"My Boyfriend Refuses To Introduce Me To His Friends"

Is he trying to hide me?

Q: "Hi, Cosmo! My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year, but I still haven't met his friends. Should I be worried?"

A: You should be a little bit worried, but talk to your boyfriend first before jumping into conclusions. Boys are naturally more private by nature when it comes to their emotions, so it is possible that he’s not bringing you along to meet his friends, because it will make him feel vulnerable. Some guys don’t like showing that side to their friends, so they do whatever it takes to avoid putting themselves in that position.

However, if you feel like he’s intentionally hiding you from his friends because he doesn’t want them to know you exist, then that’s a red flag. After a year together, he should be open and proud to be with you. You deserve to be with someone who makes you feel good about yourself; not someone who hides and keeps your relationship a secret. Remember, there’s a difference between keeping things private and keeping things a secret. 

Talk to him about it in a calm and mature manner. Try to understand things from his point of view, but also let him know that it’s bothering you. If he’s serious about you, he will do something about it.

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