BEDROOM BLOG BY VERONICA
The Girl Who Changed Matt Forever
Posted on October 2, 2009 12:00 am by
Veronica
Photo: Penny Mathews
There was a ring.
Stacy was Matt’s precious little thing.
He courted Stacy for almost a year before becoming a couple in senior year of college. Their relationship survived a great deal of rumors that revolved around Matt’s little black book and youthful escapades. Ironically, Stacy was Matt’s first serious relationship. Honestly.
Their first breakup was the result of a nasty rumor about Matt seeing someone else on the sly, something that later turned out to be true. They got back together eventually, but quietly this time. Matt and Stacy kept their relationship away from the scrutinizing eyes of their respective circles that not even their closest friends knew; Stacy disappeared completely from cyberspace.
“She disappeared?” I asked in between his narrative.
“You don’t know how the people around me think, Veronica,” he explained. “I deleted Stacy’s online profiles.”
I blinked.
Their relationship was on and off; their breakups revolved around the same reason: Matt loved girls. They lasted more than three years, and then Stacy got tired.
“I didn’t know that I was slowly losing her,” Matt said. “I thought…I…when we broke up the second time, I finally decided not to fool around for good. There were just too many distractions during those years.
“I wanted to settle down so I bought her a ring, Veronica,” he continued. “The one she always wanted. But she didn’t take it. I got hurt. I got mad. We didn’t talk for weeks but I realized I couldn’t live without her…
“The last time we met, I told her I would wait, and I know I would, no matter how long, until she’s ready. I told her I would never fool around again. Do you know what she told me, Veronica? She said she’s tired and she’s not in love with me anymore. There was no one else. She just got tired…
“So I said let’s start again, wait until we feel we’re in love with each other again. She said okay. I thought everything was okay, but she never talked to me again after that day. She wouldn’t take my calls or reply to my messages. She wouldn’t see me anymore. I drove to her house everyday but they kept telling me she’s not home. Even our friends kept her from me. Whenever I asked about her, they would become quiet then stir the conversation to something else. I was getting desperate. Four months later, Aldrich told me she went to the States.”
Silence.
“I never got her back.”
I didn’t know what to say because I wasn’t expecting it to be this complicated. We sipped our coffee in silence, just like that time in Eastwood. It wasn’t raining, though, but a flood of emotions swept me away it rendered me spineless for a while. He dropped me off at our house and promised to call soon.
I was tired but something was nagging me. Curiosity prevailed and I called Aldrich, who was also a trusted friend. I didn’t tell him what Matt confessed to me but when I asked what was Stacy was like, he laughed politely and said: “She looks like you.”
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Stacy was Matt’s precious little thing.
He courted Stacy for almost a year before becoming a couple in senior year of college. Their relationship survived a great deal of rumors that revolved around Matt’s little black book and youthful escapades. Ironically, Stacy was Matt’s first serious relationship. Honestly.
Their first breakup was the result of a nasty rumor about Matt seeing someone else on the sly, something that later turned out to be true. They got back together eventually, but quietly this time. Matt and Stacy kept their relationship away from the scrutinizing eyes of their respective circles that not even their closest friends knew; Stacy disappeared completely from cyberspace.
“She disappeared?” I asked in between his narrative.
“You don’t know how the people around me think, Veronica,” he explained. “I deleted Stacy’s online profiles.”
I blinked.
Their relationship was on and off; their breakups revolved around the same reason: Matt loved girls. They lasted more than three years, and then Stacy got tired.
“I didn’t know that I was slowly losing her,” Matt said. “I thought…I…when we broke up the second time, I finally decided not to fool around for good. There were just too many distractions during those years.
“I wanted to settle down so I bought her a ring, Veronica,” he continued. “The one she always wanted. But she didn’t take it. I got hurt. I got mad. We didn’t talk for weeks but I realized I couldn’t live without her…
“The last time we met, I told her I would wait, and I know I would, no matter how long, until she’s ready. I told her I would never fool around again. Do you know what she told me, Veronica? She said she’s tired and she’s not in love with me anymore. There was no one else. She just got tired…
“So I said let’s start again, wait until we feel we’re in love with each other again. She said okay. I thought everything was okay, but she never talked to me again after that day. She wouldn’t take my calls or reply to my messages. She wouldn’t see me anymore. I drove to her house everyday but they kept telling me she’s not home. Even our friends kept her from me. Whenever I asked about her, they would become quiet then stir the conversation to something else. I was getting desperate. Four months later, Aldrich told me she went to the States.”
