LOVE & LUST QUIZZES
Are You In Love For Real...Or Forcing It?
September 20, 2009 12:00am |
by:
Riann Smith
Photo: Ocs Alvarez
Find out if you’re in a relationship because you’re truly smitten by your guy, or just because you can’t stand being single.
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99. In Love...wahahahaha!
June 17, 2011 at 11:00 am report abuse -
98. INLOVE.. absolutely! *blush!
April 04, 2011 at 08:53 pm report abuse -
97. IN LOLVE....YES YES YES
February 14, 2011 at 08:37 pm report abuse -
96. this is so right
December 26, 2010 at 01:28 pm report abuse -
95. IN LOVE! so in love with him... :) <3
November 25, 2010 at 11:55 am report abuse -
94. i am IN LOVE for 3 yrs and a half...hahaha...
September 18, 2010 at 01:27 pm report abuse -
93. 93. In Love and I really am! :)
August 11, 2010 at 03:51 am report abuse -
92. It's love love love... undeniably in love with my sweetie..
July 16, 2010 at 09:48 am report abuse -
91. inlove.... im proud of it.7yrs....na kami!!!we're really inluv...
June 22, 2010 at 05:57 pm report abuse -
90. In Love. hahaha
June 22, 2010 at 01:27 pm report abuse -
89. In-love! :-)
June 11, 2010 at 09:56 am report abuse -
88. In love! Woo! I knew he's the one!
June 07, 2010 at 05:00 pm report abuse -
87. In Love- totally!!!! c:
May 20, 2010 at 10:56 pm report abuse -
86. legit love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
May 14, 2010 at 04:34 pm report abuse -
85. In Love..i am..proudly and boastfully..(pareho lang ata un?) :)
May 09, 2010 at 05:37 am report abuse -
84. i must be really in love with this guy. :)
May 07, 2010 at 03:13 pm report abuse -
83. Forcing it. - Ouch D;
April 29, 2010 at 07:17 pm report abuse -
82. I'm in love..check! how about him?..how will i know if he loves me too?..
April 09, 2010 at 12:42 am report abuse -
81. in love. huhu panu kung sya hindi.
April 03, 2010 at 01:22 pm report abuse -
80. legit looove! :)
March 24, 2010 at 04:07 pm report abuse -
79. In Love - hahaha, obvious ba.?
March 22, 2010 at 06:22 pm report abuse -
78. Forcing It?! Im surprised!
March 19, 2010 at 08:33 pm report abuse -
77. In love. Kanino?
March 18, 2010 at 05:07 pm report abuse -
76. What Im Forcing It? Di naman siguro . ;0
March 09, 2010 at 11:07 pm report abuse -
75. awww... im hooked. haha
March 09, 2010 at 06:16 pm report abuse -
enaj74. in love
March 05, 2010 at 07:32 pm report abuse -
73. In Love Baby, you have something more precious than diamonds: totally legit love. If he were to dump you tomorrow (the horror!), you'd mourn his scent, his kisses, even his completely ridiculous sense of humor. In fact, you're so enamored, you'd still be rip-his-pants-off attracted to him even if he lost his job or his looks took a nosedive. "You feel such a deep sense of adulation and respect for your partner that you're sure you can grow and change and your love won't dip," says Nancy Rosenbach, PhD, a clinical psychologist in New York City and Long Island. "That kind of confidence comes from letting a relationship develop at its own speed. And if you do wind up marrying this person, you know it won't be about planning the wedding and all the romance that surrounds it. It will be about the privilege of having this amazing man with you for life." Another sign you're smitten: In addition to being sexually electrified by him, you don't need anyone else singing his praises—whether he's considered a catch by your friends or family is completely irrelevant. As long as you're content, that's what counts. "The fact that you don't have to ask your friends to verify that you're a great couple means you're totally secure in the relationship," says Rosenbach. Plus, you don't really feel jealous or compeve with friends who are moving faster than you are on their couple track. Because let's face it: You know what you have feels right, and all those fabulous we're-in-it-forever milestones will eventually happen. "When a person is legitimately in love, she's not trying to live up to other people's ideals of what the perfect relationship should be," says Bonnie Eaker Weil, PhD, a relationship therapist in New York City and author of Make Up, Don't Break Up. "You trust the strong emotions you feel in your gut, and that's all that matters."- WAAAHH question is, does he feel the same? =(
February 25, 2010 at 04:04 am report abuse -
rei_smasher72. In love? To whom lol
February 17, 2010 at 08:13 am report abuse -
veronica71. why wouldn't I be in love? I am married to him! ahahah
February 11, 2010 at 01:27 pm report abuse -
devilarangel70. forcing it
February 11, 2010 at 12:24 pm report abuse -
69. am i?
