I Can't Orgasm During Intercourse. Is There Something Wrong With Me?

There's absolutely nothing wrong with you! Here, we explain why.
by Amanda Raylo
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One of the most common sexual concerns of women is their inability to climax during intercourse, which triggers feeling of dissatisfaction, fear, and low self-esteem.

Ladies, listen up: there is absolutely nothing wrong with you or your vajayjay. Many women have trouble climaxing via intercourse. In fact, it’s totally normal for a chick to have a hard time climaxing.

“The female body is more complicated than a man's; it needs different touches and pressures to get to that point of no return. And, what works for one woman is different [from] what does the trick for another," explains Patti Taylor, PhD, author of Expanded Orgasm: Soar To Ecstasy At Your Lover's Every Touch.

It is also important to note that women have to be in the right emotional state so they can climax. Unlike men who can climax via purely physical stimulation, women need to be in the right emotional state to completely let go. 

It is also possible that you may have climaxed already without realizing it. The G-spot orgasm (climax via intercourse) is less obvious than the C-spot orgasm (climax via clitoral stimulation). Since the G-spot climax is a totally different sensation than the clitoral kind, you may not recognize it at first.

Here's what you need to know: when you stimulate your clitoris (C-spot), the peak is more defined—it feels good then bam!—you go over the edge. But a G-spot O isn't so obvious. It'll slowly build up to a tingly, flushing sensation that radiates from your vagina (you may feel like you're going to pee—you won't), and it doesn't always have a clear-cut finale. Stimulating your G-spot will continue to be pleasurable, although it won't be as intense. Start to take note of how the rest of your body responds when pleasuring your G-spot. As those feel-good vibrations escalate, your muscles will be super tense (the entire pelvic region will contract), and after you peak, you will become limp, relaxed, and very, very satisfied.

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