MATTRESS MOVES
5 Ways To Make Vacation Sex Sizzle
You, your man, and a hotel room—you know exactly what’s going to happen. Here’s how to make that year-end holiday romp the most memorable ever!
Posted on December 24, 2009 12:00 am by Cara Litke
Photo: "Just Married" courtesy of 20th Century Fox
Posted on December 24, 2009 12:00 am by Cara Litke
Photo: "Just Married" courtesy of 20th Century Fox
Ahh, vacation. The mere mention of a holiday trip for two immediately stirs up any number of images from sun-kissed beaches to quaint hillside houses to the bright lights of an exciting new city. And most important of all, it brings to mind the wild, take-no-prisoners booty that romantic getaways are famous for.
Why the supersteamy reputation? “When you’re on holiday, you don’t have to deal with all the day-to-day stressors that can inhibit you from having great sex,” explains Yvonne K. Fulbright, author of The Hot Guide to Safer Sex. “Plus, the new environment inspires couples to experiment and be more adventurous.”
That said, there is one catch: Trying to live up to the high expectations of paradise-caliber action can also put a lot of pressure on your trip and turn it into a total bliss-kill. So you have to approach vacay passion play smartly. Instead of aiming to have record-breaking sex, just focus on breaking your own racy rules and, hello, having fun. Here are a few ways to make the most of your erotic escape.
1. Prep Pre-Trip
A romantic retreat a deux is the perfect excuse to prettify. “Pampering yourself beforehand can jump-start that frisky frame of mind because it’ll make you feel like a new-and-improved you,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex. Plus, your sizzling surprises will make your man feel like he’s away with your naughty alter ego.
All it takes is some advance planning. Before you head off on your hiatus, get a more-daring-than-usual Brazilian bikini wax or a fun down-below design, like a heart, to wow him on your first night away. Stock up on sexy lingerie, too—that means no cotton briefs allowed—and don’t forget to pack plenty of extra film to record the results. Our passionate prediction: Your vixen-on-vacay look will be so damn seductive, he’ll wish he could take you away more often.
2. Dish Your Desires
Why wait until check-in to get your hot holiday started? You can take advantage of the travel time to discuss all the naughty deeds you might want to try on your trip. “Sharing your fantasies en route is a great activity because it builds anticipation and puts you in a sexual mood before you even arrive,” says Carole Altman, PhD, author of 101 Ways to Make Love Happen. “Also, since you’ll be in new surroundings, it’s an opportunity to be daring and mention things you normally might be too shy to suggest.”
Remember, keep it casual, no expectations. You’re not making a must-do list together but simply revealing what turns you on. To open up the dirty dialogue, make a comment like “You know what I’ve always wanted to try? Having sex on the beach at night.” Then ask him if there’s anything he’s been curious about. By the time you reach the hotel, you’ll be ready to tear off each other’s clothes. Unless, of course, you get impatient and wind up joining the mile-high club.
3. Instill A No-Clothes Policy
What’s the point of having all those tantalizing tan lines if you can’t show them off? Declare your hotel room a wardrobe-free zone and ditch your duds as soon as you walk through the door. “Being naked around each other will set the sexual tone for your entire stay,” says Fulbright. “Not only will you feel freer and sexier, but you’ll also be ready for action at all times.”
If the thought of strutting around wearing nothing but your sunburn makes you uneasy, you can warm up to the idea by sleeping in the buff first. “Your bare skin against the cool, crisp sheets will feel so sensual,” Altman points out. Once you get used to going au naturel at night, you may feel more comfortable dropping your drawers in the middle of the day.
Why the supersteamy reputation? “When you’re on holiday, you don’t have to deal with all the day-to-day stressors that can inhibit you from having great sex,” explains Yvonne K. Fulbright, author of The Hot Guide to Safer Sex. “Plus, the new environment inspires couples to experiment and be more adventurous.”
That said, there is one catch: Trying to live up to the high expectations of paradise-caliber action can also put a lot of pressure on your trip and turn it into a total bliss-kill. So you have to approach vacay passion play smartly. Instead of aiming to have record-breaking sex, just focus on breaking your own racy rules and, hello, having fun. Here are a few ways to make the most of your erotic escape.
1. Prep Pre-Trip
A romantic retreat a deux is the perfect excuse to prettify. “Pampering yourself beforehand can jump-start that frisky frame of mind because it’ll make you feel like a new-and-improved you,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex. Plus, your sizzling surprises will make your man feel like he’s away with your naughty alter ego.
All it takes is some advance planning. Before you head off on your hiatus, get a more-daring-than-usual Brazilian bikini wax or a fun down-below design, like a heart, to wow him on your first night away. Stock up on sexy lingerie, too—that means no cotton briefs allowed—and don’t forget to pack plenty of extra film to record the results. Our passionate prediction: Your vixen-on-vacay look will be so damn seductive, he’ll wish he could take you away more often.
2. Dish Your Desires
Why wait until check-in to get your hot holiday started? You can take advantage of the travel time to discuss all the naughty deeds you might want to try on your trip. “Sharing your fantasies en route is a great activity because it builds anticipation and puts you in a sexual mood before you even arrive,” says Carole Altman, PhD, author of 101 Ways to Make Love Happen. “Also, since you’ll be in new surroundings, it’s an opportunity to be daring and mention things you normally might be too shy to suggest.”
