Ditch the conventional tenets of female arousal along with the passe trends of 2010. Here, Cosmo's new ways to enjoy sex--for a wilder, sexier 2011!
CONVENTIONAL WISDOM: You have to feel desire to get aroused. BOLD NEW THINKING: You don't need to be in the mood to get excited.For eons, women have been told how complicated their bodies are, especially sexually. And while it's