasted the local cuisine, engaged in extreme sports, and got pampered by the best hotels in Davao. I made new friends, learned new things, and brought home a new perspective when I returned to Manila.
My first published article gave me back the confidence I lost. Soon, I found myself writing regularly for the magazine, earning more and feeling way better than I have ever felt in a long time.
When I visited K’s office to get my paycheck, we went out for coffee. I decided to tell her that we have a common friend. It was the topic I’ve been sidestepping for a long time.
“Yeah, I know,” K said as we took our seats near the window at Starbucks QA. “Actually, I saw your page on Matt’s Multiply site. One click led to another and I landed on your Avenue Q review."
“Did you know that Matt used to write for me?” K asked.
“Actually, no.”
“Well, he worked as a contributing writer for almost a year,” K replied. “Until we decided to fire him.”
“Truancy?”
“More on his being unprofessional,” K answered. “Late submissions, cocky attitude, intrusion...”
“Intrusion?” the word sounded familiar. “What do you mean?”
“Oh, I forgot to tell you,” K started. “A few months ago, he sent me a private message asking me why I was commenting on your blog posts. He bluntly told me not to get friendly with you because I don’t even know you. The nerve, right?”
“He told you that?” I asked incredulously.
“Yes,” K said. “And when I told him he has no right to tell me who to befriend or not, he stopped talking to me, and we got delayed in closing the October issue because he didn’t submit the four articles assigned to him. I had to work while in flight just to get his darned articles finished."
“When I got back to the office, I gathered his unclaimed paychecks, placed them in an envelope, hung it on the gate, and texted him: You can grab your paychecks at the front gate. Pray it doesn’t rain.”
“Wow.” I was stunned at this girl’s guts.
“I know, right?” K continued as she sipped her grande cafe latte with quadruple shots of espresso.
“K, I’m sorry if he stopped talking to you because of me,” I said. “I’m sorry I ruined your friendship.”
She nearly gagged on her coffee.
“Ano ka ba!” she said. “Some friend he was. That guy isn’t normal. What kind of decent person would do that?"
“Besides,” K continued. “If I had to do it all over again, I will still befriend you.”
On that day, I just knew for a fact that K will always have my loyalty and friendship. When I got home, I knew just what I needed to do.
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Tags: bedroom blog,veronica,Matt,heartbreak,heartache,love,relationship,dating,unrequited love,Avenue Q,writer
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105. i think matt needs to see psycho....haiz...may sapak sa ulo...hehe =)
May 18, 2010 at 12:47 am report abuse -
104. eh meh tama yata sa pagiisip si Matt! WTF of him!
May 10, 2010 at 04:05 am report abuse -
103. keep on writing girl!
March 31, 2010 at 06:26 pm report abuse -
102. Si Matt ang sama naman.
March 31, 2010 at 06:24 pm report abuse -
101. how childish naman for Matt.
March 24, 2010 at 08:56 pm report abuse -
100. Congrats V! Without you wala kaming binabasang blog ngayon! i LIKE it!
March 08, 2010 at 07:12 am report abuse -
99. buti na lang di ka nagka-bf ng AB Normal. lol.
February 24, 2010 at 02:48 pm report abuse -
98. It felt good to write again and put my thoughts into words.
February 08, 2010 at 10:34 pm report abuse -
97. Matt is so insane. What was his reason, why did he do that?
February 07, 2010 at 11:03 pm report abuse -
96. congrats V. you've jumpstarted your writing career. two thumbs up to you! :)
February 07, 2010 at 04:40 pm report abuse -
95. @armedwithstilettos: thanks! :)
February 05, 2010 at 10:12 pm report abuse -
94. @malou: gotcha! hahaha, thanks for the support! :)
February 05, 2010 at 10:12 pm report abuse -
93. Inspiring :-)
February 04, 2010 at 11:20 am report abuse -
malou92. im hooked!:P
February 03, 2010 at 10:40 pm report abuse -
91. I'll add you up on FB V. I'm so excited to read chapter 2. =)
February 02, 2010 at 02:53 pm report abuse -
90. see, everybody can see how awful matt is. except for you V.
January 30, 2010 at 10:11 pm report abuse -
89. productivity is the key! :)
January 30, 2010 at 10:11 am report abuse -
88. @kamae: hey thanks there and goodluck! i hope u enjoy reading chapter 2 as well. Add me on FB: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Cosmopolitans-Bedroom-Blog-by-Veronica/244934326728
January 28, 2010 at 10:00 pm report abuse -
87. wow really like your blog. i too wanted to start writing professionally and this just inspired me.
January 28, 2010 at 03:51 pm report abuse -
86. @jhe_1212: super!
