No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it as pleasure-filled as possible. But since hardly anyone talks about it, it’s tough to get the good, juicy tips you need to make it mind-blowing. Well, at Cosmo we’ve never been afraid of doing the dirty work for you. So, here are the best tricks for giving your guy lip lovin’. Oh, and some for you to pass along to him, so he gives as good as he gets.
1. “Invisible oral” can boost your pleasure. A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Does this sound familar? Try keeping the lights off so you can’t see him. You’ll have fewer distractions and be able to focus. There’s a gag-proof way to go deep. Here’s a trick that gives him the illusion that you’re taking him all the way in: Place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth. Then, let his member hit the underside of your tongue.
2. You should have him at hello. A Cosmo poll found that 34 percent of guys say they wish a girl would surprise them with oral when they walk in the door. Tell him to text you when he’s almost home, then ambush him.
3. There’s a way he’s never been licked. The meatus—the hole on the tip of his penis—is supersensitive. Stick the tip of your tongue on that spot and apply medium pressure. It’s such a specific place, he probably doesn’t even realize it has feel-good potential, so he’ll love that you’ve discovered it.
4. Multitasking leads to more Os for you. Our experts say that being stimulated in multiple areas will help a woman reach climax more quickly. So while his tongue is at work, have him play with your nipples. In the beginning, he should softly stroke your tips, but as you get closer, he can squeeze.
5. A good grip can be nice. The ridge of his penis—where the tip meets the shaft—is very sensitive to touch. Cover your teeth with your lips, and place them around that ridge. Apply firm pressure—like how you squeeze fruit—then release and repeat. This movement perks up the nerves there and then lets them relax, which can feel really good.