How To Make His Sex Wish Come True

We've finally pinpointed the one thing that men crave more than anything else in the sack: they just want to feel wanted.

If you were to ask guys about the best sex they ever had, you’d expect them to describe crazy nights involving acrobatic positions and kinky triplets. But, in a recent Cosmo poll, 71 percent said what made their favorite session so awesome was the fact that their partner couldn’t get enough of them. What men really want, it turns out, is to be wanted. “Usually, the focus is on the man seducing the woman,” says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Sex Recharge. “But like you, a guy needs to feel like you want him so bad, you’re restraining yourself from tearing off his clothes.” And, that requires more than getting on top (though that’s a great idea). It’s the little things that convey how horny you are for him—think pressing your body against his or whispering naughty things—that take sex from good to never been better. Now that you know, check out this list for sexy ways to give him that need-you-now rush.

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Send Him A Message He Can’t Miss

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  • Call him on his cell, and ask what he’s up to. As he’s talking, casually interrupt and mention that you’re in bed touching yourself and thinking of him. If you’re not cool with letting him listen in on your ritual, no actual self-stimulation is required—just a little heavy breathing and telling him you can’t wait to have his hands all over you will do the trick.
  • When you’re out in public, press your chest into his back so it looks like you’re just giving him a playful hug from behind. Then, subtly rub your breasts and pelvis against him for several lingering seconds.
  • As you’re drinking out of a bottle, let your mouth glide suggestively over the opening, and look him in the eye as you take a sip. Lick your lips as you put the drink down, and he may just have an ­immaculate orgasm.
  • Write him a note describing, in detail, a hot time you two hooked up. Make the last line read, “Think we can top that tonight?” and leave it for him in a spot where he’ll discover it randomly, such as inside his wallet, or in the freezer next to his frozen pizza collection.
  • Call him out for doing something that unexpectedly turns you on, like when he expertly fixes your fickle DVD player, and you’re reminded of the other ways he’s good with his hands.
  • Softly whisper these eight words into his ear: “I want to have sex with you—now.” This line is best dropped apropos of nothing, like while waiting in line at the grocery store, or eating breakfast one weekday morning.
  • Since guys are super visual, skip the tawdry texts and email him pics of sexy things you want to do with him; just make sure you’re using your personal (not work) account. Don’t worry: You don’t have to pull a Vanessa Hudgens to make it happen. Some ideas: Send him a link to some hot lingerie and tell him to imagine it on you tonight, or copy and paste a pic of a can of whipped cream with this caption: “You + me + a bottle of this later = way hotter than any porn flick you’ve seen.”
  • Ambush him with a butt squeeze to let him know you so want him for his body and not his (insanely smart) mind.
  • As you’re holding hands, take his finger into your mouth and lick and kiss it like you would his penis. Seductively wipe it down your cleavage, and watch him stare at you in awe.
  • When you notice a sexy woman checking him out, instead of shooting her step-off-bitch daggers, bring his admirer to his  attention. Say something like, “That woman over there totally just undressed you with her eyes. And lucky me, I get to strip you down when we get home.”
  • When you’re leaving a party, let it slip to his friends that you’re sorry to skip out but you just can’t wait to, um, get him home. His friends will interpret that as, “My boyfriend is amazing at sex,” making your guy feel more studly than if he had swept their asses in their fantasy-basketball league.

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Treat Him To Ferocious Foreplay

  • When he leans in for a kiss, pull the back of his head closer to you with your hands. Lightly tug on his hair as you kiss to reinforce the message that you can’t get enough of his mouth on yours.
  • Just before you go down on him, lick your lips and whisper in his ear that you can’t wait to taste him.
  • Pin his hands above his head, and use only your breasts to give his chest a sexy rubdown. Put a dab of lotion on your nipples to enhance the skin-on-skin sensation.
  • Give him a real-life wet dream: Invite him to join you in the shower, and then surprise him by getting on your knees and taking his penis into your mouth. The warm stream of water against his back combined with the warmth of your mouth will feel so good, he’ll need to brace himself against the shower bar to stay standing.
  • Give him an F-me-now kiss: Stroke the back of his neck with one hand, grab his butt with the other, and press your boobs into his chest and your pelvis against his.
  • While you’re going down on him, stop and lick his penis along the shaft, then massage his tip all over your upper body—lips, cheeks, breasts—all while maintaining eye contact.
  • While you’re making out, take two of his fingers and press them against the outside of your underwear, so he knows just how wet he’s getting you.
  • As he’s giving you oral, rock your hips in rhythm to his movements, and lift your lower half toward him to show just how into it you are.
  • Push your guy down on the bed with his arms by his sides, and straddle him so that your knees lightly pin his forearms against his body. Tantalize him by showing peeks of skin for a few seconds (lift a bra cup, and let him catch a glimpse of nipple) while simultaneously circling your hips like you’re riding him cowboy-style.
  • Sneak up behind your guy while he’s on the phone and reach around to grab his penis. Use a firmer, underhand grip to re-create the way he touches himself while giving him warm, breathy kisses (if you’re tall enough) from just below the earlobe to that ultrasensitive spot where the bottom of his neck meets the top of his back.
  • When you’re sitting side by side, such as at dinner or in    the car, silently put his hand between your legs and move it in circles.
  • Once he gets completely naked, take a step back and let him watch your eyes roam over every inch of his body. You can kick the naughtiness up a notch by stroking yourself as you do it.
  • Take off his underwear using your mouth. Grasp the bottom of one side of his boxers in your teeth, and pull down (give him a silly grrr as you strip him). When you have his boxers halfway down his backside, go to the other side and repeat. Once they’re past his butt, bite the center of the waistline, and pull down.

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Bust Out Man-Eating Sex Moves

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  • Run your nails up and down his back, and in slow ­figure eights, lightly press them into his skin. The sensations you’ll create show off your ­primal ­desire for him.
  • During doggie-style, turn your head to the side, so he can see the pleasure on your face as he thrusts.
  • Every so often, take in the view of his penis going in and out of you, and let him catch you doing it.
  • Tell him exactly how freaking amazing he is. Saying something like “No one has ever done it like that before” will make him feel like a total rock star.
  • That thong you’re wearing? You are way too ravenous to bother taking it off. Push the ­fabric aside, grab his penis, and tell him to enter you right now.
  • When your guy is on top, fondle your breasts and nipples with your hands. Tell him that he’s turning you on so much, you just can’t help but touch yourself.
  • One night, after you’ve parked your car in the ­garage (or in a secluded spot on the driveway), lock all the doors, instruct him not to move a muscle, and climb on top of him for a quickie.
  •  Grab him by the hand, and lead him to the ­nearest wall. Bend over so that your torso is ­parallel to the floor, and put your palms flat against the wall. If he’s too stunned by this amazing view of you, pull his hips toward you, and he’ll be more than happy to take the hint.
  • Let him hear you gasp as he slips inside you. Have him thrust a few times, then ask him to enter you again. That moment of penetration is so pleasurable for a guy, he’ll love knowing that you get off on it, too.
  • Use a silky scarf or necktie to blindfold your guy, then take him girl-on-top. Treat him to ­multiple sensations at once: Grind your hips in a circular motion, stroke his chest with the tips of your fingers, kiss his stomach...but ­refuse to take off his blindfold until he has climaxed.
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