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11 Ridiculously Hot Threesome Sex Positions

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Whether it's your first threesome or having another threesome is just what happens on Wednesdays, they can be tricky to navigate. Think about how complicated sex is with just one other person having their wants and needs and junk. Then when you add in another person (or maybe you use multiplication here? IDK, ask a mathematician), it gets X units more complex. (Let X = hotness of fulfilling fantasy + awkwardness of fantasy appearing right there IRL.)

“Some partners think they want a threesome, but possibly haven't thought about all the potential feelings that could manifest after” says Shani Hart, Sex Educator, Certified Sexuality Coach and Dildo Wrangler. People can get feelings (or not get them), everyone is bringing their own fantasy to the party, and/or someone can feel like the Ross in the situation.

But if you can handle the emotional part, threesomes are definitely sexual bucket list-worthy and can be incredibly hot. Start with little pre-planning and figure out what everyone wants to happen, how it's going to work and what everyone's expectations are. Make sure you have ample space, privacy, materials (lube, condoms, toys, a towel to put down) and an exit plan in case things get off-track. (“Just grab your clothes off the floor and exit stage left- fast!!!” recommends Hart.)

If you want to do a little more research (or “research”) before you jump in, here are some people talking about what it's really like to have a threesome

If you're still DTF, here are some things to try in an FFM situation. (And if your group has two people with penises, here are specifics for an MMF situation.)

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The Switch

Have both your partners get on all fours facing away from you. Lube up your hands and start rubbing and stroking one of your triad's vulva/penis. When the other one can't take it, they yell “switch” and you start in on them. (If you want to take it darker, this works for spankings/other torments as well, but with the receiver calling “switch.”) It's partly game to sort of break the ice, partly a chance to (literally) fuck everyone up.

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The Guest Star

“This is one of my favorite roles in a threesome,” says Hart. If you are the unicorn—a third person who goes with a couple, so named because they are so hard to find that they are almost mythical—you can set your own terms. Want everyone to ravish you with mouths, hands and sex toys? Ask and you shall receive. They'll be more than happy to service you. “All the fun and none of the potential drama,” says Hart.

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The Starter Set

If y'all are hesitant about just stripping down and going at it, there's a whole range of things you three can do together that are sexual but don't involve any penetration or maybe not even any genital touching. Try sprawling out together on a bed, couch or floor for a mass make-out session (hot tub works too). If you want to take things further, you can and if you don't, that's cool too.

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The Fever Dream

Everyone gets a fine-ass view if you arrange yourselves thusly: M enters you from behind, your upper leg draped back and over their hips. The other F lies on their back so their V is within kissing distance from your mouth.

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The Puppet Master

Lie next to each other and make out while the man kneels between you, fingering you both with extra-lubey hands. As you go deeper into it, you can create a superhot sexy synergy where it’s just moans and sensations.

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The Watch 'n' Learn

Fulfill all kinds of lifelong fantasies at once by going down on your friend. Your male partner can easily apply a hand or buzzy toy to you as they stroke themselves, all while auditing the finest master class in oral they will ever behold.

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The Best Kind of Sandwich

It's the position version of perfect jeans—basic but versatile enough to work with anything. Lie on top of one partner. Penetrate them with a strap-on and put a vibrating toy between you or go analog and just rub together, using fingers as needed. Your M kneels between your legs and picks a hole to enter. Use it as a template—switch out the M with a third F (with or without strap-on), put the guy in the middle if they’re into anal penetration, have the M work on the Fs orally, or whatever your three kinky little hearts desire.

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The Sideliner

If you’re a first-timer, start in a scenario that allows you to observe before joining in. Doggy is great if you’re super shy because it’s easy to hide behind them and watch. Use a hand or toy on yourself and, when/if you feel comfortable, reach over to squeeze some boobs, feel the M’s penis as it slides into the F, or jump in and take their place.

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The Double Down

This is an MFF classic—it’s not too tricky and no one feels left out! The M lies on their back while one F mounts their penis and the other sits (lightly, it’s more of a hover) on their mouth. The two Fs can smooch and play with each other while the M basks in the very thing they’ve been fantasizing about forever. Switch with the other F every once in a while, high-fiving during trade-off optional.

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The Daisy Petal

Forget ye olde daisy chain because it has all the negs of 69 plus another damn person. Instead, take turns giving the third an oral overwhelm. Start with you, just because, and sit at the edge of a bed or chair, pushing your knees apart. They can both use their mouths on you at once or take turns, kissing each other between. Trade off after, if you can manage to move.

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The Chain Link

If a spontaneous threesome breaks out in the living room, have your third sit on the couch while you get on all fours in front of them for some oral love. When your M is ready (in probably two seconds), they kneel and take you from behind. It’s extra good because everyone gets something and your F feels each of the thrusts via your mouth.

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This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.

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