February 09, 2010 at 08:02 pm report abuse -
68. Forcing It Your guy may be great-looking, smart, and caring, but the fact is, he just ain't making your heart go ga-gung, ga-gung. Not only do you frequently edit out unflattering things about him (his bad habits, his unsatisfying lovemaking style, his tendency to piss you off) when you talk about him to friends, you feel compelled to get their approval to know if you're a good match. "Women can talk themselves into being in love with a guy for a variety of reasons," says Bonnie Eaker Weil, PhD, a relationship therapist in New York City and author of Make Up, Don't Break Up. "You may be in love with the idea of love, so you fool yourself into thinking you are," says Weil. "We live in a couples' world, so having a man you care about but aren't truly crazy for sometimes seems like a better alternative to being single. A relationship becomes a status symbol." And having hordes of happily coupled-up pals doesn't exactly help the situation. "You may be feeling pressure from friends around you who are either engaged or in committed relationships and don't want to feel left behind," explains Nancy Rosenbach, PhD, a clinical psychologist in New York City and Long Island. "So you rush to label yourself as 'in love' and don't stop to wonder if you might have settled for someone who doesn't truly stimulate you." The truth is, trying to talk yourself into being head over heels will only backfire. "Not only are you cheating yourself out of having a truly passionate relationship, but you're also setting yourself up to eventually become bored, take him for granted, and pull away from him when someone better comes along," says Rosenbach. Perhaps it's time to make a clean split with him and consider your other guy options. "It's scary to consider breaking away from what you have and getting out there to find a better match, because you may love the consistency of having a date every Saturday night and a steady sex partner and wonder if you'll even meet someone better," says Weil. But holding on to a guy who doesn't make your pulse race does you and him a disservice. You owe it to him to be honest about your feelings, and you owe it to yourself to consider parting ways—so your heart will be open to someone who'll make it leap off the charts.
February 09, 2010 at 08:02 pm report abuse -
67. Im in love because Im so inlove with my husband. I won't last a day without him.
February 09, 2010 at 02:52 pm report abuse -
66. totally legit love.
February 06, 2010 at 04:27 pm report abuse -
gaiL65. in Love.. so0o true! ive Learned a Lot frm my mistakes.. thanks for stiLL accepting me depsite evrything.. ILOVEYOU sweetie..so0oo much!
February 06, 2010 at 05:11 am report abuse -
apRil64. inLove...yet...he dumped me.. =(
February 06, 2010 at 03:34 am report abuse -
GoddessNix63. IN LOVE... and forever i will be... :-) Love you so much babe...
February 06, 2010 at 02:37 am report abuse -
62. of course I'm In Love!
February 02, 2010 at 09:40 pm report abuse -
61. in love! awww :)
February 02, 2010 at 01:16 pm report abuse -
60. In Love - i'm super duper in love with my bhebhe! couldn't ask for more! he's everything I want! and I'll continue praying for our relationship!
January 30, 2010 at 07:11 pm report abuse -
lexy0859. totally in LUvvvv..
