Play Movie Roulette
Head to the theater and get tix for whatever flick is playing next. "Anything that's spontaneous ups your sense of shared excitement," says Patricia Love, EdD, co-author of How To Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It.
Treat Him Right
Take your man out for ice cream or some hot chocolate. It is inexpensive and a sweet (get it?) gesture. "When you do something to please your guy, he'll start noticing other ways you show your appreciation," says Love. "It puts you both in a happy mindset."
Enroll in a cooking class, take up a sport, or pursue an interesting hobby like photography with him. "Putting a new lesson into practice reinforces your sense of being a team," says Lori Gorshow, dating coach at Dating Made Simple, a company specializing on mature dating adults.
BLOW HIS-MIND TIP: Booty Call Your Long-Term Guy
On a night when you're doing separate things—even if you're in the same apartment—send your guy a text message that reads "What r u doing?" When he replies, text back with "What r u wearing?" Then, ask him to meet you—in the bedroom—for an impromptu hook-up.