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7 Most Titillating Ways To Touch A Naked Man

If you really want to drive him delirious with desire, you need to know how his body works. Here, the lusty lessons! Posted on December 10, 2009 12:00 am by Ellen Biazon Photo: Mitch Mauricio

If you really want to make his knees buckle with bliss, you need to know some details about male anatomy. We’re talking specifics on how a guy’s skin reacts to certain stroke styles, the level of pressure men prefer, and the exact chain of events that occurs in his body when you and he make flesh-on-flesh contact.

There’s a lot more going on than you probably think. “Each touch between you two sparks a cascade of sensations: His temperature rises, his pain threshold increases, and chemical messengers released into his bloodstream make his skin supersensitive,” explains Susan Kellogg, PhD, director of sexual medicine at the Pelvic and Sexual Health Institute in Philadelphia. To learn more about your guy’s bod, plus the blow-his-mind maneuvers that’ll make you his pleasure queen, check out these principles of carnal connecting.

Touch Technique 1: Start With A Slow, Surprising Stroke

Sure, if you unzip your guy’s jeans and grab his privates, you’ll get an instant rise out of him. But kindling his desire with a subtle, less obvious touch will produce more intense passion. That’s because men are linear thinkers who like to know what’s going to happen next. “Male patients often say that during a massage, they respond to more predictable back-and-forth moves,” says Kellogg.

Deviating from that conventional pattern and treating him to an unpredictable stroke, however, is more surprising, meaning it’ll really ignite his libido. He won’t be able to guess where you’ll caress him next, so as he anticipates your touch, all of his nerve endings will be on high alert.

Blow-his-mind maneuver: Sit behind him and use one finger to trace zigzags across his shoulder blades and down his spine. “A zigzag rhythm is hard to predict, especially since he can’t see your hand,” explains sexologist Patti Britton, PhD, author of The Art of Sex Coaching. He’ll go wild if you alternate quick, short motions with languid, longer ones.

As his erotic anticipation builds, continue zigzagging down the small of his back, moving up to his shoulders again or taking your finger along one side then the other. The nerves near his spine and waist are directly connected to his package, so stimulating them will shoot currents of electricity between his legs, she adds.

Touch Technique 2: Heat Up His Hidden Hot Spots

Once your man feels your fingers inching below his belt, he’ll probably assume that you’re about to fast-forward to the main event. Not yet. There’s actually a more scorching move you need to make first: Lavish amorous attention on an off-the-beaten-path body region. Do this and you’ll rouse pleasure receptors he didn’t even know he had.

“The male body is loaded with bliss buttons that many women and men don’t know are there, so these regions never get stroked or licked,” says Britton. “Because he’s not used to feeling your hand or mouth on these spots, touching them can trigger surprisingly powerful sensations.”

Blow-his-mind maneuver: Slowly nibble the outer rim of his ear, pausing to suck gently on the lobe before probing just inside his ear canal with the curled tip of your tongue. The warm, wet sensation on this ultrathin skin will come as such a shock, it’ll incite a riot in his shorts. Also, poking inside this uncharted orifice is a slightly taboo move. “It’s an exotic way to ‘penetrate’ him, which many men find supremely arousing,” says Britton.
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