Q: "Help! I'm seeing my ex at a New Year's Eve party. I want to look great, but I don't want to seem like I super made an effort for him, you know? What should I wear?"
The last thing you want to do is to overthink and obsess about your outfit. If you show up to the party in a skin-tight dress with a low front AND back (and you've never worn that before), you're just saying, "Hey, look at me! I totally made an effort for YOU, ex!" Truth is, you can come in a pair of skinny jeans, a black tank top, sky-high heels, and a red lip—and still look great.
Remember, It's not what you wear to the party, but how you act during the party that makes you look like you're totally over him (even if you aren't). It's counter-productive if you end up wasted, ugly-crying and telling all your friends what an ass-face your ex was. Be cool. If you see him, say hi...
And then turn your back on him. Show him that your butt is hot AF in skin-tight jeans. That's #winning.
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