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7 Most Titillating Ways To Touch A Naked Man


Posted on December 10, 2009 12:00 am by Ellen Biazon
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Touch Technique 5: ...But Use A Rougher Touch On His Shaft

Most chicks avoid the hard-and-fast strokes men truly desire. “The skin that covers his penis is relatively thick and flexible, similar to the skin on our forearms,” says Kellogg. The skin of the clitoris and vaginal opening, however, is thin and fragile and as sensitive as the skin on your eyelids. Because of the different textures, women don’t realize that men require firmer, faster strokes to reach the heights of pleasure. Of course, playing rough with his penis is a psychological lust-booster as well. “It suggests passion and urgency, which are huge guy turn-ons,” she says.

Blow-his-mind maneuver: Slide your fist up and down his shaft using twice the level of pressure you would normally use if you were just holding his hand. (Slather on lots of lube; because the slippery stuff conducts heat, you’ll steam things up and cut down on friction.) Start off slow, working up to a vigorous jerking rhythm. “You’ll know you’ve found the right speed and grip if you feel his penis getting harder as you hold it,” says Britton.

Touch Technique 6: Treat His Jewels Gingerly

Covered by skin so thin it’s practically translucent, a man’s testicles are notoriously vulnerable, particularly to changes in temperature and pressure. “The slightest touch or heat can cause them to rise closer to his body,” says Dr. Levine. “This doesn’t necessarily mean your guy doesn’t want you to touch them; it’s simply a protective reflex that safeguards the testicles and, by extension, the sperm inside.” To make sure your guy isn’t startled by your hand, however, wait until he’s already charged up before reaching for them. “When a guy is turned on, his pain threshold increases, so a touch that normally might be too much for him or downright uncomfortable can feel really good,” says Britton.

Blow-his-mind maneuver: While riding your guy in the woman-on-top position, cup each twin in your palm with your other hand on his chest or thigh for balance. Then lightly squeeze his twins in tempo with your thrusts. (Never clamp down or squeeze hard; use the same barely-there pressure you use when you move your computer mouse.) “Having his penis thrusting inside you as your hand surrounds his testicles will create a sensation combination that tops everything else,” says Levkoff.

Touch Technique 7: The Post-Passion Wind-Down

Seconds after he reaches peak, blood rushes out of your man’s penis, leaving him unable to endure anything more than a feather-light stroke for up to 20 minutes. “This is the refractory period, when your guy’s sensitivity slowly subsides and only the thickest body skin can handle direct stimulation,” says Britton. But as his lust recedes and his orgasmic spasm lessens, he still wants to feel connected to you. “After a hot sex session, hormones called endorphins released by his body compel him to crave a calming touch that’s arousing but not overtly sexual,” she says.

Blow-his-mind maneuver: While your man is still inside you catching his breath after his big O, try pressing your fingertips into the fleshiest part of his butt cheeks, kneading the skin. As his breathing becomes steadier, take your touch to the next level by tapping his flesh or massaging the dimple-like indentation where his back meets his booty. These wind-down moves will soothe his skin as well as reinforce your bond. “Pumping his butt when he’s on top of you draws him closer to your body,” says Levkoff. “And the constant contact may even recharge him for round two.”
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