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19 Ways To Become A Sex Goddess
Want to give your man a V-Day present he’ll remember for years to come? Send him over the edge by being the greatest lover he has ever had!
Posted on February 11, 2010 12:00 am by Molly Triffin
Photo: "The Girl Next Door" courtesy of 20th Century Fox
Posted on February 11, 2010 12:00 am by Molly Triffin
Photo: "The Girl Next Door" courtesy of 20th Century Fox
There are women who are great in bed, and then there are sex goddesses—chicks who not only have a stash of killer seduction tricks but whose finely tuned sack skills push men over the edge. In addition, they’ve mastered an enthusiastic, almost-anything-goes attitude and know how to make any guy feel like a great lover. Most important, they do all this without compromising their own pleasure. As for becoming a bona fide sex goddess yourself, integrate these scorching tips (gleaned from top sex experts) into your repertoire and you’ll attain that supreme status, too.
Goddess Secret 1: Start preplay in the AM.
Bliss masters plant the seed of desire early so it has a chance to grow all day. “When you’re planning on having a hot night, begin foreplay in the morning,” says Olivia St. Claire, author of 302 Advanced Techniques for Driving a Man Wild in Bed. Tricks that fuel his lust: Wedge a naughty note under his windshield wiper or give him a deep kiss before scooting off to work. As for getting in a frisky frame of mind yourself, mentally replay a sexy memory or fantasy when you have some downtime.
Goddess Secret 2: Find erotic inspiration everywhere.
Say you’re putting on a pair of heels for a date and you realize they make your legs look ridiculously hot. Tap into that later and keep your stilettos on in the sack. Or if you suddenly notice how plush your man’s hall carpet is, make a mental note to suggest getting it on there one night soon. “Great lovers zone in on the passion potential in any everyday situation,” says California sex therapist Linda DeVillers, PhD. Throughout the day, put your senses on high alert—savor delicious smells and tastes, sexy sights, feel-good fabrics, and sensual music. It’ll help you develop sex goddess-grade carnal spontaneity.
Goddess Secret 3: Coax a man out of his carnal safe zone.
Men tend to fall into position ruts because they’re focused on climaxing. “He’ll opt for the tried-and-true move he knows will get him off,” explains Ava Cadell, PhD, author of Pocket Idiot’s Guide to Oral Sex. “But he’ll be glad if you push him to try new stuff.” After all, that’s what gifted sex partners do. Figure out what else he’ll enjoy based on his go-to position. Example: Doggie-style dudes may also love reverse cowgirl because of the similar angle.
Goddess Secret 4: Give hot teases.
Cop this superior seductress technique: Simulate sex during foreplay. Rhythmically suck his fingers or slide his hand back and forth between your breasts. “Acting out a preview boosts arousal because it’s so close to intercourse,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex.
Goddess Secret 5: Step on the brakes—twice.
The harder it is to get something, the more you usually want it, right? Lust lesson: “Delayed gratification builds physical tension and emotional excitement,” says St. Claire. For instance, lick his penis, then stop and run your fingers over his chest. Next, take him entirely into your mouth for a few moments before stopping again. Finally, give him full-on oral action. Slowing down two times will give a hotter payoff than being unbridled off the bat. Do this during intercourse, too.
Goddess Secret 1: Start preplay in the AM.
Bliss masters plant the seed of desire early so it has a chance to grow all day. “When you’re planning on having a hot night, begin foreplay in the morning,” says Olivia St. Claire, author of 302 Advanced Techniques for Driving a Man Wild in Bed. Tricks that fuel his lust: Wedge a naughty note under his windshield wiper or give him a deep kiss before scooting off to work. As for getting in a frisky frame of mind yourself, mentally replay a sexy memory or fantasy when you have some downtime.
Goddess Secret 2: Find erotic inspiration everywhere.
Say you’re putting on a pair of heels for a date and you realize they make your legs look ridiculously hot. Tap into that later and keep your stilettos on in the sack. Or if you suddenly notice how plush your man’s hall carpet is, make a mental note to suggest getting it on there one night soon. “Great lovers zone in on the passion potential in any everyday situation,” says California sex therapist Linda DeVillers, PhD. Throughout the day, put your senses on high alert—savor delicious smells and tastes, sexy sights, feel-good fabrics, and sensual music. It’ll help you develop sex goddess-grade carnal spontaneity.
Goddess Secret 3: Coax a man out of his carnal safe zone.
Men tend to fall into position ruts because they’re focused on climaxing. “He’ll opt for the tried-and-true move he knows will get him off,” explains Ava Cadell, PhD, author of Pocket Idiot’s Guide to Oral Sex. “But he’ll be glad if you push him to try new stuff.” After all, that’s what gifted sex partners do. Figure out what else he’ll enjoy based on his go-to position. Example: Doggie-style dudes may also love reverse cowgirl because of the similar angle.