January 27, 2010 at 02:15 pm report abuse -
85. @xelynne: thanks! i hope you'll read this from the start. :)
January 27, 2010 at 02:14 pm report abuse -
84. @Giell: yup! im chasing after it everyday :)
January 27, 2010 at 02:14 pm report abuse -
83. hi V! i like your blog, very interesting. thanks for sharing!
January 27, 2010 at 12:27 pm report abuse -
82. If writing is your passion, go for it.
January 27, 2010 at 11:27 am report abuse -
81. 79. Super duper small world. Get over Matt na.
January 26, 2010 at 03:46 pm report abuse -
80. Speaking of which, I just got in because I went "raiding" two offices for my paycheck. Hekhekhek. In other words, extra income din yun :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:05 pm report abuse -
79. @zzzz: Hello there! Wow, im glad i inspired you to write again. I get giddy like a teenager whenever I see my name in print. There's this rush i get. :)
January 26, 2010 at 03:05 pm report abuse -
zzzz78. Hi Veronica, the part you said that your first published article gained you the confidence that you lost, really struck me hard. I've been in this 'limbo' and all I can think is to try writing again and hopefully, get a work of mine published. For all its worth, you inspired me girl. Thank you.
January 26, 2010 at 01:15 pm report abuse -
77. @summerinparis: plan ko ngaun mag raket2 .. haha,, para hnd nmn ako sstock d2.. ' and para nmn hnd na puro sknya lng dba? ,. :)) .. 'oh well
January 26, 2010 at 02:45 am report abuse -
76. Thanks V! I'll give it a shot one of these days ;)
January 26, 2010 at 12:09 am report abuse -
75. @donnaportia: hey, it's not too late to try. create one in blogger or wordpress. i have blogs there too. great websites :)
January 25, 2010 at 10:57 pm report abuse -
74. @meg: thank you! :) yeah, i just know im on the right track ;)
January 25, 2010 at 10:56 pm report abuse -
73. @K: Seriously? Wow! thanks for reading! :) Hahha nice take on Matt's unusual actions :P
January 25, 2010 at 10:56 pm report abuse -
72. @jayn000: thanks jayn! :)
January 25, 2010 at 10:55 pm report abuse -
71. @mochachick: yeah, matt's a jerk :( thanks for the support! :)
January 25, 2010 at 10:55 pm report abuse -
70. Hi V! Just wanted to say I admire your writing. I've always wanted to put up a blog but I never had the guts. Cheers to you girl! Keep it up!
January 25, 2010 at 09:50 pm report abuse -
meg69. Hi V, I'm glad things are going great with you. I'm sure someone better will come along the way. You just keep going. You're on the right track. :) And besides, karma's a bitch and it gets back fast! Much love.
January 25, 2010 at 09:33 pm report abuse -
K68. Oh no! Team Matt pa naman ako, why is he acting like that?? It's either he despises you that much or he's so into you that he couldn't act normal!! But way to go on your writing career, V! I'm so addicted to your blog that this is the first site i go to when i wake up!
January 25, 2010 at 09:32 pm report abuse -
67. nice one V! keep it up! hehhe
January 25, 2010 at 08:54 pm report abuse -
mocha_chick66. way to go V! im happy for you! and hell,the guy is a major jerk (sorry!)
January 25, 2010 at 07:19 pm report abuse -
65. yes i love it! thought i only started reading it just recently. nice stories
January 25, 2010 at 06:28 pm report abuse -
64. @myrajoy: thanks! :)
January 25, 2010 at 06:00 pm report abuse -
63. @accidentalmistress: oh, i hope you find the wisdom to decide what's best for you and follow through it :) Goodluck! :) and thanks for the support! :)
January 25, 2010 at 06:00 pm report abuse -
accidental mistress62. Hi V! I so love your blog and I'm a fan because you're really strong. I'm going through the same thing right now - sad thing is, the guy I'm dating is married na pala, all along he's telling me he's single. Worse, I fell in love. Some men are jerks talaga.
January 25, 2010 at 04:30 pm report abuse -
61. hope maka-move on ka na V...Its easy to say but I know its hard to do..good luck
January 25, 2010 at 03:27 pm report abuse -
60. @fishbowl84: thanks so much!! :) im so glad you like this blog :)
January 25, 2010 at 02:57 pm report abuse -
59. @malditcha87: hahah. go go go!
January 25, 2010 at 02:57 pm report abuse -
58. nice job V! you're such a good writer.. i wish i knew how to write as well. you go girl..
