Threesomes, depending on how communicative and open you are, can either be great or kinda really awk. And one of the most prominent three-way fears is one partner feeling left out while the other two go at it.
Luckily, one good way to prevent this by having all three participants involved at once is by trying the Eiffel Tower, which is as epic (and ok, a lil' bit extra) as the city the real Eiffel Tower resides in.
The idea is simple, and mostly self-explanatory: One person both receives one partner from behind while performing oral on another. The two outside partners, in the midst of their sexual enjoyment, gleefully high-five each other, thus acknowledging how incroyable this feels.
While most Urban Dictionary entries say that the position involves two men and a woman, truthfully, it can work with any trio–or even foursome, if you have two people 69ing as the "base" of the tower.
But why stop there? Throw in a vibrator or strap-on! Add a butt plug to the mix! Hell, get croissants or a good cheese plate, to keep up with the whole French theme. This architectural bodily wonder you're building can have as many bells and whistles as you gd please.
Just remember the sex safety basics: water-based lube with latex condoms, clear consent and boundaries for if/when to stop (especially for the person performing oral/being stimulated), and just rock-solid emotional communication before and after the threesome is over. If you have all that down, bon voyage and have fun!
This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.