9 People On Why Masturbating In Front Of Their S.O. Turns Them On

It can be liberating and empowering.
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The idea of masturbating in front of someone else can, understandably, be a little bit daunting. Putting yourself out there can make you feel vulnerable, but it can also build intimacy and connection between you. If you masturbate in front of your partner, not only is it ~super~ hot for them, but you can show them how you like to be touched. Here are nine people on why they like either being watched by their partner, or engaging in a spot of mutual masturbation every now and then.

  1. "My partner (19m) and me (19f) have masturbated a few times in front of the other one. I find it amazingly hot and extremely sexy to see him doing that. Pleasing himself, damn! He said it was a little awkward the first times just with the, 'someone is watching' and I can understand why. But I was just so fascinated and turned on by it. Then when I tried I didn't mind that he was there, [I] kinda liked him watching..." — via Reddit
  2. "Masturbating together side by side while making out is one of the best experiences that wasn't sex IMO."  via Reddit
  3. "It's really liberating, empowering, and quite a turn on. I love being watched. And she loves watching, so that works pretty well for us. She has a fantasy about me walking in and catching her in the shower, where I'm so taken by her playfulness that I myself start handling my own business."  via Reddit
  4. "My wife has me do it for her often. She thinks its really hot and enjoys 'the show'."  via Reddit
  5. "Me (20f) and my BF (22m) do it on occasion, and it's so fun and hot. It was never really awkward for us, but it's definitely something you have to adjust to and get comfortable with. Once you're fully okay with it, you can have so much fun and do some real kinky shit. I think every couple should do it at least once. I think people would realize [that] it's a lot more fun and less awkward than they initially thought."  via Reddit
  6. "I'm a man and have masturbated in front of a woman. She told me to kneel for her, I did and then she told me to masturbate for her, so I did. It was simple as that and we both enjoyed [it]."  via Reddit
  7. "I do this a lot and it is both liberating and generally pretty hot. Yes, it can also be awkward at first but you'd be surprised at the level of openness that it encourages."  via Reddit
  8. "I have done this many times, with a lot of different partners. I have found they often enjoy me kneeling in front of them and masturbating whilst looking up at them, I guess you could call it worship..."  via Reddit
  9. "The tension is insane and can become unbearable until the inevitable."  via Reddit

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This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com/uk. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.

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