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Why Sex Isn't Just Sex for Women

Sexual experimentation sounds fun on paper--but maybe not for some girls.

kv_womensex1.jpgIn your circle of friends, there's always one person who's more adventurous than most, who enjoys experimenting sexually. Some women are quick to brand her as easy; men would too, except there's this side of them that craves this kind of promiscuity. She could be that one-night-stand men fantasize about, the late-night-booty-call or fubu (fu** buddy) majority of them wish they had.

But have you ever thought about it from the woman's perspective?[readmore]

A good friend of mine went through this stage before. In just a couple of years, she slept with more people (men and women combined) than some ever would in their lifetime. When I asked her why, she simply said that she was just having fun. She was experimenting with her sexuality and enjoying it.

One time, though, she came to me crying.

Apparently, one of her one-night-stands turned into a regular booty call. Nothing wrong with that, right? Except that she let him in. He wasn't just some guy she sleeps with regularly. Because they hooked up often, they talked a lot...and got to know each other. And before she knew it, she was starting to like him.

It would've been a cute story. Boy meets girl. Boy and girl sleep with each other. Boy and girl sleep with each other, a lot. Girl starts liking boy. Boy realizes he likes girl too. Except for one thing—he loves someone else.

She knew that there wasn't a chance in the world that he would leave the other girl for her. She WAS the other girl. She could pretend that she didn't care, because she was still sleeping with other guys at the time. But the fact remains. She was falling in love with him. And he wasn't going to be there to catch him.

Being a good friend, I didn't say, "I told you so." That wasn't something she wanted to hear at that moment. She was just having fun. But you know what they say. If you play with fire, you will get burned.

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