DATING
4 Ways To Snag That V-Day Date
It’s never too early to secure a date for Valentine’s! If you really want that cutie to ask you out in time for the day of hearts, follow these handy tips!
Posted on February 2, 2010 12:00 am by Brooke Le Poer Trench
Photo: "Valentine's Day" courtesy of New Line Cinema
Posted on February 2, 2010 12:00 am by Brooke Le Poer Trench
Photo: "Valentine's Day" courtesy of New Line Cinema
1. Give him encouragement.
Say something like “I had a great time tonight” before you part ways. A guy is far more likely to ask you out again if you leave him with some clear indication that you’re interested.
2. Know when to bite your tongue.
We live in a confess-all culture where telling everyone about everything has become okay. But on first dates, guys are supersensitive to a few topics that really turn them off. Some examples: anything to do with personal hygiene, why your last relationship failed, your thoughts on commitment, and current body hang-ups.
3. Hold off on hitting the sack.
Sure he’s putting the moves on you, but most guys would rather have you make them wait beyond your first meeting. Fact is, men love a challenge, so give him something to chase.
4. Make him work around you.
Of course you want to see him again, but don’t be available for marathon text-messaging sessions every time. It sends the message that you have a life beyond this potential romance...which men love.
Say something like “I had a great time tonight” before you part ways. A guy is far more likely to ask you out again if you leave him with some clear indication that you’re interested.
2. Know when to bite your tongue.
We live in a confess-all culture where telling everyone about everything has become okay. But on first dates, guys are supersensitive to a few topics that really turn them off. Some examples: anything to do with personal hygiene, why your last relationship failed, your thoughts on commitment, and current body hang-ups.
3. Hold off on hitting the sack.
Sure he’s putting the moves on you, but most guys would rather have you make them wait beyond your first meeting. Fact is, men love a challenge, so give him something to chase.
4. Make him work around you.
Of course you want to see him again, but don’t be available for marathon text-messaging sessions every time. It sends the message that you have a life beyond this potential romance...which men love.
Tags: men,dating,date,love,romance,dating tips,Valentine's Day,dating advice
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41. this even applies to a girl with a relationship! :)
May 05, 2010 at 02:59 am report abuse -
40. READING COSMO EVERYDAY IS MY IE...HOPE THIS ARTICLES WILL BENEFIT EVERY EACH LADY OF THE DECADES...BECAUSE IT IS A GIFT OF LOVELY LIFE TO ME..KEEP ON COMING CIAO!
March 27, 2010 at 04:08 pm report abuse -
39. don't kiss him yet siguro pag kayo na pwede na yun.
March 23, 2010 at 08:09 pm report abuse -
38. magpakipot kahit konti.
March 23, 2010 at 08:08 pm report abuse -
37. Don't have sex on the first date! Don't kiss on the first date!
March 12, 2010 at 11:55 am report abuse -
36. but don’t be available for marathon text-messaging sessions every time-- Honestly,ako lang yata ang girl hinde mahilig sa txt messaging.. sometimes my guy would say hanapin ko nmn daw cia minsan... :) hehe
March 11, 2010 at 10:32 pm report abuse -
35. Hold off on hitting the sack.--- i agree on this one. You have to take it slowly. Don't rush.
March 07, 2010 at 02:27 pm report abuse -
34. make him work around you all the while giving him encouragement.:)
February 10, 2010 at 04:45 pm report abuse -
33. thanks you for this one. i'll hint my guy with this :)
February 10, 2010 at 04:05 pm report abuse -
32. number four is soooo true. dati im super mega text ever hahaha, ayun, instead of chasing me. im pushing hinm away. hahaha
February 10, 2010 at 07:01 am report abuse -
31. just enjoy the moment :D
February 09, 2010 at 10:54 am report abuse -
30. Say thank to your date, and appreciate the effort that he makes for you. be generous in giving compliments.
February 08, 2010 at 11:51 pm report abuse -
29. too early to secure a date for Valentine’s!
February 08, 2010 at 10:31 pm report abuse -
28. important is to just enjoy the date with that special someone! :)
February 06, 2010 at 11:35 pm report abuse -
27. if a guy likes a gal, he should make the move
February 05, 2010 at 06:43 pm report abuse -
26. Enjoy your date and enjoy the V-day!
February 04, 2010 at 01:43 pm report abuse -
25. baguio nato, sana matuloy... hehehe!
February 04, 2010 at 12:57 pm report abuse -
24. me and my hubby .. will set for another valentines date with our baby haha. kain sa labas nakakapanibago ngalang as now tatlo na kmi hehe..
February 03, 2010 at 02:20 pm report abuse -
23. Guys definitely need some verbal assurance that you like them because believe it or not they don't want to be rejected.
February 03, 2010 at 09:16 am report abuse -
22. exactly what I'm doing with my dates...(with S talaga!?) hahaha
February 02, 2010 at 09:13 pm report abuse -
21. i love to go in baguio and celebrate valentine with may bebe,
February 02, 2010 at 09:05 pm report abuse -
20. i can't wait to spend another wonderful date with my husband.. :) he is also my best friend.. thats the best part..
February 02, 2010 at 08:38 pm report abuse -
19. SMV club member din ako e! LOL
February 02, 2010 at 05:38 pm report abuse -
18. my date would be my bf
February 02, 2010 at 05:38 pm report abuse -
17. naku! wala namang akong hinihintay na date. date with my beloved friends lang. it's a good thing na birthday ko un. I'm so thankful. HAHA. I still have something to celebrate.=)
February 02, 2010 at 03:44 pm report abuse -
16. cosmo admin:pwde bng i-date c felix.haha
February 02, 2010 at 03:24 pm report abuse -
15. Thanks for sharing .. :) 'last yr. we went to e.k ,and stayed in laguna
February 02, 2010 at 03:23 pm report abuse -
14. this coming valentine's day is sure'll be a memorable one with my guy. can't wait for that special date with him :)
February 02, 2010 at 02:41 pm report abuse -
13. valentine's day is such a lovely day!! love is in the air.. hmmm
February 02, 2010 at 01:51 pm report abuse -
12. Last year was nice because me and my guy took our own bestfriends into a blind date...and guess what, they are engaged now..hehe..nauna pa sa amin,,..hehe
February 02, 2010 at 01:44 pm report abuse -
11. Men love challenge indeed..I have a date on V-day and I still dont have tips to make that day special..hehe..
February 02, 2010 at 01:35 pm report abuse -
10. i have no plans on going on a date.ok sna if il have a date w/ felix roco.hala,d ako mkaget-over sa cosmo chat.hehe
February 02, 2010 at 01:11 pm report abuse -
9. thanks for sharing
February 02, 2010 at 01:05 pm report abuse -
8. nice thanks po! i will do it po nito lapit na ang V-day eh!
February 02, 2010 at 12:37 pm report abuse -
7. Thanks for sharing Cosmo.
February 02, 2010 at 11:31 am report abuse -
6. thanks for the short and sweet reminders. these will all work even after the 1st date. thanks cosmo! :)
February 02, 2010 at 11:25 am report abuse -
5. ayan, na-open na rin sa wakas...
February 02, 2010 at 11:23 am report abuse -
4. I like #4
February 02, 2010 at 11:23 am report abuse -
3. What's really important is enjoy the moment when you are together.
February 02, 2010 at 11:16 am report abuse -
2. thanks for the tips
February 02, 2010 at 11:04 am report abuse -
1. Men LOVES challenge! The chase is much more exciting than giving in. =)
February 02, 2010 at 11:00 am report abuse
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