When you already feel like it's too late.
When you're right on track for the season.
And all the months to follow.
When there's probably a very good reason for your singleness.
When dating guys just doesn't seem worth it anyway.
And you remember that you're your best partner.
When you really don't know what you want.
Except, you know, unavailable people.
You've totally gone through a breakup while also being single.
When you decide to be optimistic about not dating anyone.
When your friends ask you to fix their love life.
And you happily do it.
When people are shocked that you're single.
When you're not into anyone really crushing on you anyway.
When you realize you'd have no idea how to be in a relationship.
When you're unabashedly open about your flaws.
And when you know you also have a lot to offer.
But for now, you're gonna do you.
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This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.