50 MORE Sex Questions--Answered In 20 Words Or Less

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1. What is the longest-lasting position for a man? Any done in quick succession—the more often you switch positions, the longer he'll last.

2. How firm should my grip be when I'm giving hand jobs? Think of how hard you could squeeze an unpeeled banana without squishing it.

3. Can I lose sensation from using a vibrator too often? Yes, but only temporarily and if you leave it on one spot too long.

4. Is there a way to test to make sure a condom won't break before using it? Nope...and doing your own tests can weaken it.

5. How many orgasms in a row can a woman have? No one knows for sure, so set your own record.

6. Do female sexual-enhancers work? The US Food and Drug Administration doesn't seem to think so.

7. Does having "morning wood" mean he wants to get it on? Nope, but he happily will.

8. What should I do if the condom breaks? If you're not on the Pill, contact your gyne the next day for options. And, get tested for STDs.

9. How can I get my man to be more dominant in bed? Unleash some light aggression on him—pin his wrists, bite softly—to let him know he can get rowdy.

10. I don't swallow, so is there a way to get rid of "it" gracefully?  Keep a box of tissues handy, pretend to wipe your face, and nonchalantly spit it into one of them.

11.What's the best position for clitoral stimulation? You on top, which facilitates maximum grindage against his pelvis.

12. What do I do when I need a break during oral on him? Lick your hand, and then masturbate him while you kiss his thighs and stomach.

13. What's best for 69ing—me on top, him on top, or both of us on our sides? You on top—if you're bigger, then side-by-side is best.

14. I am self-conscious about my tummy, but don't want to keep my shirt on. How do I hide it during sex? Lie on your back and let gravity do its work, lie on your stomach, or do it doggie-style.

15. I'm often sore after sex. Is there a way to prevent that? Use a good lube, and ask him to go slow. If you're still hurting after that, call your doc.

16. I don't get wet enough. What do I do? Allot a longer time for foreplay to get more aroused...and wet. Then, use a water-based lube like EZ Lube.

17. My boyfriend says that condoms kill a lot of the sensation. What's the alternative? Extra-thin condoms. He'll be fine.

18. What should I keep in mind if I make an erotic video with my boyfriend? Use wide shots—no gyne-level close-ups, please—and soft lighting, like candles. Watch it once, then erase it right away.

19. My boyfriend wants me to play with his backdoor. What the heck am I supposed to do with it? Gently rub it with your finger. If he’s ahem, receptive, slowly insert your (lubed) digit.

20. Is it possible to have too much sex? No.

21. Is it too OC to ask him to wash his hands before he uses them on—or in—me? No. And, while you're at it, ask him to trim his fingernails, just to be safe.

22. How long is the average erect penis? Between 5.5 and 6.2 inches.

23. Does anonymous online sex count as cheating? If you hide it from him, yes.

24. What's a sexy way to put on a condom? With your mouth, hands behind your back

25. What does it mean if a guy doesn't have an orgasm during sex? He could be stressed, taking antidepressants, tired—the same reasons you wouldn't have one.

26. I want to have sex in a public—but not too public—place. Ideas? The bathroom of an uncrowded bar, a car on the side of a quiet road, a secluded beach at night…

27. What's the best way to ask a man to get tested for STDs? Get tested together.

28. Why does he shake as though he’s cold after we have sex? Body temperature rises during arousal and lowers after orgasm. The "orgasmic shudder" is a natural part of ejaculation.

29. The condom came off without my knowing and was left inside me for a while. Is that dangerous? It can cause an infection, and of course, puts you at risk for diseases and pregnancy. Get checked.

30. My boyfriend is more than a foot taller than I am, so we don't always align in bed. What's a good position for us? Straddle him while he sits cross-legged.

31. What can I use to tie up my boyfriend? Look in your closet—scarves and tights make great bondage gear.

32. Is it unhealthy to sleep with more than one guy in the same day? Not if you're practicing safe sex with both of them. But, shower between romps.

33. What are some lesser-known erogenous zones on a guy's body? His scalp and the inside of his nostrils (seriously). Erotic nose picking is not recommended.

34. When my guy tries to go down on me, it’s unbearably ticklish. How can I stop feeling that way? Relax your muscles, concentrate on how turned on you are, and make sure his face is shaved.

35. Is using a female condom as safe as using a male condom? They're slightly less effective, because there's more risk of slippage.

36. Are there any food or household items that are safe to go in my vagina? Unless Mother Nature—or the manufacturer—specifically made something for in there, keep it out.

37. I want to do it in a hot tub. Bad idea? Yes.

38. I feel like my guy's penis has gotten bigger over time. Am I imagining things? Probably...but tell him so anyway!

39. Does size matter...when it comes to vaginas? The vagina is elastic and can accommodate most penises. Slight differences in tightness are all but unnoticeable for guys.

40. If I don't want to kiss a guy immediately after he performs oral sex on me, what should I do? Kiss his neck or chest, go down on him, or better yet, work on getting over your issue with it.

41. Can a penis break? Not like a bone, but trauma can cause membranes to tear audibly. Needless to say, it requires immediate medical attention.

42. Sometimes I queef during sex. Can I keep it from happening? Don't let him go all the way out during thrusts, and avoid positions where your legs are above your head.

43. Orgasms with my vibrator seem more intense than orgasms with my guy. Why? Because your boyfriend isn't powered by batteries.

44. Does condom size really matter all that much? Most condoms fit most men. If it is uncomfortably tight or doesn’t cover him completely, use a larger size.

45. How can I make my guy comfortable with using sex toys together? Ease into it with discreet, non-threatening (read: small) vibrators, then have him use them on you.

46. How do I clean my sex toys? Use mild soap and warm water with a face cloth.

47. How can I have sex while on my period without making a mess? A menstrual cup works. But, you can also do it in the shower or put a towel under you.

48. Do experienced guys still like the ­occasional hand job? Absolutely.

49. My guy loses his erection when he's drunk. Is there a remedy for "whiskey dick?" Don't drink so much.

50. Does my boyfriend want to see me masturbate? Hell, yes.


Contributing experts: Sadie Allison, DHS, author of Ride ’Em Cowgirl! Sex Positions For Better Bucking; Erotic Specialist Amanda Ansell; Diana Daffner, author of the audio book Lessons In Intimacy: The Lover"s Touch; Karinna Kittles-Karsten, author of Intimate Wisdom: The Sacred Art of Love; Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide To Pleasuring A Man; Sari Locker, PhD, author of The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex; Carly Milne, author of Sexography; Brian Parker, phd, EdD, sex Expert for foreverpleasure.com; Pepper Schwartz, PhD, author of Prime: Adventures And Advice On Sex, Love, And The Sensual years; Beverly Whipple, PhD, co-author of The G-Spot and Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality and The Science of Orgasm.

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