DATING
6 Facial Cues To Watch For On A Date
Does your guy dig your date move...or does it make him just want to flee? Find out by paying close attention to his face!
Posted on February 9, 2010 12:00 am by Beth Whiffren, US Writer
Photo: "Along Came Polly" courtesy of Universal Pictures
Posted on February 9, 2010 12:00 am by Beth Whiffren, US Writer
Photo: "Along Came Polly" courtesy of Universal Pictures

We know that the last thing you want to do on a date with a new guy is mess up, but it won’t hurt to take a few dating risks! Whether by asking him an out-of-the-box question, taking him to an exotic place, or doing something potentially embarrassing, your new dude will instantly see you as fun, interesting, and irresistibly hot.
But how do you gauge if your daring flirt tactic is benta? Cosmo rounds up some common facial expressions that give your date away!
Your Date Is Turned On If…
He smiles broadly. If his grin reveals both rows of teeth and his eyes crinkle at the corners, he’s thrilled.
He smirks. It means he’s happy but maybe a bit embarrassed.
He raises his eyebrows and grins. It means he's pleasantly surprised.
Your Date Is Freaked If…
He curls his lip. This is a sign of annoyance. He probably wants you to back off.
He opens his mouth and juts out his jaw. He’s likely shocked and a little irritated.
He raises his eyebrows and rolls in his lips. He may be a bit put off by your move and feel defensive.
Source: Mary Dawne Arden, professor of culture and communication at New York University
But how do you gauge if your daring flirt tactic is benta? Cosmo rounds up some common facial expressions that give your date away!
Your Date Is Turned On If…
He smiles broadly. If his grin reveals both rows of teeth and his eyes crinkle at the corners, he’s thrilled.
He smirks. It means he’s happy but maybe a bit embarrassed.
He raises his eyebrows and grins. It means he's pleasantly surprised.
Your Date Is Freaked If…
He curls his lip. This is a sign of annoyance. He probably wants you to back off.
He opens his mouth and juts out his jaw. He’s likely shocked and a little irritated.
He raises his eyebrows and rolls in his lips. He may be a bit put off by your move and feel defensive.
Source: Mary Dawne Arden, professor of culture and communication at New York University
Tags: dating,love advice,dating tips,Valentine's Day,facial cues,facial expressions,r elationship tips
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38. yup my fave way of checking how much a guy is attracted to you minsan nga with stance or mannerism kita talaaga
May 16, 2010 at 08:59 am report abuse -
37. body language says a lot! :)
May 05, 2010 at 03:00 am report abuse -
36. Really helpful for someone who can't really read a guy's action, like me. Hahaha.
April 30, 2010 at 09:28 am report abuse -
35. better leave him if he is not being polite.
March 23, 2010 at 08:04 pm report abuse -
34. very helpful tips..
March 23, 2010 at 08:03 pm report abuse -
33. He raises his eyebrows and grins. - sounds gay to me. haha. :)
March 12, 2010 at 10:11 pm report abuse -
32. Eh pano kung he raises ONLY ONE eyebrow? Bading!
March 12, 2010 at 11:53 am report abuse -
31. Db guys can fake din their actions?
March 11, 2010 at 10:26 pm report abuse -
30. When you're going on a date don't forget to smile all the time.
March 07, 2010 at 02:26 pm report abuse -
29. Have fun in your date. Be yourself and always put a smile on your face. Don't worry if your date is not as great as what you expect it, there are many cute guys out there. Don't lose hope.
February 10, 2010 at 11:32 pm report abuse -
28. this is helpful. minsan kasi ung mga guys naku, hindi marunong magsalita.
February 10, 2010 at 06:59 am report abuse -
27. hmmmm..nakikita ko to lahat...hehehe
February 09, 2010 at 06:03 pm report abuse -
26. hmmmm..nakikita ko to lahat...hehehe
February 09, 2010 at 06:03 pm report abuse -
25. hmmmm..nakikita ko to lahat...hehehe
February 09, 2010 at 06:03 pm report abuse -
24. i read this again.. making sure lang hehe .. thanks !
February 09, 2010 at 05:44 pm report abuse -
23. smiling = positive sign.
February 09, 2010 at 01:50 pm report abuse -
22. hala may ganun ba talaga .. wag naman
February 09, 2010 at 01:44 pm report abuse -
21. Pano kung poker face yung guy? *Toink*
February 09, 2010 at 12:42 pm report abuse -
20. will look out for these helpful cues on my next date. ;)
February 09, 2010 at 11:53 am report abuse -
19. i shall bookmark this and review later. :)
February 09, 2010 at 11:06 am report abuse -
18. thanks cosmo :) this will be helpful for later!
February 09, 2010 at 10:32 am report abuse -
Diana17. true true! i can always tell when my guy is pissed at something i said because he opens his mouth and juts out his jaw.
February 09, 2010 at 10:23 am report abuse -
16. i will keep this in mind.hmmm.
February 09, 2010 at 09:42 am report abuse -
15. Next time I go on a date with a new guy I'll keep these things in mind.
February 09, 2010 at 08:36 am report abuse -
14. i'll be paying attention to facial expressions more..
February 09, 2010 at 07:45 am report abuse -
13. wow! these are great.. at least malalaman ko na through facial expressions palang.. i dont have to ask haha
February 09, 2010 at 07:18 am report abuse -
12. wow, great warning signs there.. i am greatful for these!
February 09, 2010 at 06:50 am report abuse -
11. At least now I know. Thanks Cosmo.
February 09, 2010 at 03:04 am report abuse -
10. Now they know
February 09, 2010 at 02:38 am report abuse -
9. Just imagine a guy doing these facial expressions in front of you. Sa tingin pa lang obvious na hehe!
February 09, 2010 at 12:59 am report abuse -
8. i did not know this.thanks sa mga tips cosmo!
February 09, 2010 at 12:36 am report abuse -
7. thanks for the heads up. these body language thing can freak me out sometimes. i dont have a clue what the other person wants to tell me. does this apply to some other situation? i have this "manang" na ka-teammate who always curl her lips. does this mean she's annoyed by everybody? as in, lagi syang nakanguso.
February 09, 2010 at 12:24 am report abuse -
6. thanks for the heads up. these body language thing can freak me up. i dont have a clue what the other person wants to tell me. i have this "manang" na ka-teammate who always curl her lips. does this mean she's annoyed by everybody? as in, lagi syang nakanguso.
February 09, 2010 at 12:23 am report abuse -
5. i agree with shirley.. just enjoy the date, don't worry too much if that date would end to a relationship or just on friendship. atlis you enjoyed that date db.. :)
February 09, 2010 at 12:21 am report abuse -
4. hindi pa naman nangyyari skin ung "Your date is freaked.." buti na lang.=)
February 09, 2010 at 12:12 am report abuse -
3. i totaly agree, thanks for sharing
February 09, 2010 at 12:11 am report abuse -
2. These signs are scary. For me, if you're on a date, just enjoy and don't worry if you and the guy are not on the same page, there are a lot of men out there waiting for you. Enjoy your heart's day!
February 09, 2010 at 12:10 am report abuse -
1. I agree! :)
February 09, 2010 at 12:09 am report abuse
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