January 25, 2010 at 02:49 pm report abuse -
57. Go V! Damn him!
January 25, 2010 at 02:18 pm report abuse -
56. @christineorias: yep! go career muna! :)
January 25, 2010 at 02:16 pm report abuse -
55. wow v, parang sabay tayo sa mga pangyayari sa buhay ah. hahaha go career muna! mahihimasmasan din yang si matt tulad ng ex kong baliw (pero lab na lab ko.) wahahaha
January 25, 2010 at 02:05 pm report abuse -
54. @summerinparis128: hahaha, oo nga. nagugulat din ako. kasi time flies when you're doing what you love. and when you expand your horizon, you will make more friends and more money and more contacts and soon you will realize that you are really better off without the emo-ness. I really appreciate all the comments and support. thank you for reading the posts. :)
January 25, 2010 at 01:58 pm report abuse -
53. @shirleylim26: yeah, i love this gig! i love writing. cheesy ako masyado eh :P thank you for the support!
January 25, 2010 at 01:56 pm report abuse -
52. ok lang kahit walang lovelife..ganda naman ng career mo! hehe! keep it up!hehe
January 25, 2010 at 01:53 pm report abuse -
51. @ V.panalo un cnsbi mo:(i used my anger to catapult myself out of that miserable web I was stuck in for almost 3 years. It helped me.)-haha.ako gnyan dn.pg broken hearted dpt ngpapakabusy,tgnan mo mgugulat ka,@ the end of the month ang dmi mong pera kaka-raket.hehe.i think talented k tlg sa writing,i never read or stick sa mga blogs,tamad ako mgbasa eh pro tong bedroom blog mo,binasa ko cmula sa unang entry.sobrang nainspire ako :)
January 25, 2010 at 01:42 pm report abuse -
50. super naaadik na ko sa blog mo. it only shows na you really love what you are doing.
January 25, 2010 at 01:35 pm report abuse -
49. @jhinggay19: Wow! Thank you so much! That will really help gather more readers! :) *hugs*
January 25, 2010 at 01:24 pm report abuse -
48. @myles_away: syempre naman! im so touched kasi because there are lots of girls and boys who read my blog :) kala ko nga walang nagbabasa eh :P Kaya i make it a point to reply to the comments :) thank you so much for the support. I hope there's gonna be a book soon :)
January 25, 2010 at 01:20 pm report abuse -
47. hay naku....Matt is something talaga V..noh..Something like pychosis..hehe..joke
January 25, 2010 at 01:15 pm report abuse -
46. wow..katuwa naman..before akala ko la masyadong nagbabasa ng blog mo V, I even recommended your blog on my plurk account..haha..I've been reading this blog for like months already..kakatuwa na ang dami ng naadik sa blog mo..
January 25, 2010 at 12:50 pm report abuse -
45. wow, so sweet of u V! u replied in every comment. :) actually ur blog is one of the best section here in cosmo.ph... kaya lalong madaming online and active waiting for ur updates. hehe we hope ur blog will be published as book soon! :)
January 25, 2010 at 12:29 pm report abuse -
44. @lady_sairi: yup! sabi nga sa cosmo, "get a life to get a boyfriend." You need to make yourself a "catch" para boys will come running to you. :)
January 25, 2010 at 12:11 pm report abuse -
43. wohoo! you go girl! it really is true, when one door closes, a lot of OTHER doors open! sabi din ng iba, if wala kang love life, boost naman ang career! career muna girl! while you're still young! ;)
January 25, 2010 at 12:02 pm report abuse -
42. @everyone: I promise that I will try to reply to each comment from now on :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:56 am report abuse -
41. @myles_away: i keep you up all night long ba? hahaha. oops, my bad :P thank you so much girls! *hugs*
January 25, 2010 at 11:56 am report abuse -
40. @lanzpacute: hey! thank you so much! i hope you'll get addicted too :P
January 25, 2010 at 11:55 am report abuse -
39. @joyfulmom: thanks joy! yup, add bedroom blog sa facebook :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:55 am report abuse -
38. @len: can't wait to visit K this week at her office. :) we might catch avenue q with franco this march :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:54 am report abuse -
37. @len: thanks! yeah, writing keeps me busy. not just blogging. but my work and business really keeps me up to my neck in work. but it's fun. :) K really is my favorite bitchy friend. She's very smart and pretty! kick ass too. and we both love coffee! :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:54 am report abuse -
36. yeah... this is really addicting! look what you've done to US V!? hahaha a very good addiction though... hehe :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:46 am report abuse -
35. you go girl, i'll soon visit your site.
January 25, 2010 at 11:44 am report abuse -
34. starting to be 1 of those addict in this blog!
