DATING
3 Ways To Know It's Just A Summer Fling For Him
Posted on March 8, 2010 08:00 pm by Brooke Le Poer Trench
Photo: courtesy of Walt Disney Studios Motion Pictures International ("When In Rome," opening on March 17)
1. There’s no June. If your new guy is tentative about discussing the future (as in, post-summer), he may consider your situation to be strictly casual. That said, most budding relationships focus on the present rather than the future, because you’re both figuring out if it’s worth pursuing. So don’t read too much into this one sign.
2. What friends? You and your new love are an island. You haven’t met each other’s social circle, and for now, you’re cool with that. Yes, you have him all to yourself--great! But from a man’s standpoint, sequestering you makes it very convenient for him to terminate your affair when it reaches its expiration date, which he may have pre-determined.
3. It’s a one-track bond. Let’s just say you wouldn’t classify your current union as a meeting of the minds. In fact, while you totally dig each other’s action between the sheets, you rarely connect when your clothes are on. This affair will burn fast and bright, so enjoy your lusty tryst. Just don’t mistake hot sex for a growing romance if it’s clear that your chemistry is all about the booty.
Tags: men,love,relationships,dating tips,relationship tips,summer,love tips,flings,summer flings
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19. pag meh outing maraming new found friends and love stories, but after holidays ala na..
April 28, 2010 at 09:58 am report abuse -
18. Summer fling is fun but I haven't tried it yet.
March 17, 2010 at 01:11 pm report abuse -
17. 17. So, I'll be careful in meeting new guys this summer.. :)
March 16, 2010 at 08:31 pm report abuse -
16. i love summer but not into summer fling.
March 15, 2010 at 02:29 pm report abuse -
15. 15. I hope not all men are like that. :)
March 14, 2010 at 01:37 am report abuse -
14. hay. guys talaga!
March 12, 2010 at 04:44 pm report abuse -
13. well..THANKS alot for the warning before summer VK officially hits off..
March 12, 2010 at 03:52 pm report abuse -
12. thanks for the advice cosmo..
March 12, 2010 at 01:20 pm report abuse -
11. flavor of the month? or season?
March 11, 2010 at 09:35 pm report abuse -
10. 10. I like summer flings, its one way to unwind!
March 11, 2010 at 11:09 am report abuse -
9. i know one when i met one but i have my limits..
March 09, 2010 at 08:31 pm report abuse -
8. @shadysurvives, agree ako sa 'yo!
March 09, 2010 at 04:23 pm report abuse -
witchy_witch7. i am not a fan of fling too..coz lagi talo ung girl when it comes to this kind of thing..and ayoko ng maraming guys yung dadaan sakin,,eeeeeeeeewwwww
March 09, 2010 at 03:55 pm report abuse -
kimilicious6. I am an anti-fling. Its a big no no for me just to have fling with someone. For what is fling by the way???????????
March 09, 2010 at 11:47 am report abuse -
5. pwede namang ienjoy ang summer without these flings eh.it's scary naman kasi talaga to put your feelings in jeopardy, sa isang bagay pa na walang kasiguruhan.better safe than sorry na lang!
March 09, 2010 at 10:28 am report abuse -
4. love that line amie, "saktong kilig walang pag-ibig" kewl :)
March 09, 2010 at 08:18 am report abuse -
amie3. i suddenly remember last year's summer fling. saktong kilig, walang pag-ibig.
March 09, 2010 at 07:36 am report abuse -
2. I hat fling romances. Mahirap yung ganong stage. Baka mainlove ako ng todo then yung guy wala namang real feeling for me. So it's a no no!
March 09, 2010 at 12:02 am report abuse -
1. naku! ayoko tlg ng fling.
March 08, 2010 at 11:26 pm report abuse
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