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Here's How To Really Respond To Catcallers

A witty comeback always works.

Catcalling, or “street harassment,” happens to almost everybody anywhere—whether you’re going to the train station, crossing the street to grab a cup of coffee, shopping in the mall, or just walking to class. You could be dressed up or down, and still you hear the whistles and the hollers. Here are the best ways to deal with them:

1. Always assess the situation first. If you’re on your own, outnumbered by the harassers, or walking in a deserted place, it’s wise to just ignore the catcaller. Head for crowded areas to dodge their sight. Don’t be aggressive; you might just add fuel to the fire. Call a friend to let him know your whereabouts.

2. “I know.”
Some catcallers believe (because they’re most likely deluded) they’re complimenting you when they say you’re sexy. As if. Glare at them and say you know. Your confidence and awareness will catch them off guard. Let them know they have no chance with you—never had, never will.

3. A witty comeback always works.
Sooo some dude just shouted, “Nice ass!” How about saying, "Nice lang?! My ass is marvelous/fantastic/phenomenal, okay?"

4. “Don’t tell me what to do.” A good retort to “Smile nga 'diyan!” or “Give me a hand job.” You’ll let the catcaller know you’re a strong person, capable of holding her own.

5. Acknowledge, but don’t engage. Gabrielle Rubin, the founder of the self-defense course Female Awareness, advises to shoot them a look that says, “I’m sorry you’re so pathetic.” You’ll let them know they crossed you, and that they behaved unbecomingly—or at the very least, you’ll make them think about what they’ve done.

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6. Explain to the catcaller that he’s being disrespectful. It’s possible that he doesn’t know that catcalling makes women feel uncomfortable and unsafe upon being overly and unnecessarily sexualized. Not everyone was raised to be respectful towards women, and not everybody who catcalls knows for a fact that catcalling is insulting, liked by nobody, and causes emotional stress. Helping him become aware and understand should make him stop.

Sources: The Huffington PostBusiness InsiderRefinery 29

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