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We’re still clutching our hearts from kilig over the engagement of Ben&Ben's Pat Lasaten and Agnes Reoma, better known together as “PatNes.” And of course, we just can’t help wanting to know more about the famed comfort couple, especially among the LGBTQIA+ community and their fans, the “Liwanags.” In a recent interview with PatNes, they talk more about the depths of their relationship and their goals for the future, and we have so many ~feelings~!
“We’ve been through a lot in our eight years together,” shared the couple. But even so, they have always emphasized trust and authenticity as the key factors in their strong, long-running relationship. “We both have our individual struggles, and what really helped us through them was making sure that we were each other’s best friend and safe space.”
On life wins and the key to a long-lasting relationship
When asked about their biggest wins, you would think they would mention their band’s many hit songs like “Paninindigan Kita,” which featured their loving relationship. But alas, what they had in mind was much more special. “I think our biggest win is finally being comfortable with being a couple in public.” They added, “We also really gave each other time and space to be comfortable with ourselves, and eventually, we became more comfortable together.” Awww!
According to the two, patience and understanding also played a big role in making their relationship work. When it came to having conversations about sensitive topics like finances before settling down, they made sure to talk about priorities in spending, living arrangements, financial independence from their own families, etc., especially when both of them made a firm decision to get married only when they were both stable in all aspects of their lives.
A tip for couples who plan to get married
PatNes shared one practical tip for couples who are all in the same phase of their lives: “Discuss your finances before tying the knot. We think this will save you a lot of trouble in the long run, so if you encounter problems along the way, you already know how to handle them.”
They added, “Your perspective on budgeting and saving matters, too. Being able to openly discuss finances isn’t easy, but it’s necessary.” With the couple’s life goals ahead of them, proper financial planning was something they emphasized and even encouraged Liwanags to do.
“We really just want to live a comfortable life with each other," they shared. "We’re currently working on the renovation of our new place." They continued, "As early as now, we’re also saving up for our dream home and for our retirement.” The couple also excitedly notes, “Of course, we’re also saving up for our civil union outside the Philippines. We also want to travel the world, and we’re lucky enough to do this with our closest friends, who happen to be our bandmates as well.“ Isn’t that so inspiring?
PatNes' partnership with Pru Life UK
One of the steps they’ve taken to kickstart their financial plans was through their partnership with Pru Life UK. After all, their next set of goals includes getting an insurance plan with each other as the primary beneficiary. With the launch of the all-inclusive PRUHealth FamLove last year, it was almost a no-brainer to get protection and coverage to lay out a good foundation that would help them meet and achieve their financial needs and goals.
“We’re very thankful to Pru Life UK for giving us this opportunity to show the community that queer couples could have these benefits and financial opportunities like everyone else,” said Pat and Agnes. More than inspiring more Filipinos and sharing love through their music, the couple, along with Ben&Ben, encourages everyone to express their love to their families by securing their future.
“We want everyone to know that it’s achievable. What’s important is you have the intention to start. Don’t be afraid to ask for guidance,” shared Pat and Agnes.
Show ~*true love*~ to your loved ones with PRU Love
You, too, can show your love by securing your and your partners’ lives, health, investments, and retirement needs with Pru Life UK. Pru Life UK offers to help more Filipino families get the most out of life by offering a variety of investment-linked life insurance plans that help families achieve their financial goals while giving them higher protection and bigger potential earning.
The PRULink Cash Flow Fund Plus, the newest in the suite of expertly managed investment-linked life insurance funds which offers high potential payout of up to 6% annually or 1.5% per quarter, is for those who want a new way to secure a potential regular source of cash and guaranteed life protection through an investment-linked life insurance plan.
Meanwhile, the PRUMillionaire, PRULink Investor Account Plus, and PRULink Elite Protector are good for those who want to grow their family’s finances and prepare for long-term goals.
If you wish to put a premium on your family’s health, the PRUHealth FamLove covers Filipino families of different types and sizes, including same-sex or common-law partners, parents, and adoptive families. On the other hand, the PRULink Assurance Account Plus is for those starting their own families and who want protection while securing a bright future for their loved ones.
"We, Filipinos, go through great lengths for our loved ones. What better way to show your love on Valentine's day than to insure yourself and your loved ones, that's PRU Love," Pru Life UK Senior Vice President and Chief Customer and Marketing Officer Allan Tumbaga shared.
Know more about PRU Love by watching this video.
Experience the same PRU Love by securing your and your loved ones' futures starting today! Ask for financial advice from any PruLife UK agent. To learn more, visit Pru Life UK’s website and follow Pru Life UK on Facebook and Instagram.