Remember, keep it casual, no expectations. You’re not making a must-do list together but simply revealing what turns you on. To open up the dirty dialogue, make a comment like “You know what I’ve always wanted to try? Having sex on the beach at night.” Then ask him if there’s anything he’s been curious about. By the time you reach the hotel, you’ll be ready to tear off each other’s clothes. Unless, of course, you get impatient and wind up joining the mile-high club.
3. Instill A No-Clothes Policy
What’s the point of having all those tantalizing tan lines if you can’t show them off? Declare your hotel room a wardrobe-free zone and ditch your duds as soon as you walk through the door. “Being naked around each other will set the sexual tone for your entire stay,” says Fulbright. “Not only will you feel freer and sexier, but you’ll also be ready for action at all times.”
If the thought of strutting around wearing nothing but your sunburn makes you uneasy, you can warm up to the idea by sleeping in the buff first. “Your bare skin against the cool, crisp sheets will feel so sensual,” Altman points out. Once you get used to going au naturel at night, you may feel more comfortable dropping your drawers in the middle of the day.
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36. a red silhouette nighties will do also :)
June 29, 2010 at 03:05 am report abuse -
35. ...nice tips...
April 16, 2010 at 11:53 am report abuse -
34. no clothes policy it is
March 25, 2010 at 03:34 am report abuse -
33. 3. Instill A No-Clothes Policy ----this one is funny. but one of the best tips.
March 07, 2010 at 11:53 am report abuse -
32. like this
February 10, 2010 at 11:58 pm report abuse -
31. Haay... I wanna go back on vacation tuloy.
February 10, 2010 at 03:03 pm report abuse -
30. it brings to mind the wild, take-no-prisoners booty that romantic getaways are famous for.
February 08, 2010 at 10:48 pm report abuse -
29. I love the first tip 1. Prep Pre-Trip. It will add spice in your honeymoon by wearing sexy lingerie so bring sexy lingerie.
February 08, 2010 at 05:58 pm report abuse -
28. If you're comfortable and confident about your body then you wouldn't have a problem with the no clothes policy.
February 07, 2010 at 06:03 pm report abuse -
27. gusto ko na mag vacation :)
February 07, 2010 at 03:10 pm report abuse -
26. i love the tips. very creative.
February 07, 2010 at 12:51 pm report abuse -
25. i want to try the no clothes policy too!!! but i have too loose weight first. hehe
February 04, 2010 at 01:46 pm report abuse -
24. sexy sexy.. ohh.. thekthie thektie...
February 02, 2010 at 05:47 am report abuse -
23. i love the no clothes policy,haha.funny but i'd love to try it on a vacay w/ my guy.haha
February 01, 2010 at 04:13 am report abuse -
22. sexy sexy.. ohh.. thekthie thektie...
January 29, 2010 at 04:58 am report abuse -
21. Just relax. Don't get stressed.
January 28, 2010 at 02:18 pm report abuse -
20. Confidence is key
January 28, 2010 at 05:42 am report abuse -
19. aw!aw!aw! sarap!
January 27, 2010 at 05:18 pm report abuse -
18. i can't wait to have our summer vacation. who knows after vacation we will be having our second angel. Thnaks Cosmo Team for the tips. ♥
January 26, 2010 at 08:05 am report abuse -
17. this helped our vacation to the max! =)
January 24, 2010 at 03:31 pm report abuse -
16. I think I'm gonna need more courage to do number 3.
January 23, 2010 at 09:40 pm report abuse -
15. I like sharing my fantasies with my man.
January 22, 2010 at 09:31 am report abuse -
14. gusto ko ng magbakasyon ulit =(
January 22, 2010 at 07:56 am report abuse -
13. nice ambience, good food and a nice bath tub can make my vacation go WOW :)
January 21, 2010 at 12:36 pm report abuse -
12. i'm excited! =)
December 29, 2009 at 11:43 am report abuse -
11. aww... brittany murphy did good movies. sayang
December 29, 2009 at 07:58 am report abuse -
10. i love hotels,,, i can moan as loud as i cn
December 28, 2009 at 02:02 am report abuse -
9. I like the idea of walking around the hotel room naked. It's so sexy.
December 26, 2009 at 02:22 pm report abuse -
8. ka sad naman sa movie na nafeature dito, patay na to si brittany murphy.
December 26, 2009 at 11:45 am report abuse -
7. hooooot. i will definitely do these things.. can't wait for another vacation this summer
December 25, 2009 at 02:51 pm report abuse -
6. that girl with aston, she just died right?
December 24, 2009 at 10:34 pm report abuse -
5. wooottwhooohh! haha nice tips! :)
December 24, 2009 at 03:34 pm report abuse -
4. Instill A No-Clothes Policy --- hehehe too daring yet exciting =)
December 24, 2009 at 09:44 am report abuse -
3. wonderful insight :) too bad brittany murphy passed away.. she did great movies pa naman..
December 24, 2009 at 07:38 am report abuse -
2. love the post... sex should always be fun..exciting...thrilling a nice place, bath tub/or anywhere you feel like doing the deed would give much satisfaction actually. ^^
December 24, 2009 at 07:00 am report abuse -
1. basta no fighting.. pure love lang...
December 24, 2009 at 12:33 am report abuse
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