At some point in every relationship, personal belongings start becoming communal property. It starts with borrowing a jacket here and there, then suddenly you're sharing everything from phone chargers to everyday essentials. Before you know it, you're casually reaching for each other's skincare and perfumes.
If you've ever "borrowed" his fragrance before heading out the doorâor caught him spritzing yours when he thought nobody was lookingâconsider this your sign to invest in a scent you can both claim as your own. (It's also v economical, you know. đ)
The good news is that finding a perfume you'll both love is easier than ever. Many of today's most popular fragrances are made to be worn by anyone, blending notes like sandalwood, musk, fig, citrus, and cedarwood. Whether your tastes overlap completely or you're usually drawn to different scent families, these fragrances sit comfortably in the middle ground.
Read on for perfumes you both can add to your vanities:
Unisex Fragrances You Can Share With Your Boyfriend
Le Labo Santal 33
If you've spent any time on #perfumetok, you probably came across Santal 33 from Le Labo a lotâand for good reason, too. The cult-favorite fragrance blends sandalwood, leather, and cardamom for a woody scent that's still distinct without being overpowering. Since it doesn't lean too feminine or masculine, it's an easy fragrance for both you and your boyfriend to add to your regular rotation.
Jo Malone Wood Sage and Sea Salt
If your fragrance preferences are v different, Wood Sage & Sea Salt is a solid middle ground. The combination of sea salt and sage creates a scent that's clean and fresh, while the woody notes underneath add just enough depth. It's one of those perfumes that's inoffensive no matter when and where you wear it, which makes sharing it v easy and convenient.
Diptyque Philosykos
For many fragrance lovers, owning a Diptyque perfume is practically a rite of passageâand Philosykos is one of the brand's most-loved scents. Inspired by the fig tree, it blends green, creamy, and woody notes into a fragrance that's become a favorite among perfume enthusiasts for good reason. If you and your boyfriend are ready to venture beyond the usual fragrance categories, this is a great place to start.
Aesop Tacit
For couples who prefer their fragrances on the fresher side, Aesop's Tacit is an easy pick. Its blend of yuzu, basil, and vetiver creates a scent that's bright and citrusy, but not in the juicy, fruity way many perfumes tend to be. Instead, it smells clean, green, and a little more grown-upâmaking it a fragrance both of you can wear on repeat.
Maison Francis Kurkdjian Gentle Fluidity Silver
Of all the fragrances on this list, the MFK Gentle Fluidity Silver might be the most fitting for couples to share. Created as part of a fragrance duo designed around the idea of scent fluidity, it combines juniper berries, nutmeg, and amber woods for a fragrance that feels fresh, spicy, and modern.
Maison Margiela Replica Lazy Sunday Morning
Clean fragrances have been having a moment, and Lazy Sunday Morning from Maison Margiela Replica shows exactly why. With notes of white musk, iris, and pear, it smells fresh and clean while avoiding the v soapy finish some clean fragrances can have. If you're looking for a scent you and your boyfriend can wear to work, on date nights, and everywhere in between, time to add this to your wish list.
Byredo De Los Santos
Sharing a fragrance with your boyfriend doesn't mean settling for something basic or woody. De Los Santos stands out with its blend of sage, musk, amber, and palo santo, creating a scent that's fresh, earthy, and slightly smoky. It's a little darker than some of the other fragrances on this list, making it a great pick if you're both looking for something more unique.

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Cheska is Cosmo's Lifestyle Editor. She writes what your group chat won'tâon trends, dating, and 2 a.m. "Should I text him back?" thoughts. (You shouldn't.)