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Watch This Scientist Perfectly Explain Why Your Breakup Won't Destroy You

And why it might even make you a better person.

Scientist Dr. Gary Lewandowski recently did a TED Talk about how breakups don't have to leave you broken.

In the video, he talks about how difficult breakups can be and how they can lead you to loss of self. Lewandowski wanted to do his own research on this, so he went out to see if there were people out there who had benefited from their breakups. He asked the saddest people he could find, which were people who had broken up within the last three months, had been in a relationship for a few years, and hadn't found anyone new yet. He found that 1 out of 3 people considered the breakup to be a bad experience, 1 out of 4 people said it was a neutral experience, but 41 percent said that overall the breakup was a positive experience.

Lewandowski thinks that's because a lot of failed relationships involve one person holding the other person back, and he found that those people experienced more personal growth at the end of the relationship because they rediscovered all the things they'd minimized or lost when they were with their former partner. He gives an example of dating someone who hated going to the beach even though you love going to the beach, so now that you're single, you can go to the beach and do similar things that you love.

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If you're currently mourning the loss of a relationship, remember: "Great relationships seldom fail. Bad ones do, as they should." It is wise, so wise.

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