Silence.
“I never got her back.”
I didn’t know what to say because I wasn’t expecting it to be this complicated. We sipped our coffee in silence, just like that time in Eastwood. It wasn’t raining, though, but a flood of emotions swept me away it rendered me spineless for a while. He dropped me off at our house and promised to call soon.
I was tired but something was nagging me. Curiosity prevailed and I called Aldrich, who was also a trusted friend. I didn’t tell him what Matt confessed to me but when I asked what was Stacy was like, he laughed politely and said: “She looks like you.”
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Tags: bedroom blog,veronica,Matt,stacy,college,hurt,pain,heartbreak,love,aldrich,ring,engagement,breakup
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24. uh oh!!
May 26, 2010 at 01:05 pm report abuse -
23. I've been reading since your first blog and I can't help myself to react with this one. I'm like *WHOA*. Oh btw, I love your blog, first time here :D
May 08, 2010 at 08:29 pm report abuse -
22. awts..girl that hurts,when you know that he wanted to be with you and look at you because you look like someone else..that's a kick at your heart huh..
April 25, 2010 at 04:24 pm report abuse -
veronica1121. @lalabong: looking back, i think so too. :(
March 08, 2010 at 01:35 pm report abuse -
20. I think the reason why Matt was seeing you is because he sees Stacy and not V. How sad!
March 07, 2010 at 04:40 pm report abuse -
19. *shocked. lips closed*
February 23, 2010 at 02:47 pm report abuse -
18. aw shucks. so this means the only reason why matt puts veronica 'on call' is becoz she looks like stacy? tsk tsk.
February 06, 2010 at 11:21 am report abuse -
17. What? So the reason why Matt is seing her is because V looks like Stacy? SO ang nakikita ni Matt is his former gf and not V. Gosh, that was painful for V's part.
February 05, 2010 at 11:15 pm report abuse -
malou16. im speechless. aaaaaaw. i cant even breath.
February 02, 2010 at 11:16 pm report abuse -
15. matt can't have a stable relationship because he just loves girls too too much. and nothing can change that.
January 29, 2010 at 05:47 pm report abuse -
14. yeah, it was really an OMG moment for me.
January 24, 2010 at 01:21 am report abuse -
13. omg.
January 23, 2010 at 12:42 pm report abuse -
12. kaya pala ganun si Matt kasi kamukha mo si Stacey hahaha...
January 23, 2010 at 04:41 am report abuse -
11. OMG!!!!!!!!!!
January 08, 2010 at 06:02 pm report abuse -
10. oops...hehe..its really difficult if you fall out of love..Ang hirap ng mabalik..To V: I hope matt finds your nice personality different from stacy..even if you look like her..
January 04, 2010 at 12:46 pm report abuse -
9. @summerinparis128: yeah, we look alike. we're both journ majors and we came from the same university. freaky, right?
January 02, 2010 at 12:40 am report abuse -
8. sad.stacy looks like v?i hope matt is not trying to gt close to v just because she looks like stacy.poor V!
December 28, 2009 at 02:56 am report abuse -
zettegwapa7. tsk..
December 13, 2009 at 04:49 pm report abuse -
Izza146. kalimutan mo na yang si Matt! si Sam na kasi
October 05, 2009 at 02:54 pm report abuse -
kimmy_155. that must hurt. v, what are you gonna do now?
October 05, 2009 at 11:20 am report abuse -
kaye_274. oh my God...
October 05, 2009 at 11:20 am report abuse -
Amanda3. pakshet!!!
October 05, 2009 at 11:15 am report abuse -
Honey1212. ouch. :'(
October 05, 2009 at 11:14 am report abuse -
jhing1. i love reading your blog.
October 02, 2009 at 12:18 pm report abuse
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