75 Scorching Sex Ideas

Looking for ways to spice up your usual bedroom repertoire? Pick out your faves from this list and put them (or all!) to the test.
by Jennifer Benjamin
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Pop quiz: When is your body best primed to get busy? If you're thinking Um, right now? you're our kind of girl...and you're totally correct. While men are known to have stronger sex drives, studies show that women are now experiencing equally stronger libidos as well. Sex therapist Julia Cole says, "Women now are more independent...that's probably [why] they feel more able to access their sexual feelings."

So, why not make the most of your healthy sexual appetite? We checked in with top experts to get the best booty tricks you may not have tried yet. Work your way down the list in succession or mix and match moves custom-made for his package. Either way, let the games begin!

1. Have a naughty-movie marathon. Rent a bunch of flicks with famously steamy sex scenes. How could you not get inspired?

2. Put a small mirror out to the side, parallel to his body, while you're going down on him—he'll have an eye-popping view.

3. Tie two or three knots in a nylon stocking, and gently wrap it (don't tie it) around the base of his penis so it's snug but still has some give. The compression makes him even more sensitive, and the knots stimulate your clitoris as you move in girl-on-top.

4. Intensify his orgasm by placing two fingers an inch behind his balls and feeling for a dent (the perineum, a big pleasure trigger). For the last 30 seconds before he comes, massage the spot in a circular motion.

5. To make his orgasm explosive, gently squeeze the base of his penis for five seconds before he comes, then release.

6. Close your eyes and masturbate in front of him. It's a turn-on, because he'll feel like the only viewer of a private porn show.

7. Text your man racy one-word messages that, when strung together, hint at what you want him to do to you that night.

8. Make a playlist of sultry songs, and set it to shuffle during sex. Change up your pace and mood to match each new tune.

9. Buy a small, bullet-shaped vibrator that has a remote operation. Hold it over your clitoris, and hand him the controls.

10. While your man is hard, use one hand to push his penis up toward his stomach. Lick the underside of his shaft by keeping your tongue flat and moving your head from side to side to cover more surface area.

11. While he's giving you oral sex, tell him to insert a finger in your vagina and stroke your G-spot with a come-hither motion.

12. Get it on outdoors in a sleeping bag in your backyard. The cozy space makes missionary position even more intimate.

13. For increased sensation for both of you, apply a warming lube designed for sex to his penis right before he enters you.

14. Straddle your guy, then lean forward and rest your upper body on his torso. Bring one leg out to the side, and bend it so that the inside of your leg is against the bed. Then, straighten the other leg, and slide it in between his legs. You'll be better able to rock your clitoral area against his pelvis.

15. As your man goes down on you, ask him to draw figure eights with his tongue over your clitoris, so he hits every angle.

16. Challenge yourselves to have sex every day for a month. More frequent encounters rev your libido, culminating in a big domin-O effect with each session.

17. When giving him oral sex, invite him to finish on your breasts.

18. While on top, straddle your guy and clench your legs, so his arms and torso are pinned down. As he keeps still, roll your hips in a clockwise direction. Switch to counterclockwise, then back, every 30 seconds.

19. On a cold, rainy day, pick five spots in your apartment, and challenge each other to have sex in every one before sundown.

20. Explore tying each other up with silk scarves. Take turns getting tied up while the partner plants wet kisses all over the other’s body.

21. Sit on the sofa with your legs spread, feet on the ground, and your hips slightly off the edge. Have your man kneel in front of you and enter you, then use your legs and arms to slide yourself up and down on him.

22. Play porn star by bringing a camcorder into bed to view yourselves. But, don’t record the action—just seeing each other through the lens is a huge turn-on.

23. Trade butt-cheek massages, using firm, kneading motions to stimulate the surprisingly sensitive gluteus muscles.

24. Kiss and lick your way down his torso, stopping short of his penis, then give him a smile and work your way back up. Repeat several times until he begs for mercy.

25. Pop an erotic film into the DVD player, and let the noises serve as inspiration—you'll feel like you're in the midst of an orgy.

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26. Build momentum by keying in to an ocean legend that the seventh in a series of sea waves is the strongest. Lie on your back on a bench and have your man make every seventh thrust his most powerful.

27. For a super-intimate move, have him sit Indian-style (with legs crossed) on the bed
or floor. Then straddle him, wrap your legs behind his back, and rock back and forth.

28. When out at a party, lean your back against him, so it looks like you're just affectionately resting your body. Then, subtly grind your butt into his package instead.

29. Have him tease you by varying his thrust technique: entering you with just the tip and then going only halfway in or stroking you on the outside with his member. He can even swirl inside you, grinding with a circular motion.

30. Put lube on his penis, then get on top, slip it between your labia, and slide up and down along his shaft, targeting your clitoris.

31. Ignite all his senses by giving him light, fluttery, barely there kisses all over his body, from his forehead down to his toes.

32. In girl-on-top position, lean back and place both hands on the bed behind you with your head tilted back. He'll get a full view of your breasts and torso and a tickling sensation from the feeling of your hair on his legs.

33. Before sex, take a hot shower together and rub each other's bodies with salt scrub. The steam and rubbing action will stimulate the nerve endings and blood flow.

34. Run your fingertips over your nipples and gently squeeze your breasts in your hands, all while holding eye contact with him.

35. Put a frozen grape in your mouth and warm it up a bit. Then, hold it between your teeth and glide it down his neck, around his nipples, and over his lips. Finally, use your tongue to slip the grape into his mouth.

36. Want to take oral-sex to a whole new raunchier level? Go for deep throat, wherein you slide your mouth down over his shaft far enough that you only end up breathing through your nose. Warning: This extremely challenging move is only for the BJ masters.

