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How To Give An Orgasmic Blow Job

A blow by blow account, if you will.
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Master Dominic, a sex expert, is a professional dominator who taught us every step we need to do to execute a fucking mind-blowing BJ. And of course, being the incredibly generous people we are, we're going to share all the tips we learned with you.

  1. Be enthusiastic.


    "Men care about more than just getting their dick wet. They'd prefer one amazing blow job every three months than an average one once a week. Men can tell if you're not 100% into it, so don't do it unless you're in the mood. It feels crap when someone is just humoring you."
  2. Lube is v v important.


    "Remember that a penis is designed to be stimulated by a vagina, so try to recreate that environmentwarm, tight, and wet. I personally prefer to use spit. Let me tell you, I've never once looked down at my penis and thought it was too slimy."
  3. His position matters.


    "Make your man either sit up straight or stand up—that will be easier for you. Men are incredibly visual, so a clear view of what's happening will only add to it. Then always keep at least one, both if possible, of your hands on him at all times. Having more going on will make him very happy."
  4. A minute or two of foreplay is enough.


    "A man's sex drive comes from a primal instinct of wanting to be inside you. Don't make the bit before the blow job too long—just a minute or two will do. Make sure you only wank with your hands by going from the tip of the penis to the base. Don't go up and down. This will make the sensation even more amazing when you go down with your mouth for the first time."
  5. In the beginning, go for the tip.


    "Curl your lips around your teeth and put your mouth around his penis. For the first couple of insertions just go for the tip. It's an extremely sensitive part of their manhood. Don't worry about deep throating unless you have a natural abilityit's a porn star myth that you should be able to do it, and if you don't have a wide mouth then it's just uncomfortable and unsexy. Also, moving the tongue doesn't make things that differentthe way it moves naturally is enough."
  6. Don't ignore the other bits.


    "The penis, balls, and the top one-third of the leg is the ~special~ place. Touching the balls feels really good for men, despite what society may lead you to believe. I've had about 600 balls in my mouth and only one person hasn't liked it. I recommend starting with a light tickle with your fingers. It's going to make them cum so much easier and your work will be halved. Then if he likes that, try a juggle or a tug, or if he has a low pain tolerance pull them up instead of down. That way he'll still get the sensation, without feeling like he's been yanked."

    "The bit between the bum and the penis is called the perineum. This is a bit of skin with a lot of nerve endings and can also feel amazing when touched. Respect his limits as he would yours, but if he's willing, then figuring out what he likes is all part of the fun."
  7. Use your hands.


    "Men can't feel the difference between your hands and mouth when it's all going on, so fake it till they make it. Use your hands as an extension of your mouth, being sure not to move your hand away from the mouth because then the coo is up."
  8. Slow is better than fast.


    "I think people go faster than they need to. Going fast can make him feel like he has to hurry up and cum. This pressure could make it harder for him to get in the zone. When you're going slower, the pressure is off and they'll feel more comfortable. Also once you go fast, it's really hard to slow down again in a natural way."
  9. Spit OR swallow.


    "No man has the right to tell you to swallow. It's your body, and if he tries to push you to do it then he's being a shit. Instead, keep going right up to that very moment. Use your hand if you don't want to swallow. After he's cum keep going with your hand for a couple of minutes. It creates a really nice intimate moment between the two of you."

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This article originally appeared on Cosmopolitan.com/uk. Minor edits have been made by the Cosmo.ph editors.