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What If He Dashes Out After The Deed?
Cosmo gives you some nooky know-how for dealing with this embarrassing sitch.
Posted on August 31, 2009 12:00 am by Lola Augustine Brown
Photo: Cathy Kaplan
Posted on August 31, 2009 12:00 am by Lola Augustine Brown
Photo: Cathy Kaplan
Sex Question: “What Do I Do If I Mess Around With A Guy Then He Speeds Out Of My Place At 5AM?”
He’s probably not going to own up to feeling awkward or regretting having sex with you, but that’s most likely his impetus for leaving, says Josey Vogels, author of Bedside Manners: Sex Etiquette Made Easy. So be wary of excuses that don’t quite add up. If he feeds you a line as he’s dashing off about having to catch up at work, even though it’s before sunrise on Sunday morning, or claims he’s pet-sitting for his cousin’s dog and has to take it for a walk, you’ll probably never lay eyes on the dude again. If he does call, however, he’s most likely just in it for the sex, says Vogels, so you’ll have to decide if you want to keep him around as a boink buddy or just give him the boot.
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He’s probably not going to own up to feeling awkward or regretting having sex with you, but that’s most likely his impetus for leaving, says Josey Vogels, author of Bedside Manners: Sex Etiquette Made Easy. So be wary of excuses that don’t quite add up. If he feeds you a line as he’s dashing off about having to catch up at work, even though it’s before sunrise on Sunday morning, or claims he’s pet-sitting for his cousin’s dog and has to take it for a walk, you’ll probably never lay eyes on the dude again. If he does call, however, he’s most likely just in it for the sex, says Vogels, so you’ll have to decide if you want to keep him around as a boink buddy or just give him the boot.
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15. ask your guy if he's really into you. i won't take it if a guy is just after sex.
March 07, 2010 at 12:06 pm report abuse -
14. a complete jerk!
February 10, 2010 at 09:49 pm report abuse -
13. or maybe a crook.
February 09, 2010 at 09:17 pm report abuse -
12. or gay...
February 09, 2010 at 09:16 pm report abuse -
11. he;s a loser.
February 09, 2010 at 09:16 pm report abuse -
10. sex and run :|
February 07, 2010 at 03:57 pm report abuse -
9. 9. never expect to hear from him again..he's a JERK! ;p
February 07, 2010 at 02:39 pm report abuse -
8. “What Do I Do If I Mess Around With A Guy Then He Speeds Out Of My Place At 5AM?” - check your things rin. baka nadukutan ka na,
February 07, 2010 at 01:32 pm report abuse -
7. then he's not worth it. i'll be hunting him then i'll do everything i can para makaganti. hahahaha parang it doesnt sound nice,
February 07, 2010 at 01:32 pm report abuse -
6. yikes.. pang one night stand ito.. hehe
February 04, 2010 at 01:43 pm report abuse -
5. If a man dashes out after the deed it only means that he is just after sex. The guy does not have feelings for you.
February 03, 2010 at 10:26 pm report abuse -
4. prang eat & run lng ah.ang sama!
February 01, 2010 at 04:25 am report abuse -
3. If he leaves immediately after sex, then it's pretty obvious that sleeping with you was all he ever wanted.
January 29, 2010 at 03:07 pm report abuse -
2. Confidence is key
January 28, 2010 at 05:43 am report abuse -
1. what?! gosh that's shameful.
January 24, 2010 at 04:08 pm report abuse
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