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For me, this kind of subtle confidence paints a better picture of how secure you are in your relationship. If you constantly worry about where he is, what he's doing, or who the hell your boyfriend is talking to, you might as well keep him on a leash. Better yet, resign from work, lock yourselves in a house, and exist in your own universe. My guy friends hate that. I hate that. Don't you just hate people like that?

Instead of worrying silly that your man would lessen his initially romantic gestures and restructuring your life to fit his schedule, make him realize that you deserve no less than the utmost affection he has shown you right from the start. It may not be grandeur all the time but you need to feel it anyway. If it's real, it would always be there no matter how crazy both of your schedules get.

After the flair of our "LV Drinking Party" last January 2010, there was a moment when I wondered if he was ever going to change from my Persian prince to a lazy toad. But as the song goes, "I carried on without a doubt." Men may be wired that way, but I took it as a challenge.

I didn't turn mother hen on him when we got into this relationship. Early on, I told him that I'm not the text all-day, call all-day, 24/7 unlimited kumain-ka-na-ba? girlfriend. I told him that there would be times when I would need to be left alone, to which he obliged. He said that I can take all the time that I need... and to just hurry back to him.

It turned out to be the perfect setup. I am forever grateful to God for giving me the chance to finally meet someone who understands the way I function. That's why Logan and I watch plays with friends, dine with both our families, and mingle with the singles (or party with good friends) as part of one jolly bunch. We promised ourselves that we would be mobile; that we wouldn't lock ourselves in our own universe and think of nothing but ourselves. We want to be out there and grow as individuals who happen to love each other.

Absence (of text messaging) makes the heart grow fonder talaga. Furthermore, it adds to the challenge of keeping us at the edge of our seats when it comes to keeping things interesting...

To be continued...

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