37. In the middle of intercourse, dig your nails into his butt and pull him in closer.

38. When he's giving you oral sex, have him approach you at a perpendicular angle so he can move his tongue across your clitoris, rather than up and down. It's easier for him...and super-intense for you.

39. While kissing him, lick and suck his tongue to simulate action below his belt.

40. In doggie-style, make a downward V with your fingers, and place them over your labia to put pleasuring pressure on your clitoris.

41. Make upright sex easier by standing on a step stool to line up your pelvis with your man's. Wrap one leg around his waist and have him cradle an arm under your butt for support.

42. Cop a trick from yoga to intensify your connection: As he enters you from behind when you're on all fours, do cat/cow stretches, slowly rounding and then arching your backs.

43. Create a buffet of sensual pleasure by blindfolding your man. Then, alternate using a cashmere glove, silk panties, and a piece of leather to stroke his skin. Next, it's your turn.

44. While driving home one night, tell him to pull off into a secluded parking area. Then, take him in the backseat.

45. With your man sitting on a chair, straddle him, then slowly slip him inside you and caress his lips with your nipples.

46. While kissing, gently run your fingernails up and down the inside of his arm. It's a teasing, arousing sensation that will leave him craving more.

47. In-bed aggression makes sex more exciting, so have him be a little firm with you by pinning you to the bed. Playfully resist by trying to close your legs or sit up. Just don't get too rough, and make sure you have a safe word.

48. Have him stand with his back pressed up against one side of a door frame. Bend over and hold on to the other side, so you're in a standing doggie-style position.

49. Show up at his place in a long coat and knee-high boots and nothing on underneath.

50. For a tighter fit during missionary, bring your legs together and up toward you, then rest them both on one of his shoulders or keep them high and straight.

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51. While pleasuring yourself, call your man and give him a play-by-play of what you're doing. It's both a turn-on and an education.

52. Challenge him to turn you on using only one finger on less obvious spots, like behind your knees and the nape of your neck.

53. Before company comes over, get it on in one of the chairs in your living room. Seeing a guest sitting there later will remind you of how naughty you were.

54. Pick up a couple of sushi rolls, lie down on your couch, and invite your man to enjoy a meal off your naked body. If he's not a fan of raw fish, use Gummi bears instead.

55. As you feel yourself reaching orgasm, slow down to an intensity of about 75 percent of your full speed, stay there for one minute, and then pick up the pace again. This technique will make your orgasm even more intense.

56. To get better leverage in missionary, lie with your head toward the end of the bed, put your feet up against the wall, and use your legs to push back and forth underneath him.

57. Take an ice cube and run it over sensitive spots, like his nipples, lower stomach, and inner thighs. Follow each stroke with hot breath on the area, letting your lips graze his skin.

58. To help you orgasm during missionary, slip a small vibrator over your clitoris while he's on top. He'll also reap the benefits from that extra bit of buzzing on his nerve endings.

59. Instruct your man to sit in a chair, and bind his hands together behind him using a scarf. Then, give him a lap dance, teasing him with your untouchable hotness.

60. Before you orgasm when he's giving you oral sex, lift your hips slightly and clench your butt muscles to make it more intense.

61. Run a super-hot bath and get in so that your heads are on opposite sides of the tub. Use your feet to tickle, stroke, and gently massage each other's sensitive spots before getting on top of him.

62. In missionary, up the G-spot action by having him rotate his body clockwise, using his arms to support himself, until you’re facing opposite -directions. From there, grip his waist with your thighs as he thrusts back into you.

63. In girl-on-top, as you are sliding up his penis, contract your vaginal muscles, squeezing your way up his member. Then release, and slide back down his penis. The clenching of the muscles will help you reach orgasm and give him a tight fit.

64. Come to bed wearing nothing but sky-high fetish-style or gladiator heels. Your footwear will give your tryst a kinky S and M vibe.

65. Try side-saddle position for a more unique and snug fit. Make a bridge with your arms behind you on one side of him and your legs in front of you on the other. Then, slide yourself down onto his penis so you're perpendicular to his body.

Below-The-Belt Tricks
Give his package the VIP treatment with these tips.

66. Lick the skin between his balls during oral, then lightly suck each one.

67. Using massage oil, rub his chest and penis with the same motions.

68. Dip a soft-bristled paintbrush in chocolate syrup and use his groin as your canvas. Devour him right after.

69. Lift his sack, and flick your tongue on the crease of skin where the scrotum meets his body.

70. Slip on a massage mitt (a plastic glove found at most sex stores), and give him a lubed-up hand job.

71. Wet the fabric of his underwear with your tongue, and puff short breaths of hot air on it.

72. While your man is on all fours, lower yourself under him and gently tilt his penis toward you so you can suck from underneath.

73. Drape a warm, wet washcloth over his penis to get his blood pumping.

74. Slip a vibrating ring onto the base of his shaft while giving him oral action.

75. Take a beaded necklace (one without exposed string or wire), lube it up, then wrap it around his penis and roll it up and down.


SOURCES: Georgia sex therapist Gloria Brame, PHD; Los Angeles sex coach Patti Britton, PHD; Sexologist Yvonne K. Fullbright, PHD, author of Touch Me There!; Sex therapist Darcy Luadzers, PHD, author of The 10-Minute Sexual Solution; Sexologist Gabrielle Morrissey, PHD, author of A Year Of Spicy Sex; certified sex educator Lou Paget, author of The Great Lover Playbook; Michelle Pauli, author of The Outdoor Kama Sutra; Erotic film director Candida Royalle, author of How To Tell A Naked Man What to Do; Sex expert Olivia St. Claire, author of 302 Advanced Techniques For Driving A Man Wild In Bed; Certified sex therapist Sharna L. Striar, PHD; NYC relationship counselor; Jayme Waxman, author of Getting Off

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