January 30, 2010 at 02:36 am report abuse -
58. Forcing It
January 29, 2010 at 03:19 am report abuse -
57. In Love. yes i am. love him so much.
January 28, 2010 at 04:17 pm report abuse -
56. i don't enter in a relationship na di ako sure na mahal ko xa..
January 26, 2010 at 08:29 pm report abuse -
55. In Love.. so true..
January 26, 2010 at 08:28 pm report abuse -
angelique54. yeah right!
January 26, 2010 at 11:50 am report abuse -
53. In Love
January 26, 2010 at 04:44 am report abuse -
Anneng52. Im in Love! yeah thats right!
January 25, 2010 at 01:46 pm report abuse -
51. hahaha.. yah true,,, inloved and bait na
January 25, 2010 at 11:56 am report abuse -
50. in love hahaha
January 25, 2010 at 07:47 am report abuse -
49. In Love ==== oh yes im inlove, to the moon and back. love him so much.
January 24, 2010 at 09:37 am report abuse -
48. yes its true im in love with my husband!
January 22, 2010 at 05:16 am report abuse -
47. When I'm in a relationship I'm always inlove with the person. I take relationships very seriously.
January 21, 2010 at 03:29 pm report abuse -
46. me too, forcing it. sigh....
January 21, 2010 at 02:12 pm report abuse -
45. Forcing It
January 21, 2010 at 01:20 am report abuse -
K44. Forcing it. i knew it! help.. i know im in this situation of just forcing to be together.. i cant live without him but i feel like i cant also live with him. =(
January 12, 2010 at 04:57 pm report abuse -
43. mmmm not sure...
January 06, 2010 at 11:20 pm report abuse -
2net42. in love.? hmm.. siguro.. (^^,)
December 17, 2009 at 10:42 am report abuse -
Kristel41. Really, IM IN LOVE.. on the brighter end.. but sadly to say, my guy and i is having the "hunging" stage in a relationship =/
December 16, 2009 at 11:35 pm report abuse -
40. Surely In love
December 16, 2009 at 03:58 pm report abuse -
jamie39. ooh .. i'm in love haha ...no matter what happen..i will still love him .
December 16, 2009 at 12:21 am report abuse -
38. Of course Im forcing it. He was my on-off BF for 9 years since college then he got me pregnant that's why we got married. So in total we're together for like 13 years. Gosh I did not know it was that loooong. Quality over quantity, I know! But I have 2 good looking kids (coz he's good looking) and I'm just average so it's a plus. I'm now counting my blessings rather than thinking how dragging our sex life has become.
December 10, 2009 at 05:39 pm report abuse -
rean0937. forcing it?? oh no.. maybe because im still searching for real happiness???
December 06, 2009 at 02:58 pm report abuse -
36. oh my... im in love.. well thank God I found him... He put a smile on my face. =)
December 05, 2009 at 10:47 pm report abuse -
35. I love him...heheheh, i want to be with him for the rest of my life..
December 03, 2009 at 03:18 pm report abuse -
cyrish_bryan34. yes im inlove w/ him so much.. i wanted to be w/ him forever.. :)
December 03, 2009 at 04:42 am report abuse -
cmjd33. im sure!!! i lovE him so much.. wEe... X.x
December 01, 2009 at 07:11 pm report abuse -
32. forcing it: i don't know what to say.. of course i love him.. we were like 8years already..
November 18, 2009 at 02:31 pm report abuse -
jhan.chriz31. sure am.. just cant help thinking bout my man a lot..
November 14, 2009 at 05:23 pm report abuse -
enamored30. ya in love indeed. I feel very bad when I hurt his feelings and he apologises even when he is not the one in the wrong! he is soo tender towards me. I miss his scent all the time and can't wait to go back for him.cant have enough of his love, tho its been three years since we became a couple.
November 09, 2009 at 12:11 am report abuse -
29. i sure am..