Goddess Secret 4: Give hot teases.
Cop this superior seductress technique: Simulate sex during foreplay. Rhythmically suck his fingers or slide his hand back and forth between your breasts. “Acting out a preview boosts arousal because it’s so close to intercourse,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex.
Goddess Secret 5: Step on the brakes—twice.
The harder it is to get something, the more you usually want it, right? Lust lesson: “Delayed gratification builds physical tension and emotional excitement,” says St. Claire. For instance, lick his penis, then stop and run your fingers over his chest. Next, take him entirely into your mouth for a few moments before stopping again. Finally, give him full-on oral action. Slowing down two times will give a hotter payoff than being unbridled off the bat. Do this during intercourse, too.
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35. do the moves girl..
May 11, 2010 at 07:24 pm report abuse -
34. Double the pleasure..haha..love it..
May 11, 2010 at 07:24 pm report abuse -
33. READING COSMO EVERYDAY IS MY IE...HOPE THIS ARTICLES WILL BENEFIT EVERY EACH LADY OF THE DECADES...BECAUSE IT IS A GIFT OF LOVELY LIFE TO ME..KEEP ON COMING CIAO!
March 27, 2010 at 04:07 pm report abuse -
32. be confident girls! Cosmo girls rock.
March 07, 2010 at 11:45 am report abuse -
kaelyn31. eheheeh... I wish i could do that
February 16, 2010 at 09:40 pm report abuse -
lala30. been there done that na...and it really works!!!
February 16, 2010 at 07:18 am report abuse -
29. wow! amazing tips!
February 11, 2010 at 10:50 pm report abuse -
28. i can tease a lot lolz
February 11, 2010 at 12:53 pm report abuse -
27. grabe kka l naman naman mga to haha.. joke!
February 11, 2010 at 09:56 am report abuse -
26. 21. Astig, I love this list!
February 11, 2010 at 09:50 am report abuse -
25. wow! parang un iba nagwa ko na... hahaha! joke!
February 11, 2010 at 08:23 am report abuse -
24. These are tips that will surely help my sex life. Hehe..
February 11, 2010 at 08:07 am report abuse -
23. men reallylike to be teased!!
February 11, 2010 at 08:00 am report abuse -
22. great for vday?! ;) nice tips
February 11, 2010 at 07:20 am report abuse -
21. this is great! .. thanks
February 11, 2010 at 04:49 am report abuse -
20. ..just explore, explore & im sure he's explode.hahaha
February 11, 2010 at 02:16 am report abuse -
19. brain is the sexiest part of the body. a great conversation can be considered as a foreplay. Match it with subtle flirty moves & im sure your guy's head will be spinning ;)
February 11, 2010 at 02:15 am report abuse -
JACQ18. gurl
February 11, 2010 at 02:00 am report abuse -
17. noted ulit. will review kapag kailangan ko na :P
February 11, 2010 at 01:55 am report abuse -
16. Wow! this is perfect! thanks cosmo.
February 11, 2010 at 01:49 am report abuse -
15. Step on the brake - twice.. hahaha! this will really really turn him on! :D
February 11, 2010 at 01:00 am report abuse -
14. Find erotic inspiration everywhere - so sexy! haha!
February 11, 2010 at 12:59 am report abuse -
13. perfect for the love month.=)
February 11, 2010 at 12:21 am report abuse -
12. i am now a sex goddess hahaaha
February 11, 2010 at 12:21 am report abuse -
11. wow. cool tips.=) thanks!=)
February 11, 2010 at 12:21 am report abuse -
10. woah. these are so sexy. perfect for vday huh? :) thanks for posting!
February 11, 2010 at 12:15 am report abuse -
9. Push the peak. -- i usually tend to push him harder.. hahahaha
February 11, 2010 at 12:10 am report abuse -
8. Find erotic inspiration everywhere. - sexy.
February 11, 2010 at 12:09 am report abuse -
7. love this one. thanks for posting!
February 11, 2010 at 12:08 am report abuse -
6. thanks for the tips.
February 11, 2010 at 12:08 am report abuse -
5. just be urself,boost ur confidence to be a sex goddess!
February 11, 2010 at 12:08 am report abuse -
4. “When you’re planning on having a hot night, begin foreplay in the morning,” -this is new! thanks for another yummy info Cosmo!
February 11, 2010 at 12:03 am report abuse -
3. To become a sex goddess,just be confident all the time!
February 11, 2010 at 12:02 am report abuse -
2. that girl is the one from the movie girl next door..right? she is pretty. i wonder why she is not popular.
February 11, 2010 at 12:01 am report abuse -
1. wow sooo nice post po thnaks
February 11, 2010 at 12:01 am report abuse
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