8 Hand Job Positions That Will Make You ~Really~ Appreciate Foreplay

It's an often overlooked sex act, but it shouldn't be!
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All hail the unappreciated hand job! Yeah, some people may look at this move as some subpar version of oral or penetrative sex, but that ain't right. Handies have their own sexy thing going on: They're a great way to mix up your regular routine, have a safer kind of sex, and learn how your partner likes to be touched.

To master the very finest of hand jobs, there are a few basic guidelines to follow:

  1. Lube makes everything better.
  2. Don't just dive in. First, tease them with strokes up their thighs or on either side of their groin. Any touches that will make them really want your hands on their junk, like now, will work.
  3. Watch their reaction. To make sure you're doing things right, listen for sighs and moans (good) and see how their body responds (i.e. pulling away from your hand = lighten up; pressing against you = more, please).
  4. Vary your strokes to heighten their arousal and keep them super attuned to what you'll do next.
  5. Observe them as they are about to reach orgasm. Signs like a change in breathing, throbbing, incoherent moaning, writhing, etc. all signal that a climax is near, so keep going
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Once you figure out how your partner's body works, you can take them to the edge of orgasm again and again before finally letting them release. You'll be a hand job master... and your partner will be putty in your hands.

The Seven and One

Let your boo lie back so they can fully relax into the experience. Using both hands, alternate between stroking upward for seven strokes and then down for one. If your partner's liking it, they might do an air thrust, indicating "Oh yes, more please." Go faster and firmer with your strokes—pulling back occasionally for them to cool off a little—so you can extend their pleasure.

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The Double Double

If you're in a girl-on-girl scenario, try a mutual, mirror-image handie. Get on your knees facing each other. Make a peace sign with two fingers to rub each side of your partner's labia while sliding a curved thumb inside to rub the top wall of their vagina. To make the motions more intense, bob up and down slightly like you're humping their hand to make it more intense.

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The Saddle Straddle

If you've got a dominant partner, they will loooooove straddling you as you stroke them right in front of your face. Try using both hands, twisting your way up and down their shaft and brushing your thumbs over and around the head. Caveat: Make sure to switch positions if you don't like a finish anywhere near your face or boobs!

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The Hand Wash Cycle

This one happens in the shower. Treat them to a full-body scrubbing, then go off-label with a soapy hand job. Stand behind them for a sexy reach-around, pressing your soapy boobs against their back while you stroke them. (Use a super mild soap, and keep the suds on external parts only!)

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The Love Glove

Propping yourself up on all fours in doggie style lets you be stroked from a new angle and gives your partner easy access for added fun (read: potential butt stuff).

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Master Of Their Domain

Kneel before your lucky-ass partner for a hand job + toy to supersize their sensations. Use a stroker (aka masturbation sleeve) on a partner with a penis and a wearable fingertip vibe for a partner with a vulva. Kneel down onto a toy of your own and rock a little as you stroke bae for simultaneously good vibrations.

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The Foot Locker

If you're with someone who has a foot fetish (the most common fetish for otherwise non-sexual body parts, btw), indulge their passion with a handy/footie. If they have a penis, place your feet at the base of their shaft while you stroke; if they have a vulva, slide the ball of your foot over their vulva, making circles and/or swiping side to side. If they're into the scent or taste of you below the ankles, slide a foot up near their face so they can suck on your toes.

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The Tunnel Of Love

Fill your hand with lube and make a little handie tunnel. Assume the little spoon position as your partner thrusts between your cupped hand and your vulva. To make it feel more intense, hold a powerful wand vibrator against your hand—the rumbles feel good on the shaft of their penis, which can transfer those vibes to your vulva, too.

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This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.

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