January 25, 2010 at 11:38 am report abuse -
33. wow v that's really nice! writing keeps you busy so you would not have to think about matt. i know that you'll succeed. i really love your blog. K is really nice also. she's good for you. :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:36 am report abuse -
32. @rose17: matt is not normal. now i get that. as for writing, why don't you start a blog too? like this one? you can create your own blog in blogger or wordpress. then invite us as readers :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:35 am report abuse -
31. @louise: hahaha, yes! psycho!
January 25, 2010 at 11:35 am report abuse -
30. @summer33: thank you so much! so can you say that bedroom blog is the new, umm, caffeine? :P
January 25, 2010 at 11:35 am report abuse -
29. @adolina: can't wait to post it here too. :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:35 am report abuse -
28. @chinkybaquette: i did! :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:31 am report abuse -
27. @charm1021: sam is....
January 25, 2010 at 11:30 am report abuse -
26. @angel: i beg to disagree. matt is not possessive. he is possessed. hahaha.
January 25, 2010 at 11:30 am report abuse -
25. @summerinparis: yup! i used my anger to catapult myself out of that miserable web I was stuck in for almost 3 years. It helped me.
January 25, 2010 at 11:29 am report abuse -
24. @retz: thank you *hugs* i hope you'll keep reading my posts. :) You can also read me in certain publications, though i use my "real name" there. maybe someday I will post my real name here :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:29 am report abuse -
23. @darriane: he's not jerk, he's an asshole! :))
January 25, 2010 at 11:29 am report abuse -
22. @jhinggay19: i know, right? hate matt too.
January 25, 2010 at 11:28 am report abuse -
21. @hazelnutzy: yeah! sayang nga you didn't make it. ang saya sana. nag white water rafting tayo and zip line, paguwi natin sa manila, todo whitening lotion tayo :P
January 25, 2010 at 11:28 am report abuse -
20. @misstechylicious: thanks! K really is a blessing to me. She's one of my good friends now. Been writing for her for more than a year already. And thanks, I'm really really glad alot of girls love this blog :)
January 25, 2010 at 11:28 am report abuse -
19. @toughgurl: yeah, the asshole did that. the nerve, right? what he told K, my good friend and editor, really ticked me off.
January 25, 2010 at 11:24 am report abuse -
18. this blog is addicting :D
January 25, 2010 at 10:57 am report abuse -
17. can't wait for sam's chapter this feb!
January 25, 2010 at 10:02 am report abuse -
16. pursue your writing career!
January 25, 2010 at 09:46 am report abuse -
15. Why does she like matt so much anyway?..
January 25, 2010 at 09:32 am report abuse -
14. 14. weird huh?... matt's really mysterious... nasan na ba si sam!?
January 25, 2010 at 08:41 am report abuse -
Angel13. yah..matt is really weird..and i think he is also possesive
January 25, 2010 at 08:27 am report abuse -
12. I like the freelance writing idea. But I first have to regain the confidence in writing that I used to have. Maybe before 2010 ends...
January 25, 2010 at 08:18 am report abuse -
11. Yes Matt is so weird. What normal person would do that.
January 25, 2010 at 08:18 am report abuse -
Louise10. Haha! Psycho.
January 25, 2010 at 07:18 am report abuse -
9. Matt is really weird.haha.Good thing V is no making herself busy,more pay and lesser time to think about negativity-Matt.
January 25, 2010 at 06:08 am report abuse -
8. i;m hating matt na!
January 25, 2010 at 02:11 am report abuse -
7. Good luck V sa writing career mo.
January 25, 2010 at 01:56 am report abuse -
6. matt is really a jerk tsktsk i hate him na
January 25, 2010 at 01:30 am report abuse -
5. what's with Matt?? bakit sya ganun?? grabe ha! nakakaloka sya!
January 25, 2010 at 12:54 am report abuse -
4. The DAVAO trip!!! Sayang. I remember na you invited me that time. Sayang. hehe. Anyhoo, Matt deserves to get fired. hahaha :P
January 25, 2010 at 12:49 am report abuse -
3. MATT is really a jerk! so mean! hayyyy - Solid Sam! malapit na Feb. :)
January 25, 2010 at 12:27 am report abuse -
2. gosh V. i'm starting to see Matt now as a loser. he doesnt deserve you.and i see that this K editor is a blessing from heaven, you know, to enlighten you a bit. congratz on your new career. i know you have a bright future in the field. look at the success of your blog here.. awesomeness. :)
January 25, 2010 at 12:18 am report abuse -
1. omg! ginawa ni Matt yun? grabe cia ah. tsk tsk. I don't like him na V. HAHA. bad bad.
January 25, 2010 at 12:06 am report abuse
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