If your partner is either much taller or shorter than you, it may take a little maneuvering to get Tab A into Slot B. But what is love without a challenge or two? Here's how to make it work!
If y'all are super different heights, most standing positions are pretty much out because physics. Except one. If he’s taller, have him lift your hips, pressing you passionately against the wall like he’s Ryan Gosling. He has to be able to lift you, and keep lifting you, and it may not last incredibly long, but oh, for a brief shining moment, it’s bliss. (And, if it's not happening, go ahead and use a bar stool to sit on instead).
Instead of trying to make doggie work via a mountain of pillows when your partner is way taller, let him hoist you up to where you need to be. He stands by the edge of the bed and holds onto your legs, like a really sexy wheelbarrow race. You can prop yourself on your elbows or just lie face down, depending on your planking skills.
The Kitchen (Counter-Intuitive)
If you're taller than your partner, sit your ass on something that's approximately the height of where their peen is and you're good to go. You have a array of latent sex seats in your house–dining chairs, bar stools, couch arms or backs, dressers, kitchen counter, bathroom sink–one of them is gonna be juuuuust right. Bonus: It’s great for smooching!
Shoot The Moon
Another great one if you're the taller partner: Lie with your hips at the edge of the bed and spread those long legs of yours wide, wrapping them over his shoulders. Use a sex wedge or some firm AF pillows if you need a little more height. He grabs onto your butt and enters standing, giving you both a wonderful new angle to explore.
The Long-Distance 69
Height doesn't matter when you're lying down side-by-side, so instead of spooning, turn to face your partner, swinging a leg over their hip. Use your foot to nudge them deeper and go real slow to really savor it.
If regular 69ing is out of the question for you, you can try throwing a sex toy in the mix. Lie on your sides facing each other and apply a vibrator or masturbation sleeve. Or, for more intimacy, one of you can go down on the other while being rewarded with the toy. Mix n' match as you please.
This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.