RELATIONSHIPS
3 Ways To Bring Back The Kilig In Your Relationship
Posted on December 6, 2011 10:00 am by Laura Gilbert
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1. Give good ear.
Not all of his interests will fascinate you, but spend some time listening to something that's important to him. "When you engage in a topic you usually dismiss, it reconnects you," says Susan Heitler, PhD, author of The Power Of Two.
2. Speak lovingly to each other.
"After a while, you stop talking with those sweet undertones," says Edythe Denkin, PhD, author of Relationship Magic, "and sarcasm or negativity can become more common." Try using a nickname or soften your voice to inspire affection.
3. Notice something new.
Offer him a compliment you never have before: Tell him he looks cute with shaving cream on his face or how much you enjoy his chicken recipe. This builds on your initial attraction. Says Heitler: "Over time, you stop noticing the good things. Finding new ones will keep you loving him."
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4. ask me, we're on our 5th year.! :)
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3. elviraabad26@yahoo.com
January 16, 2012 at 03:28 pm report abuse -
2. My very own spongebob, it's so amazing to have u in my life... You're the one i want ti grow old with... Thank u for making me feel real special...
January 01, 2012 at 03:50 pm report abuse -
1. hmmm..i must try this tip..well my Beo and I are already 3 months right now..so i hope to last it for a life time..To make it sure,I must try this tip..Thanks Cosmo..You rock!
December 08, 2011 at 06:47 pm report abuse
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