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11 Truths He Needs To Know When You're On Top

He's gotta cool it with the butt-cheek grabbing.
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Woman-on-top positions can be great. Not only does it give you more clitoral stimulation, it's also a chance to take control. But just because you're the one riding him, it doesn't mean your guy can just phone it in the whole time. Here are 11 truths guys should know about sex when you're on top. 

  1. It's not an excuse to just lie there. 

    Just because you're the one on top, it doesn't mean he gets to kick back and close his eyes and just enjoy things. There’s plenty he can do with his hands and mouth.
  2. But he also needs to match your pace. 

    If he's going to insist on power-bottoming, he can't just start plugging away like a madman while you're also on top. It's the sexual equivalent of him trying to shake your hand when you go in for a fist bump.
  3. He needs to make sure he isn't staring up your nose, because you can tell. 

    If he sees some snot, he needs to keep it to himself.
  4. It's tiring. 

    Seriously, you're basically jumping up and down from a kneeling position. Add some weights into the mix and you've got a totally legit reason to skip the gym that day.

  5. You're not entirely sure what new position he's trying to contort you into.

    What's he doing with your ankles? Are you supposed to stay on top? Is he… trying to spin you?
  6. You might not be able to get off this way. 

    While woman-on-top positions offer more clitoral stimulation than other positions, it doesn't necessarily mean it's an end-all, be-all orgasm recipe. Maybe it gets you halfway there and then you need to add in a toy or some oral. Either way, he's gotta be game to switch it up at some point if you need.
  7. You might want to leave a bra on. 

    If you're doing lots of bouncing, you have a right to whatever proper equipment makes you the most comfortable. And that overrides his desire to watch your boobs bounce up and down.
  8. You can't kiss and ride at the same time, necessarily. 

    It's like trying to make out on a runaway mine cart.
  9. He can't just grab your hips and toss you up in the air. 

    That could be wildly uncomfortable for you. Plus, what comes up, must come down.
  10. He's gotta stop grabbing your butt cheeks as hard as he can. 

    It's like you're a plane on fire and he's white-knuckling the armrests. He needs to take it down a few notches. How are you supposed to find your rhythm if he's locking your hips into place?
  11. You could hock a loogie onto him, if you wanted.

    It doesn't mean you'd ever do it, but it's just worth noting.

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This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.