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Veronica Answers: Donatello's Love Problem Part 1
Posted on January 9, 2011 07:00AM
Now, let me turn my attention to an inquiry posted by one of our readers:
Hi V!
I'm in the middle of a complicated situation right now. I have a boyfriend of almost five years, but I’m not quite sure if I still love him or what. That's because I think I’m in love with this guy I met three years ago. He's a friend of mine from way, way back. To my surprise, I fell in love with him, and he told me that he feels the same way. We hang out, and I love going out with him. I feel so happy whenever I’m with him. He makes me feel special, and, for me, he's like my ideal guy. Could this really be love? What should I do now? This bothers me a lot. First, because I know I'm becoming unfaithful to my boyfriend. Second, even if I love this friend of mine, I don’t have the guts to nurture the feeling. I also can't break up with my boyfriend because we've already been together for so long. Third, if I ever choose my 'friend,' I’m not quite sure our relationship would work. Thanks V! I hope you could give me some advice.
–Donatello
It just grabbed my attention immediately because, coincidentally, I went through the same scenario. It’s like deja vu! -
The Bedroom Blog Diaries: Establishing "Me Time"
Posted on January 5, 2011 12:00AM
I remember the time when two of my best friends, Nicia and Gail, went AWOL on me and our social circles back in 2008. You couldn't talk to them for an hour straight without them pulling out their mobile phones and texting their boyfriends right in front of your face and in the middle of your conversation. I remember wanting to turn She-Hulk and crushing their phones into pieces.
You couldn't invite them on a girls' night out without having to make "reservations" a month in advance because their boyfriends wouldn't want to leave their sides. I really hated those times and promised myself that when I get into a relationship, I wouldn't be tied to my partner's waist ALL. THE. TIME. -
The Bedroom Blog Diaries: Irrelevant Fears
Posted on January 3, 2011 12:00AM
Aside from the slow realization that I am now in a relationship (it took us a pretty long while to get used to our new status), the first dysfunctional thought that entered my mind was "Naku, baka magbago na siya" and "Hindi na siya magiging kasing sweet ng dati," just as many women my age continue to fear.
Was I ever afraid that Logan would turn from my jackass to a couch potato? Did I ever cringe in apprehension that he would be less of a romantic (despite his few failed attempts on romanticism) now that he got my—sige, maging baduy naman tayo—"matamis na oo"? -
The Bedroom Blog Diaries
Posted on December 30, 2010 12:00AM
That being said, I have decided to make Season 4 of Bedroom Blog By Veronica something like a diary that's filled with my personal take on various relationship issues that real couples go through. My friends alone are rich sources of information for this project, starting with Brix. This way, the spotlight won't be focused solely on me and my relationship, but on different issues surrounding different relationships. -
And So Begins Chapter 4
Posted on December 28, 2010 07:00AM
It didn't stop there. My editor and good friend Trixie also called to ask about my changed relationship status on Facebook. The next to bug me about it was my business contact who lives in New York and to whom I confided that his freelance writer is the girl behind Bedroom Blog by Veronica. I was surprised to find out that his wife reads the blog, too, and is a member of the fan page.
What's more, Logan's brother spent an entire week throwing not-too-subtle comments about my "changed" Facebook status. It was quite amusing how he never let me hear the end of it until he left the country. I have yet to change my "single" Facebook status but not because Logan and I aren't together. Oh, we're together-together all right. It's just that my Facebook status is but a minute detail. I could change it to "Married" or "It's Complicated" or "Whatever," and the rest of the world couldn't care less, and I couldn't care less. I will change it when I feel like it, and when I told Logan about it, he said that it's no big deal. It's just a Facebook status.
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