November 07, 2009 at 02:49 pm report abuse -
shygurl28. i dont know. actually i already have a baby with a previous partner. and right now, me and my new partner have our 1 yr old baby as well. maybe because of the fact that I made the same mistake twice now, I am convincing myself I think that I should never fall for anybody anymore even if it means that it could be possible right now that I could fall out of love. I cant define my emotions right now. I know if I will stick to what I really feel, I will be failing my daughter's dream of having an intack family. I dont want my 2nd daughter to feel that because I know my eldest (who is 3 yrs old) will feel that as soon as she could start going to school and understand what family stands for. I dont want to be unfair to my kids, AM I NOT? hahay..next topic pls, this is driving me nuts
November 03, 2009 at 01:57 pm report abuse -
liza27. i know I'm forcing it but i don't want to hurt him.
October 30, 2009 at 12:15 am report abuse -
26. m inlove... true! when we got separated for a while, i'm soooo depressed of not seeing him, smelling his cologne, even missed giving him a massage...
October 29, 2009 at 12:59 am report abuse -
rellyn25. i love him..-)
October 27, 2009 at 10:28 am report abuse -
maridan24. I still love you,despite everything that happened,nothing's change
October 25, 2009 at 06:55 pm report abuse -
camae23. Im soo happy!Im really inlove with my Love...i love him so much!!!hope he'll read this...
October 24, 2009 at 07:31 pm report abuse -
22. dis time yes...m in love
October 22, 2009 at 01:04 pm report abuse -
sha21. in love.Everyone knows...I love him so much..=)
October 21, 2009 at 05:50 pm report abuse -
kirsten20. in love.definitely.we started out with not much of a rough road..but then the road didn't proved smooth as we moved on. there'll always be humps & bumps along the way...but still,for me,what we are & what we have is as good a fairytale i could have...for real. c:
October 19, 2009 at 05:18 pm report abuse -
19. yes i know that I'm forcing it... exactly what my result said.
October 18, 2009 at 04:24 pm report abuse -
eimz18. yeah, i'm really in love with him, but, i don't know a lot about his personal life...he's so myterious...fact that he's my boyfriend huhu
October 17, 2009 at 05:23 pm report abuse -
HelloKitty17. wee.. Im inlove! XD
October 14, 2009 at 03:34 pm report abuse -
mika16. hello anu poh pade shoutout sa friendster na nkaka touch nman poh,,,hahah
October 03, 2009 at 07:31 pm report abuse -
duwarf200715. love is a gift from god so we must care for it.
October 03, 2009 at 06:31 pm report abuse -
salby14. i love my tinpy
October 02, 2009 at 02:16 pm report abuse -
13. eep! love ko nga si bufra! am so happy with my result!
October 02, 2009 at 09:23 am report abuse -
day12. omg! no doubt am crazy inlove with my man.. i love you so much hon ko..(^_^)
October 01, 2009 at 09:56 pm report abuse -
aia11. soooo inlove with my honey!.. =)
October 01, 2009 at 08:26 pm report abuse -
lynn10. really can't deny that i love you then and still love you now that we're already apart
October 01, 2009 at 05:46 am report abuse -
9. I really love my man ! =)
September 30, 2009 at 03:47 pm report abuse -
8. Gosh Im really in love with him...
September 30, 2009 at 06:25 am report abuse -
dexie7. Nice one! True enough, i really love my honey.
September 29, 2009 at 02:31 pm report abuse -
chen6. i relly love cosmo...from mag to website..so informative..
September 28, 2009 at 03:11 pm report abuse -
rheatch5. i lurv your magazine so much. It educates me physically,emotionally, as well as mentally. Good luck. You guys are brilliant because you know what interest your readers
September 27, 2009 at 11:29 pm report abuse -
dhang4. nice...thank you so much...
September 26, 2009 at 09:48 pm report abuse -
gabie3. i want to love you?? now why cant i?
September 26, 2009 at 07:45 pm report abuse -
2. i love you mine...
September 22, 2009 at 04:04 pm report abuse -
cel1. yes,bec.you don't choice e guy naman na di right para sau e.....
September 20, 2009 at 08:00 pm report abuse
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