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Couple Issue: "He Checks Out Porn Online"
Men are visual beings, so a little porn is not a bad thing. But take action when his fixation becomes cause for worry.
Posted on November 3, 2009 12:00 am by Brooke Le Poer Trench
Posted on November 3, 2009 12:00 am by Brooke Le Poer Trench

Resist the urge to flip out—it’ll just make him hide it from you. “Men enjoy visual stimuli like porn, and so long as it isn’t causing problems within your relationship, then there’s probably nothing to worry about,” says psychologist I. David Marcus, PhD, an expert in online porn addictions.
But if he’s pulling back emotionally or avoiding you sexually, talk to him. “Very few men are sex addicts, but some do end up with Internet porn addictions. If he’s logging on in order to cope with problems, your guy may need help.”
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But if he’s pulling back emotionally or avoiding you sexually, talk to him. “Very few men are sex addicts, but some do end up with Internet porn addictions. If he’s logging on in order to cope with problems, your guy may need help.”
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27. haay wag ko lang mahuhuli...saka we can watch sabay hahah
May 16, 2010 at 02:25 am report abuse -
26. normal but ewww minsan!
May 15, 2010 at 04:30 pm report abuse -
25. its their nature.. well.. i think its okay..as long as our relationship is okay
May 14, 2010 at 11:55 am report abuse -
24. it's ok with me as long as it will affect our relationship.
March 22, 2010 at 08:04 am report abuse -
23. guys love looking at sexy gals. no problem with me.
March 22, 2010 at 08:04 am report abuse -
22. A LITTLE porn is alright.
March 12, 2010 at 12:14 pm report abuse -
21. It's ok with me if a guy visits porn sites as long as he's not two timing.
March 06, 2010 at 11:16 pm report abuse -
20. nothings wrong with it. sometimes they are just egtting some additional ideas. haha!!
February 23, 2010 at 11:17 am report abuse -
19. normal lang un lalake na nag poporn. basta ndi man to man porn.
February 06, 2010 at 06:50 pm report abuse -
18. my husband isnt really into porn.. does that make him gay or what? hahaha. just kidding
February 02, 2010 at 09:10 pm report abuse -
17. porn=guys=normal.wether online or in dvd's.hehe
February 01, 2010 at 02:53 am report abuse -
16. As long as he knows his limit. He should be responsible for his actions.
January 29, 2010 at 10:06 am report abuse -
15. i guess i can tolerate if he checks it seldomly but what i will never allow is if he's going to be addicted with it. big no no.
January 28, 2010 at 10:46 pm report abuse -
14. everyone does this thing.
January 27, 2010 at 10:03 pm report abuse -
13. It does not matter if my guy checks out porn online because that does not affect our relationship. I just make sure that he is there when I need him.
January 27, 2010 at 10:42 am report abuse -
12. i think one woud be hard-pressed to find a guy who has not in his life checked porn in any form.
January 24, 2010 at 07:20 pm report abuse -
11. sa 1 movie na napanood namin, eto yung prob ng marriage nila. the guy's addicted to porn sites. hay. sana nga may magawa tayong mga girls para matigil na tong porn.
January 24, 2010 at 12:41 am report abuse -
10. well, it's but normal.. everyone has their own fetishes.. as long as he wouldn't go beyond viewing them! :)
January 23, 2010 at 10:25 pm report abuse -
9. Checking out porn online can spice up a couple's sex life.
January 23, 2010 at 03:51 pm report abuse -
8. i wasn't comfortable when i knew about this porn my ex had in his phone.
January 22, 2010 at 04:26 am report abuse -
7. hehe ok lang naman ha.. ako nga gawain ko rin yan l.o.l
January 06, 2010 at 10:57 am report abuse -
6. I don't think there's anything wrong with checking out porn. I also do it once in a while. Hehehe..
January 05, 2010 at 03:06 pm report abuse -
5. i dont mind but sometimes it so annoying..hahaha.. especially when he starts telling me what he sees. :))
January 02, 2010 at 01:38 pm report abuse -
4. that's their nature...
December 30, 2009 at 08:39 am report abuse -
3. i wouldnt mine... as long as its not male to male porn
December 30, 2009 at 01:25 am report abuse -
2. for me its not a problem at all ,, i go to porn sites more than him ,,, hahahha .. i even tell him where are the good sites of porn
December 26, 2009 at 04:52 pm report abuse -
wenawina1. I think some men watch internet porn to learn how to satisfy their girl at play time :) I think it's a good think, beacsue atleast they are concerned that both of you'll be satisfied, not only him. That shows that he really loves you. Maybe it's ok as long as it is not too much. :)
December 17, 2009 at 07:29 am report abuse
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