3 Ways To Diffuse An LQ

Instead of trying to win every argument, try to put yourself in his shoes and understand his side.

Stop Talking In Circles

Instead of rehashing, say "Tell me what I’m missing," suggests Les Parrott, PhD, co-author of Love Talk. It’ll convey that you’re interested in understanding him.

Break The Tension

Crack a joke if the timing is right. "This shows that the relationship means more to you," says Scott Kudia, PhD, author of If This Is Love, Why Am I Unhappy?

Look Deeper

Ask him why he’s so mad. You may discover that his point (he won’t come to a birthday party) has an underlying reason (he’s worried about money).

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